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Irrational Fears | How To Overcome It And Stay Positive by mazaguyh: 6:49pm On Oct 17, 2018
Fear is a feeling induced by perceived danger or threat that occurs in certain types of organisms, which causes a change in metabolic and organ functions and ultimately a change in behavior, such as fleeing, hiding, or freezing from perceived traumatic events.

A rational fear is a fear of something that presents clear and present danger, to borrow legal terminology. Moreover, rational fears must not be hysterical, nor should they be of something of a exceedingly unrealistic nature, i.e. actual danger shall not be exaggerated due to emotion or otherwise.

Almost everyone has an irrational fear or two—of spiders, for example, or your annual dental checkup. For most people, these fears are minor. But when fears become so severe that they cause tremendous anxiety and interfere with your normal life, they're called phobias.

Impact Of Irrational Fears
The thing about irrational fears is that we are not keen to look at them. It makes us feel inadequate, weak and daft because we can’t do things that it seems everyone else can. That gives the fear power.

Fear loves negative emotions and saps up yours making your fear bigger and uglier and even more powerful. Not ideal to say the least. Fears can cause us to:

Avoid situations where that fear may have to be faced. Dodging parties, new jobs, new experiences where we aren’t sure we will be able to protect ourselves.

Stop us from sleeping for fear the thing we fear will “get us in the night.” 

Feel ill with the stress. Stress can be the cause of wrong decisions. Drinking alcohol when we shouldn’t, eating chocolate because it makes us feel better, the list of excuses is long that we hold on to so that we can avoid the cause of our stress.

Cause more distress as our minds overload us with negative thoughts of inadequacy. This can damage our confidence. Having coached thousands, I know that a lack of confidence is usually the underlining impactor on most people’s success across all areas of their lives.
Risk looking aloof or arrogant because we won’t participate like other people. Our fears can even isolate us in our personal and professional lives too.

Feel debilitated. Needless to say, these fears may look irrational and shouldn’t exist to the outside world but to the sufferer they are debilitating. Even impacting on their earning potential, love life, hobbies, travels and personal and professional success.

Steps on How to Overcome Your Irrational Fears
Overcoming Irrational Fear is much of a mental exercise. It requires decission making and a strong will. Below are some steps on how to overcome your irrational fears

Why I’m awesome
Creating a 2-page handwritten document of why you are awesome can help. It not compulsory to make it two-pages. The point is just make yourself realize your worth. This document will be packed with achievements, successes, overcoming adversity and all of those will be full of positive emotions, actions and feelings. It is not easy to write, and I get many messages telling me so however it is a powerful reminder that you can stand up and accomplish.

Draw out your emotions
Earlier we looked at how irrational fears can damage every aspect of our lives. If you were to follow the negative spiral down you can follow the positive spiral up again.

Each arrow is an opportunity to do something different. If we know that irrational fear is an automatic thought process, then we can start to see that we need to think, do or feel something different. 
See details here...>>>https://www.infomaza.com/irrational-fears-how-to-overcome-it-and-stay-positive

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