tetralogyfallot:
am just week

it months and years self.

God knows, anybody that as much as threatens to molest my girls will not have a penis to live with. BTW, there's a possibility it's not even the husband, let the woman interrogate the girl thoroughly. It might be a teacher in school, an uncle in the compound, a school mate, or a visitor, etc. If it's the father, it's really terrible and the woman needs to leave the house with her children in order to protect them from such beastly attitude. Sexual abuse is more psychological than physical, we can't raise dysfunctional children because a man cannot control his erect penis Biko.

tetralogyfallot:
the girl said shes always feeling itches in the middle of the night. Shes a six year old daughter.

Might be enterobius vermicularis cos the itching always occurs at night and with intense pruritus, it leads to scratches and blood to boot. Please take her to a teaching hospital for proper examination and treatment.

Other differential diagnosis include
Vaginitis from bubble baths and use of nylon pants
Urethral prolapse: most common cause of bleeding in young girls

LadyAimy:
And you feels its her dad?

i wida oh! Something wey she go carry the girl go hospital she wan do local exam n allow her head judge the mara.

tetralogyfallot:
I don't want to believe but all directions is facing towards him cos he doesn't sound so serious about the issue

Tell the mother to ask the little girl who is touching her down there. Face the truth and stop beating about the bush.

tetralogyfallot:
I don't want to believe but all directions is facing towards him cos he doesn't sound so serious about the issue

lol u even call him a fool simply because he said it is probably medical problem... Medical problem requires a doctor's attention so if that is not serious enough then u should probably tell us what is serious

tetralogyfallot:
I think she sleeps deeply.

I'm suspecting u with that ur neighbor....she had this kind of issue and she discussed it with a male neighbor and ur first reaction is to suspect the husband...lol

tetralogyfallot:
I think she sleeps deeply.

I'm suspecting u with that ur neighbor....she had this kind of issue and she discussed it with a male neighbor and ur first reaction is to suspect the husband...lol and now u think she sleep deeply....hmmm hope u never sleep with her for the same room before?

BigGuyMan:
Mr man mind your business.

Leave the man to run his family whichever way he want.

You dey wait make the man break up or make them divorce so you go dey gbensh the wife.

We know people like ena, who sure say no be you disfigure that small girl pussy sef smh

Abi na I even ddey suspect the guy... .
He wan help scatter their marriage so that him go get access to kpansh the woman....

tetralogyfallot:
I don't want to believe but all directions is facing towards him cos he doesn't sound so serious about the issue

he might have issues on his mind. Not every father likes to hear issues about a girls private part. Such issues should be sorted out by the mother. That woman is stup.id. Let her take the girl to the hospital and stop her stu.pid conspiracy theories.

ChiefSweetus:
Fake and stupid story
She can listen to mumuz like you and ruin her marriage by falsely accusing the man or she can take that child to hospital and probably find out the poor girl has an infection and is the one that was scratching her pee-pee too aggressively
Seems you don't realise some men are very shy and averse to anything concerning their daughter's intimate matters. Only happens in Room and parlour areas with room and parlour mentality like op

Exactly . So many people has been accused wrongly and are living with the shame cos the thing is once this kind of thing comes out, no one cares to know if it's true or not they will just believe it

chii8:
Before you condemn an innocent man,let the mother give the daughter a close monitoring and a chat...at school,church and their residential area.Does she pick her daughter immediately school closes,or the daughter stay behind in school?who does the mother leave her children anytime she wants to run errand at home?do her children stay with her all through church activities or they are left with a sunday school teacher?

Because if the woman accuses the husband and it later turns out that he is innocent,that home will crumble ooo

Apt reasoning! This is the best comment here. I agree.

tetralogyfallot:
My neighbour called me today and told me shes suspecting her husband trying to sexually molest their six year old daughter.

She said early this morning their daughter woke up and was complaining of pains around her private area and lo n behold when she checked it she discovered that the hymen is almost broken and there's blood stain.

