so many ways,
1. pay cash in2 her a/c
2. shop for her at the best mart in JD
3. put her first in your discussions
4. pretend to be caring
5. take her out on her b'day
6. do it well, (on the bed)

buy her a car

kateflow:

buy her a car

LOL. , it's like you read my mind. . . a car will keep me smiling all day . . lol

kateflow,
a tight car like Hummer. abi?
"eyin le je komo kore oko dele" (it is ur type that deprive fine boys the fruit of their labour)

w/e. . . and i was joking. so chill

toyinrayo,

are u sure?

sure. . .trust me

Always say you are sorry even when you are not at fault stupid

honeric01:

Always say you are sorry even when you are not at fault stupid

toyinrayo:

confused?

honeric01:

Always say you are sorry even when you are not at fault stupid

Haba, i think say na only girls dey do this thing.

Wetin this emancipation dey cause, i nor go fit talk!

michelin89:

Haba, i think say na only girls dey do this thing.

Wetin this emancipation dey cause, i nor go fit talk!

Wetin u think say na only girls dey do?

honeric01:

Wetin u think say na only girls dey do?

this and that.

uhm, this and that, ha ha well, i am speechless

Cool, I do all these stuffs to my girl apart from the guitar part and funny enough I am making plans to enroll for guitar lessons on saturdays.

I'll give her reaction beside each point:


1. Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous(not fine, or sexy) - She likes that

2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . even if its just for a second. - She's cool with that too but sometimes says I do it too much even though she does it too.

3 . Kiss her on the forehead/ neck. - She's cool with that but complains that it leads to something else when we are alone so she doesnt let me when we are alone.

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to. - I dont know how she feels about this.

5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you. - I tried that many times with devastating results. I've told her I wot do it again.

6 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most. - Small things like waht?

7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. - In fact, she occupies 90% of my time. You can imagine am at work, just called her now and then I'm typing this.

8 . Write her notes. (she loves them) - She loves them really but I get tired cos she doesnt write me too.

9 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend. - She's cool with that and she does the same to me.

10 . Play with her hair, Cheesy. - I think this is one great aphrosidiac, especially when you are alone. I hope she doesnt discover that just like the kisses.

11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her. - This is really very sexy. I still hit her bum while dropping her off this morning. I think she finds it very funny, like a game. Sometimes she's touching my dick just b4 dropping her.

12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her. - One great one, we actually do this especially when we have to wait for some reason b4 sth or after.

13 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes. - Cool, sometimes she jokingly says "you over-exaggerate"

14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms. - She's cool with it, sometimes not. she says "You'll be tingling my boobs and then sth happens"

15 . If she's mad at you, kiss her. - Depends on how mad, sometimes I get slapped.

16 . Give her piggyback rides. - cool games we often do. I try to get my ride back but she says I'm too masculine.

17 . Bring her flowers - she really loves this one.

18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone. - cool, some player-haters try to dissuade me saying I love her too much. I ask them if they dont love their babes and that settles the rift.

19 . Look her in the eyes and smile. - She smiles back, sometimes she says "what's funny" and I better not come up with "I was just admiring you" crap because the next diagreement or argument we have she'll say "no wonder you look at me sometimes and just smile, I knew something was up your sleeves"

20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants. - Sometimes am not in the mood but she still wants to take the pics. I think some of them are not good enuf, she doesnt agree with me. On one occassion, I had to secretely delete some of the bad pics claiming it must have been a virus attack. I'm an IT guru you know.

21 . Kiss her in the rain. - We never get in the rain. Indoors while it rains and cold, my favourite moments.

22 . If your in love with her . . . tell her. - She's cool with it as long as it's not in the middle of a disagreement. I really love her though.

23. Play a song for her most likely on a guitar. - Dont know how to play yet. Will learn that this 2008. I have a passion for music produced raw and I think I do an album someday.

So.

aww, this is really really lovely,

all Lies jare,

It would take a lot for a naija guy to do all this things to a chick. Havent seen one yet tho, pity

babeX if na so then u be house girl

How would you advise to go about the lady during crisis periods - like when she's cranky or you two just don't get along?

Not always rosy with ladies you know!

That was really good. I was smiling while i was reading it.

I don't believe those stuff written there.i don play the nice guy tire.nothing worked out.my conclusion is that chics(most) like jerks,don't know why.who has time to learn guitar, you do all this stuff,you'll be tagged as either soft or worst Gay by some chics.

ways to make a girl smile

Good luck Mr. lova boy,
You did all these 2 ur gurl yet she left you 4 anoda guy
Bros na waoo 4 youoooooooooo

BabeX:

It would take a lot for a naija guy to do all this things to a chick. Havent seen one yet tho, pity

No sweat baby sounds as if u're so much i need of 23s, can help u

ZM4EVA, u really did anice job listing those things.
Actually, i'm new on nairaland and iwant a frnd who's
gonna xplain more about nairaland to mii, & i think
it will be kool 2 av u 4 a phrend.

i dnt think it applies to all nigerian gurls that i know, its only 1 thing they know and thats money!

Zainabtiam:

ZM4EVA, u really did anice job listing those things.
Actually, i'm new on nairaland and iwant a frnd who's
going to explain more about nairaland to mii, & i think
it will be kool 2 av u 4 a phrend.

wow!

weebay:

i dnt think it applies to all nigerian gurls that i know, its only 1 thing they know and thats money!

might be right but some of them chics are on Z4M 23's level

guy, i believe you men, ur lines are just ok.

Z4M4eva: 1. Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous(not fine, or sexy)

2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . even if its just for a second.

3 . Kiss her on the forehead/ neck.

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.

6 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.

8 . Write her notes. (she loves them)

9 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10 . Play with her hair...

11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.

12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.

13 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.

14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16 . Give her piggyback rides.

17 . Bring her flowers

18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.

20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.

21 . Kiss her in the rain.

22 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.

23. Play a song for her most likely on a guitar.

so natural..

This sounds good academically.But my Naija gurls would sure want to extend that list to capture some many more things. I bet some would even offer to replace that list completely.

chrisd: And then to ruin everything, tell her you're catholic

pls u better stop this catholic of a stuff>am a bishop>lwkmd>sincerely stop it<
Z4m4eva>can i start nw>wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww