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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by golddeejay(m): 10:29am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Women are delicate, so handle her gently. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nobody: 10:31am On Oct 26, 2018 |
DeeTweenie:you can only get use to it, if it is by birth or by choice. but when it is as a result of life circumstances, you will always do everything within your power to make sure that you change your situation. she is right to be desperate for marriage but the only bad thing about it is that , her sense of judgement will be clouded 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Jokkarm2: 10:31am On Oct 26, 2018 |
from what you said, she must be Yoruba and if you know that your mind is not there, please tell her to keep searching she will see. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 26, 2018 |
As a man or woman , your family can only pressure you if you allow them to pressure you. Shun them and they'll come back to their senses. So sad some Nigerian parents still reason like they're in 1920 |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by johnad3(m): 10:36am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Why some parents usually forces their children to go into marriage? I know she's ripe for marriage but adding pressure on her it's not best thing. And on you man you don't specify if you like or not liking her. if you like her, let her know you do, but if you don't let your gestures communicates that to her but don't tell her you don't like her. because when universe present love to us and we resist it, there's a great punishment coming in. that's my advice |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by dochenaj: 10:39am On Oct 26, 2018 |
chiommy123:Those 35 year olds might look happy but when you get close you will see they are depressed most of the times especially when they are alone. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by jaxxy(m): 10:42am On Oct 26, 2018 |
ikihealthplus: Just tell her to work really hard on her self esteem. She may be average in beauty and slim bt that’s what sm men love not everybody likes chubby ladies. Her looks isn’t the problem it’s her self esteem. She should work/improve on herself personally outside work stuffs, list out all the things she likes and work on achieving them and making herself happy 1st. If she wants to add alil weight, fine let her do it cos she likes to or cos it wud help her. Then other things will fall into place. She can’t give what she doesn’t have she needs to work on being happy with herself then she can make sm1else/partner happy. Stop seeking validation from men bt instead be cheerful, humble, bt confident in herself. She needs to ask herself why do guys breakup with me and never the reverse. The issue cud be from her or from the guy. In anycase she needs to know the reason. Shes 29 bt if she works carefully on the right things she can achieve her goal probably b4 she’s 30 or a years time. U don’t rush into a lifetime commitment like that. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Benekruku(m): 10:43am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Use her for money rituals |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by DavidEsq(m): 10:44am On Oct 26, 2018 |
CreepyBlackpool:
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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nuel1235(m): 10:45am On Oct 26, 2018 |
CreepyBlackpool:
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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Thom1759: 10:54am On Oct 26, 2018 |
ikihealthplus:best advice to her is for her to overlook those pressures coming from her mom and mind her day to day activity. Live her normal live and trust me when you least expect things that's when it would happen. Marriage no be by force and it's not compulsory either. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by victorian(f): 10:55am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Advice her to take it easy and take life jeje. It's not all about getting married but stay happy in marriage. And is she ready to stay in marriage? Not just doing the wedding and that's all. It's more than wedding day. Make she take am easy. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by sashishalom(f): 11:03am On Oct 26, 2018 |
link her with your friends or family... besides you better remove that bestie tag oh.. follow her to church too.. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Klington: 11:03am On Oct 26, 2018 |
CreepyBlackpool:
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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by femi4: 11:06am On Oct 26, 2018 |
chiommy123:29 is not just for a lady. Menopause cometh from 40 |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by derbykol(f): 11:06am On Oct 26, 2018 |
dochenaj:Exactly |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by openmine(m): 11:16am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Let's stop involving God in matters that he has already solved for us..... Now since God has given us everything that pertains to life,its now left for us to ask ourselves what's really holding us back from enjoying the good things that God has bestowed upon us! If you look deeply,you will find out that what might be stopping this lady may just be her attitude or lifestyle or the kind of friends she has.... If you want to become a better person in life and seek to enjoy all the good things of life, You must evaluate.... Your lifestyle,Your attitude towards others and the kind of friends you associate with! If there is one thing that pushes suitors away,its a ladies lifestyle and attitude.... Your attitude determines your altitude... It defines your character! It will either attract or repel people! So choose the right attitude and lifestyle! Some one once said....Show me 5 of your close friends and I will tell you what you will become in 5 years time! A friend will either improve and motivate you to attain greatness or bring you down to suffer with them! The choice is urs! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by hope4nigeria(m): 11:17am On Oct 26, 2018 |
ikihealthplus:why can't you, did she have Ebola? Why is every body avoiding her including op? Her picture sef . |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by xtremeTall(m): 11:18am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Paste me her numba then |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by SugarSpill(m): 11:31am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Yes Op, please and please just get her back to God and He will do the rest. Yes He will. But Op, do you know the way to God? You can't give what you don't have. joseo: 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by kushercain: 11:38am On Oct 26, 2018 |
alignacademy: Apparently the babe is too skinny for op |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by kushercain: 11:39am On Oct 26, 2018 |
sashishalom: You na big fish o, just d way I like it. May I pm? |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Teespice(f): 11:44am On Oct 26, 2018 |
mind your business henceforth to avoid stories that tickle the behind. she has no business discussing her personal issues with you and you shouldn't have indulged her by listening in the first place. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by faithfull18(f): 11:46am On Oct 26, 2018 |
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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by edunaking: 11:48am On Oct 26, 2018 |
SoNature:you deserve a bottle of stout 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Retrography(m): 11:50am On Oct 26, 2018 |
chiommy123: By fvking everywhere based on my experience. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by wisdomdc: 11:51am On Oct 26, 2018 |
If you really wish to help her, then marry her, she will be the best wife ever, as for flesh, she will soon add up after she has given birth, and you all now have a desired lady size!!!! |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by faithfull18(f): 11:52am On Oct 26, 2018 |
Biingoo:Your line of reasoning really needs change. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by frozen70(f): 12:00pm On Oct 26, 2018 |
Since you understand who she is and what she subject herself to Seat her down and tell her your observations about her Tell her the truth It's either she believes you or not Then if you are not interested in her, leave her to sort herself at a very early stage |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Daeylar(f): 12:09pm On Oct 26, 2018 |
So because YOU op think she is too slim, you told her to eat well and She actually started eating well so she could add weight to satisfy your request? As if skinny girls don't get married. Wow. poor girl. She's just an average lady in terms of looks but too slim, she doesn't have much flesh. I've advised her to eat well. She has anyway but she just added Weight a little. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Daeylar(f): 12:11pm On Oct 26, 2018 |
hope4nigeria: I feel bad for laughing at this Lol. I'm sure it's not everyone avoiding her sha. |
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