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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Dafreeguy(m): 8:29pm On Oct 29, 2018
Princedapace:


Good for her..

I can't pay all that money for list and she becomes fat. Naaaa
lol..u prefer paying d list for another slim lady who might definitely get fat too? unless u want her as a side chick
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Princedapace(m): 8:35pm On Oct 29, 2018
Dafreeguy:
lol..u prefer paying d list for another slim lady who might definitely get fat too? unless u want her as a side chick

Side chick things na..
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Dafreeguy(m): 8:38pm On Oct 29, 2018
Princedapace:


Side chick things na..
Nothing do u baba..but if she decides to play d kinda game u playing with some random niggas,...let me go no further
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Princedapace(m): 8:40pm On Oct 29, 2018
Dafreeguy:
Nothing do u baba..but if she decides to play d kinda game u playing with some random niggas,...let me go no further

Then she should come and pay all the items on my own list..

I paid for all.. This is what u people don't understand.. As long as men keep meeting those heavy lists, we will always feel entitled..

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 8:47pm On Oct 29, 2018
chilisauce:


Chai, "don't try this at home"
Such a guy would be famzin with oropharyngeal cancer (throat and mouth).

Though some call girls keep their veejay neater than some small girls with big gods, but going down on a call girl is a no brainer.

Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 8:51pm On Oct 29, 2018
bukatyne:



See women who can't string a correct sentence in English get girdles, makeup, jewelry and hairdo to make themselves attractive to their men.

It is an attitude suntim.


I entirely agree with you. It helps that you're a lady so you know as the thing dey be.

I believe no woman wants to look shapeless and bloated. Some are non-challant about it, while some are trying.

It's just the same way many ladies have physical desires of their men but the guys just dont seem to care. They can't even be arsed to wear clean clothes or have a good haircut.
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 8:53pm On Oct 29, 2018
cyberhike:


According to his post, he has made adequate arrangements for the gym.. Yet you re still asking
anyway na im wahala if his wife is as fat as a hippo and refuses to exercise.its is cross.he should carry it.
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by bukatyne(f): 9:14pm On Oct 29, 2018
chilisauce:


I entirely agree with you. It helps that you're a lady so you know as the thing dey be.

I believe no woman wants to look shapeless and bloated. Some are non-challant about it, while some are trying.

It's just the same way many ladies have physical desires of their men but the guys just dont seem to care. They can't even be arsed to wear clean clothes or have a good haircut.

Very true.

May our willing attitude produce positive effort which translates into results.

Nothing as painful as profitless hard work.

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Elxandre(m): 9:22pm On Oct 29, 2018
philsbaba:
The guy no open eyes. It's easy to spot a woman who has the tendency to get fat. Very easy. The guy no just get orientation cool
How bro?
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 9:26pm On Oct 29, 2018
Truth is when women get married and start having kids, they seem to be non -challant, they lose that desire that makes their man go head over heels after them. Abacha pass, they eat, Okpa pass, they eat, Akara, roasted corn, everything, dont care about diet anymore., and it's bad.
They painful aspect is the big tummy that now bulges out after child birth, and they don't seem bothered about it undecided.haba
Every man want to show off his wife, party's, meetings wherever, but when your wife is not showable, wetin you go do na. Side chick fills the position.
This is a lesson to women, marriage and child birth doesn't mean you should care less about to ur body and diet, me can't put up with a fat woman o.. Shikena

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by colossus91(m): 10:27pm On Oct 29, 2018
arose keh? tot it was arouse
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by labelle123(f): 10:27pm On Oct 29, 2018
chilisauce:
Let's just tell ourselves the truth and not deceive ourselves. Even if she slim like broomstick with banging figure 8, guys will still fvck outside if they want to. It's in our nature to cheat as men, all this talk of too fat, yad a yad a yad is just for moral justification.

Beyonce is like a Venus to many guys, but even with her perfect body, baba Jay Z still carry dick go outside.

As 'hot' as Tiwa savage be, what happened with Uncle Tee?

Ironically, many women have braced themselves even before marriage, knowing that the chances of men cheating is higher than the chances of rain falling in July. Many of them no dey even carry am for head again, they wantu live long.
. So on point
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by vicben27(m): 11:21pm On Oct 29, 2018
lefulefu:
so sperm really makes a lady fat? Ok those female pornsters upon d way dem dey drink sperm why dont they get fatcheesy.
sperm from a singular source is healthier. a recent research reveal that if a female has multiple male sexual partners it could lead to cancer, due to the multiple sperm actives within her system. if you've noticed most ladies who have multiple sexual partners age faster than, usual.
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by ponti93(m): 11:28pm On Oct 29, 2018
U knw i broke up wit a gal over this same issue... She told me las las dat i shuld love her the way she is... Wtf... I told her dis is nt d way i met u na... I am bursting my ass in d gym to look and be fit... And u busy getting fat on me... Nah...
To all those shouting that its d husband's job to make her slim down... I ask... You can take a horse to d stream, can u force it to drink...
Some gal are damn too reluctant and lazy when it come to keeping fit... They eat like whales and burn very little...

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 11:35pm On Oct 29, 2018
bukatyne:


Very true.

May our willing attitude produce positive effort which translates into results.

Nothing as painful as profitless hard work.

I say Amen for you dear. May you have a husband who complements your effort. And if you're married already, may the juice not run out on the marriage.
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Seahawk: 11:40pm On Oct 29, 2018
Moronn
Princedapace:


I always tell my woman, "add weight and watch me bring a slim girl home.. After all, I paid all the items on ur list"
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by LeoFish92(m): 12:19am On Oct 30, 2018
chilisauce:
And bukatyne, if I may add, women indeed go to hospitals and are expending alot of time on trying to get rapid weight loss.

In naija, have encountered many in my practise, and for most, I refrain from prescribing drugs for many reasons. We still advocate exercise and diet, which brings us back to Sq 1. Even in the western world with all the free healthcare and good economy and free gym sometimes, the burden of overweight women is very very high. Ironically, the men here are more demanding of slim figures than naija men grin cheesy


Thinking you are a regular Joe, I was about to commend you on your blue-chip knowledge and brilliance, the gilt-edged use of tense and punctuation. But seeing that you are a medical practitsioner, I now know better.

Be that as it may, I've been observing your comments on this particular thread and I've been immensely impressed. Keep it up.

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by iamrealdeji(m): 2:56am On Oct 30, 2018
highqueen:
Every man's fear is getting married to a slim or nice shaped lady only to end up seeing a 3,bedroom flat in the next 3years after marriage.grin

Women should have the habit of working out to remain in shape, Once they noticed they have added some weight.

That's how one of my married friends was telling me that she is now free to add weight since she is now married.grin
that's what they all say before they get married. you will see what you would look like after you get married too

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by iamrealdeji(m): 2:57am On Oct 30, 2018
oga,no dull. Just marry second wife

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Princedapace(m): 3:16am On Oct 30, 2018
Seahawk:
Moronn


My brother, u dont have to abuse me.. Just jump and pass. Is it u business?

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by layzie: 5:25am On Oct 30, 2018
MZEE01:
It's your duty to control her body and mind transformation.

This man is selfish. I can judge him from his complain here. He was motivated by the sex into the marriage, not real love. Why are you running outside to complain about the woman you claim you love?

Your wife is your wife, and you must try beyond complaints to get her to lose weight. It's hard to keep pace with what we first saw in women at first sights. But becareful not to be motivated by 100% mere looks and beauty alone.

A typical example is buying a brand new car and expects it to remain same after 10 years of been rough-handled.

Sadly, adding weight is a Nigerian thing, where it's is believed such transformation is a real sign of enjoyment and motivation to lose weight is very low.

Bro, get to work on your wife to make her what you want her to be, rather than running from your responsibility.


Good write up but no tips. What do u suggest the man should do to make her lose weight? Note the things he has done already
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by delishpot: 8:41am On Oct 30, 2018
introvertme:


He tried handling it privately, didn't you read the paid gym membership?


So after that social media is next? If that was his wife making such complain online will you support her?
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 8:46am On Oct 30, 2018
vicben27:
sperm from a singular source is healthier. a recent research reveal that if a female has multiple male sexual partners it could lead to cancer, due to the multiple sperm actives within her system. if you've noticed most ladies who have multiple sexual partners age faster than, usual.
damm u goodcheesy. This could explain why runzgirls,female pornstars,small girls with big gods,slayqueens and ashawos tend to age faster and look much older than a normal babe of the same age.thumbs up for dis infocheesy

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 8:55am On Oct 30, 2018
layzie:


Good write up but no tips. What do u suggest the man should do to make her lose weight? Note the things he has done already
he should engage in physical activity himself and when he's working out he should encourage his wife to join him. He should take note on the type of food they eat in the house. Do away with the junk food they have at home and advice his wife why its so advantagious in eating healthy. Na by buying gym membership card. I have seen some reality programs where an american husband will encourage his mobidly obese wife to lose weight and while she's engaging in d programe he will be encouraging her frm the sidelines and even join her in the exercise routine. B4 u know it d woman go dey motivated and she go shed off her excess and even come carry a curvy figure. Its only in nigeria that a man if im wife add small weight he will be thinking of abandoning her. Is weight an everlasting tag? If u have weight u can shed it off.its not as serious as dat.
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 9:06am On Oct 30, 2018
delishpot:



So after that social media is next? If that was his wife making such complain online will you support her?
maybe the guy might even have a big pot belly himself but na im wife own im dey see. Make im motivate im wife to exercise. Its not by buying gym membership card. Dats not enuf. There are men wen dem dey exercise they take their women along with them and b4 u know it d woman go shed off d weight. If he married her wen she was slim and she has added excess then na sumptin cause am. Buying gym membership card for her and sittin back to relax no go solve d matter.

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by delishpot: 9:36am On Oct 30, 2018
lefulefu:
maybe the guy might even have a big pot belly himself but na im wife own im dey see. Make im motivate im wife to exercise. Its not by buying gym membership card. Dats not enuf. There are men wen dem dey exercise they take their women along with them and b4 u know it d woman go shed off d weight. If he married her wen she was slim and she has added excess then na sumptin cause am. Buying gym membership card for her and sittin back to relax no go solve d matter.


You are blessed even though you may doubt it from time to time.

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Divay22(f): 9:56am On Oct 30, 2018
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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by Nobody: 9:58am On Oct 30, 2018
highqueen:
Every man's fear is getting married to a slim or nice shaped lady only to end up seeing a 3,bedroom flat in the next 3years after marriage.grin

Women should have the habit of working out to remain in shape, Once they noticed they have added some weight.

That's how one of my married friends was telling me that she is now free to add weight since she is now married.grin

I think its laziness and complacent to work out at the gym, the pain is unbearable but worth it. Most are lazy to stick with it, I was too at a point till pot belly started appearing

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Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by MarieSucre(f): 5:32pm On Oct 30, 2018
Princedapace:


I always tell my woman, "add weight and watch me bring a slim girl home.. After all, I paid all the items on ur list"

And that slim girl will remain slim forever se especially after childbirth.
Re: Man Cries Out Over Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body Doesn't Arose Him by funlord(m): 4:53pm On Oct 31, 2018
Dresmithen:

Very true


Dominique mynd44


Take down the account of this scammer

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