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Q by Flickzvill(m): 11:56am On Oct 20, 2018
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Re: Q by amaniro: 12:06pm On Oct 20, 2018
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Many think Pornography is a thing to browse and stop, like 20 ways to stop phonograph and masturbation grin it doesn't work!


Some think marriage or being busy is the keycheesy you'll still find your hand wanking.



The solution is Divine intervention

Collect the phone from him, porn is in his memory and eventually one day get a phone and watch full time. The effect of absence of sex education.

Hope am clear, divinity is the key
Re: Q by amaniro: 12:07pm On Oct 20, 2018
Flickzvill:
Hello nairalanders,

Long story short I Caught my junior brother watching porn again, this has been going on for quite some time now the other day I wanted opening a link address I saved in my bookmark on my phone I now decided to check my browser history I couldn't believe my eyes porn link everywhere and he is the only person that touches my phone and I don't browse porn.

My parents are very sad because this young lad is just 12 and a porn addict, we are looking for ways to stop this thing but don't know how, beating him won't solve anything because we don't follow him everywhere he goes.

Please mommy and daddys in the house please what can we do to solve this issue. Thank you



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Re: Q by Fierce11: 12:09pm On Oct 20, 2018
Would you rather have him spend money on oloshoes and w.hores? Would you prefer to have him waste his time, energy, money and spermatozoa on a lady that'll later label him a rapist.. And he'll have to use his last dime to fight the ''cr7 case''?..
My friend.. Please stfu.. If i were you, i'd supply him more data so he'll be able to extend his research on such pleasurable fantansies.. I can bet my dinner that he has been watching only ''teen category''.. Do well and get him data so he can scroll through ''pov'', ''brunette'', ''blond'', ''ebony'', ''secretary'', ''hard.core'', ''cfmn'' and others.. Don't forget to remind him that ''milf'', ''maid'', ''interracial'', ''uniform'' and ''bbw'' still remains the priority and should be his top choices..
You are lucky he isn't gay sef..
Re: Q by Flickzvill(m): 12:10pm On Oct 20, 2018
amaniro:



Call Mynd44 and lalaticlacla to push it to front page to get a wider perspectives of people.
ok thank you
Re: Q by Flickzvill(m): 12:13pm On Oct 20, 2018
amaniro:
shocked



Many think Pornography is a thing to browse and stop, like 20 ways to stop phonograph and masturbation grin it doesn't work!


Some think marriage or being busy is the keycheesy you'll still find your hand wanking.



The solution is Divine intervention

Collect the phone from him, porn is in his memory and eventually one day get a phone and watch full time. The effect of absence of sex education.

Hope am clear, divinity is the key
thanks for your contribution
Re: Q by NwaAmaikpe: 12:14pm On Oct 20, 2018
shocked



He is legally under-age to access porn.
Apart from that;

There's nothing wrong in anyone watching porn.
It's actually an instructional guide for an exam with a very high failure rate which every one of us will eventually take.
But he is preparing far ahead of time.

I'd advice you guys set up age restrictions on his browser or take away his access to the internet for now till when he is 18.
Then he can watch porn however he wants to.

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Re: Q by Nobody: 12:22pm On Oct 20, 2018
Its a bad habit he has grown comfortable with over time. You'd have to 'retrain' him so he can 'refocus' his mind on other things. See psychology text for more comments
Re: Q by lordpherow98(m): 12:52pm On Oct 20, 2018
I still don't get it
Why is almost everyone against watching porn?
Not like it's harmful to anyone's health.
I enjoy watching porn just as I enjoy football matches
Sometimes I watch in company of my gf and it's cool to me, relieves me of stress.

OP the only negative point I saw from your above piece is his age. Porn viewing shouldn't be open for under age peeps. Other than that, I see nothing wrong

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Re: Q by ifyalways(f): 1:21pm On Oct 20, 2018
How did it start? Who has been feeding him live p0rn in your house?

Dunno how you gonna stop him but please put an eye on him so he does not go bout rapiiiing the neighbours children.