She asked the innocent girl and the girl said the place is always scratching her at night. She told her husband and the fool said may be its a medical problem.

She's seriously worried and disturbed, she called me this afternoon and it's really a pity when I saw the girls condition. I was dumbfounded and don't even know how to solve this issue please guys what advice should I give this lady?

Note: they are family of four, she, the husband, their daughter, and a son.

This story was cooked up by this OP. With this story, there is no connection between the man and the said almost broken hymen... If these was a true story, the woman in question must have asked the little girl some questions ; maybe if someone tried to get close to her private area etc... Pls, these kind of news should not be allowed to get to FP. They are gradually turning nairaland to a dumping ground..

chii8:
Before you condemn an innocent man,let the mother give the daughter a close monitoring and a chat...at school,church and their residential area.Does she pick her daughter immediately school closes,or the daughter stay behind in school?who does the mother leave her children anytime she wants to run errand at home?do her children stay with her all through church activities or they are left with a sunday school teacher?

Because if the woman accuses the husband and it later turns out that he is innocent,that home will crumble ooo

You said it all... Are you single?

EasternDamsel4:

Then somebody must be "fingering" that child. Another thing, when the mum sleeps, does she sleep like a log of wood?...I mean as a mum who has kids,she needs to be aware of happenings around her since they all sleep on same bed.

you have said it all. some idiot has been fingering that little girl... Imagine the pain she'll be going through now... .Op tell the mother to better act quick in whatever she wanna do.

ChiefSweetus:
Fake and stupid story
She can listen to mumuz like you and ruin her marriage by falsely accusing the man or she can take that child to hospital and probably find out the poor girl has an infection and is the one that was scratching her pee-pee too aggressively
Seems you don't realise some men are very shy and averse to anything concerning their daughter's intimate matters. Only happens in Room and parlour areas with room and parlour mentality like op

You have a valid point here!

tetralogyfallot:
I don't want to believe but all directions is facing towards him cos he doesn't sound so serious about the issue

are u sure u are not sleeping the mother of the said child?

tetralogyfallot:
My neighbour called me today and told me shes suspecting her husband trying to sexually molest their six year old daughter.

She said early this morning their daughter woke up and was complaining of pains around her private area and lo n behold when she checked it she discovered that the hymen is almost broken and there's blood stain.

She asked the innocent girl and the girl said the place is always scratching her at night. She told her husband and the fool said may be its a medical problem.

She's seriously worried and disturbed, she called me this afternoon and it's really a pity when I saw the girls condition. I was dumbfounded and don't even know how to solve this issue please guys what advice should I give this lady?

Note: they are family of four, she, the husband, their daughter, and a son.

Is very wrong to call the guy a fool. All men are not the same. I have 2 daughter's below 3 years and me and my wife work. I work full time while she work on my off. I take my first daughter to nursery when I am off. I do everything a women will do, like cleaning their poo, changing pampers, brushing, feeding. I am not shy because they are my daughters. I work in one of the busiest airport in the uk. When I talk about family with my workmates, some get shocked because I clean my daughter's poo or shower them. One told me he never does any of it because he is not comfortable with bathing his daughter. So, I understood everyone is different. I grow up with 1 senior sister and 4 younger sister's. I remember when I was still in Nigeria working in lagos, I used to go home every month ending. I do all their shopping like lady pad and all the necessary thing I know lady's need. Until I left for UK. So my reason of explanation is because you the op should know that people are different. Check her medically before you destroy a happy family with your own understanding and conclusion. Some men are very shy when it come to things like this while some act to find out more. So op, think before you conclude.

peacettw:


Might be enterobius vermicularis cos the itching always occurs at night and with intense pruritus, it leads to scratches and blood to boot. Please take her to a teaching hospital for proper examination and treatment.

