Please I will like to know if what I did was wrong or right. Kindly read through and advice me.



I slept at my boyfriends house so we can talk over some issues but he refused to give me listening ears, I was so pained and worried in the morning that I only dress the bed spread that we slept together with and went home although a times I do sweep the room in the night cause I do leave his place first thing in the morning

Was I wrong not to sweep the room? And please I will like you to trow more light on doing some domestic work at boyfriend's house some say is wrong that it will make one look desperate while some say is good I just don't know which one to follow



In my own case once I visit him at night I do make sure that I wash any dirty plates and pots and sweep his room that same night but sweeping of the room is once in a while let it not be as if am making him to look like doesn't sweep his room



Please I need you to talk over this biko

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WTF is this rubbish?

do ur best & leave the rest... & be extremely careful with judgemental people...that's how domestic violence starts...it's understandable u got angry & left early.

Be ur self that is the main thing. Don't pretend when u are hurt and don't go to the extreme to prove u are hurt. Expressing ur self in simple and clear terms matters alot in a relationship. Ur guy has the right to keep quiet maybe he is not in the right frame of mind for such discussions you should try understanding his mind at time so u don't appear being self centered. For washing plate and not learn to do ur bit don't over do. If I am ur guy I will be very careful with u right now. If u can Neglect things cos you are angry then it's possible when we get married u can leave me hungry cos u want to protest. But my dear the truth is depending on how far u both have gone. He should be able to understand ur mood and call u too for a make up talk.

Was I wrong not to sweep the room? And please I will like you to trow more light on doing some domestic work at boyfriend's house some say is wrong that it will make one look desperate while some say is good I just don't know which one to follow

what will it take you to tidy your boyfriend's room that you slept in.

if you don't have common sense,at least you should have a default sense