Temporary solution is taking all internet access away from him.

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Re: Q by iupac120: 1:55pm On Oct 20, 2018
Hmmm! Some comments?
If you care to know; porn leads to masturbation and the end effect are fornication, unwanted pregnancy, STDs etc.

OP, you need to open up to your younger brother that you know about his addiction. However, don't condemn him but try knowing why he engages on it. He's too tender to be watching porn. Try as much to identify his friends perhaps they introduce him to it.
More so, always allow him to engage other responsible kids in outdoor games maybe boredom of being lonely caused him to find solace in porn.
Finally, always pray for him. It is by God's mercy that he will overcome!
Shalom!!!
Re: Q by 1Sharon(f): 2:42pm On Oct 20, 2018
He is 12 and is at the age of puberty. He is curious and trying to learn too. Talk to him about sex and tell him porn isn't very realistic.
Don't come at him with a holy than thou attitude cos you'll just alienate him. Don't shame him either, cos that won't work.

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Re: Q by CAPSLOCKED: 3:03pm On Oct 20, 2018
1Sharon:
He is 12 and is at the age of puberty. He is curious and trying to learn too. Talk to him about sex and tell him porn isn't very realistic.
Don't come at him with a holy than thou attitude cos you'll just alienate him. Don't shame him either, cos that won't work.

HE'S STILL GROWING UP AND AT 12 HE'S AT THE STAGE OF EXPLORATION... THEY SHOULD ALLOW HIM CUS THREATENING AND TORTURING HIM WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS WORSE.. IF HE CAN'T DO IT THE HOUSE HE'LL DO IT ELSEWHERE. OR DECIDE TO START CHECKING OFFLINE ON LITTLE GIRLS AROUND.

12 YEAR-OLDS IN MY STREET ARE ALREADY DOING DRUGS.. THIS FAMILY SHOULD THANK THEIR STARS.

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Re: Q by Flickzvill(m): 3:18pm On Oct 20, 2018
Thanks guys I really appreciate
Re: Q by 1Sharon(f): 4:00pm On Oct 20, 2018
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HE'S STILL GROWING UP AND AT 12 HE'S AT THE STAGE OF EXPLORATION... THEY SHOULD ALLOW HIM CUS THREATENING AND TORTURING HIM WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS WORSE.. IF HE CAN'T DO IT THE HOUSE HE'LL DO IT ELSEWHERE. OR DECIDE TO START CHECKING OFFLINE ON LITTLE GIRLS AROUND.

12 YEAR-OLDS IN MY STREET ARE ALREADY DOING DRUGS.. THIS FAMILY SHOULD THANK THEIR STARS.

Hmm..I'm just thinking tho. Hopefully he doesn't get tempted by what he sees in those videos

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Re: Q by Richy4(m): 5:24pm On Oct 20, 2018
Your younger brother was curious.... At his age, that's when proper guidance comes into to play but it's unfortunate that his friends and peer group has won the battle by guiding him towards porn instead of his parents or U as the big brother......

If I may ask, how many times have you called him to tell him what he's gonna pass through at puberty? things like wet dreams, Sex etc...normal locker room talks that might help him open up to you in future.....You should know that If he opens up to you through that angle, that's when you would satisfy his curiosity and answer any burning question he got within him.. and he would not have resulted to porns.. if u did not do your part, you don't have to scream now....You people cannot leave every thing in the hands of teachers at home......

Even some parents are very embarrassed to talk about sex to their kids... they tell them to pray as if prayer would answer the question on how they were finding hairs on their pubic region, armpit and the other places...

you should know that kids of nowadays are more curious than the kids of 80s, and 90s...especially when Internet is easily accessible this days..

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Re: Q by Nobody: 8:47pm On Oct 20, 2018
undecided

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Re: Q by Martinez19(m): 1:47am On Oct 21, 2018
Porn, porn, porn. Don't be harsh on the young lad. Tell him to focus his energy on other productive stuff. Porn is addictive and time wasting. In future, he might get so addicted that he will spend time meant for studying and doing useful things to watch porn.

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