Other differential diagnosis include
Vaginitis from bubble baths and use of nylon pants
Urethral prolapse: most common cause of bleeding in young girls

enterobius vermicularis symptoms is itchy anal area not vjay dear.

tetralogyfallot:
I don't want to believe but all directions is facing towards him cos he doesn't sound so serious about the issue

Very poor assumption.
The man said what every man is expected to say.
She has itchy private part and the man said it may be medical issue and u termed his suggestion unserious.
Itchy private part should be more of that woman's responsibility than the man's.

Well, the woman is the most unserious person.
Hw did she confirmed that the girl's hymen is broken?
Did she know that by her inserting finger(I beliv this is what she did) into the girl's private can break her hymen?
If she is suspecting the husband, is reporting to an outsider the best and first step to take?

She is not an intelligent woman.
What stops her from keeping an eye on the girl especially at night. Pretend to be in deep sleep and see if the husband will make any suspicious movement.
Has she ruled out that no one is tempering with the girl from outside, like school and neighbours?
Did she know that their son may also be a culprit?
Has she ruled out medical issue or she doesn't beliv that little kids can be infected with bacteria?

Accusing the husband before an outsider can ruin her home.

tetralogyfallot:
she's suspecting the man because he's the only man in d house, the other one is just a 4 year old boy.
She confided in me to give her a good advice on the necessary ways to tackle the situation and that's y I put it here so as to get peoples opinions.
I called him a fool cos he showed no remorse upon hearing that his daughter is facing threat of molestation. Any father that turns deaf ear towards that is a foolish man
Having a good and cordial relationship where u can be an adviser to a lady doesn't necessarily translates to dating.

For some reason You feel a lil girl can only be molested by a member from her nuclear fam?

In as much as the father was "lackadaisical" his suggestion of taking her to the hopital was the best

U calling him a fool is a pointer that the lady has already debased him to You before(hence my suspicion)

I pray I'm not right but don't forget that You as a male neighbour is also a suspect, so becareful with your utterances

TimeMachine:
No father will molest his 6 years old child.

Does not make sense to me.

You can not be too sure. I remember one case that was on ChazB show years back. The man molested his two daughters 7 &5 and infected the 5yrs old sef with STI and she died. He was caught red handed.

However I doubt if this case is a molestation.

The doctor has confirmed it. The girl has been molested.

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tetralogyfallot:
The doctor has confirmed it. The girl has been molested.

Somebody please hold my heart...
Some body...any body

ahnie:


Somebody please hold my heart...
Some body...any body

so pathetic! A girl of just 6years o

Amhappy:

You can not be too sure. I remember one case that was on ChazB show years back. The man molested his two daughters 7 &5 and infected the 5yrs old sef with STI and she died. He was caught red handed.

However I doubt if this case is a molestation.

it is, the doctor has confirmed it and is now a police case.

oshe111:
For some reason You feel a lil girl can only be molested by a member from her nuclear fam?

In as much as the father was "lackadaisical" his suggestion of taking her to the hopital was the best

U calling him a fool is a pointer that the lady has already debased him to You before(hence my suspicion)

I pray I'm not right but don't forget that You as a male neighbour is also a suspect, so becareful with your utterances

it is confirmed! Now a police case. The husband is the prime suspect.

tetralogyfallot:
it is confirmed! Now a police case. The husband is the prime suspect.

Hmmmmm.....


Care to elucidate on the "Comfirmation"?


Was the Husband's sperm found inside the baby?


As the Husband suggested, going to the hospital was the best thing.....



NOW THE QUESTION IS..........


WHO MOLESTED HER?

ahnie:

Somebody please hold my heart... Some body...any body

Where is the heart?

oshe111:
Hmmmmm.....


Care to elucidate on the "Comfirmation"?


Was the Husband's sperm found inside the baby?


As the Husband suggested, going to the hospital was the best thing.....



NOW THE QUESTION IS..........


WHO MOLESTED HER?

that is what the police are trying to establish but the key word here is the small girl said somebody used to scratch her where she urinates at the middle of the night. This statement alone speak volumes.