To hell with the test. After she assisted them to prepare the food then she would now be served no meat to compliment the meal, the mother in-law has brain disorder!

What stupid test,when she even washed the goat meat used to prepare the soup.
I will conclude that my would be mil just sent me a message which is'im not welcomed.

Anybody who supports this is very wicked.
Most nigerian men want slaves in the guise of a wife

kense88:
Is not true. The mother in law is simply wicked and silly. You served me food i participated in cooking, knowing fully well am aware that the food was prepared with meat and you called that test ? That is pure wickedness and simply suggests that the husband could actually decide to starve her and the kids in future, even when the money is there.
It could have been a totally different case, if she did not participate in cooking the food, hence not aware that the food was prepared with meat.
I think they simply disrespected the lady. The guy is suppose to apologise

you got it wrong participating in the cooking is just like an expo it was just a test and she failed this is Africa

The only issue here rests on the f00lish blogger who, after eating pieces of meat from the plate, decided to frame a story around the meal.

made up story to generate reactions.....I am better than this!!!

Acidosis:


The only issue here rests on the f00lish blogger who, after eating pieces of meat from the plate, decided to frame a story around the meal.

Gbam..:-)

Olatunji1929:
you got it wrong participating in the cooking is just like an expo it was just a test and she failed this is Africa

which expo U are so stupid!!!! Don't u guys engage ur senses when reasoning?

MajorJeffery:
What if the househelp served her the wrong plate of food? Why would a good wife to be not eat freely with her intending mum in law in a friendly way? Why would she wait to be served when she participated in the cooking? So many questions to be asked.

Last time I saw my sister's mum in law visit her, my sister wouldn't let her eat her food in peace because she was dragging her mum in law's food with her and I admired their friendship. My mum raised us that way, not to take life too seriously and my sis is taking advantage of that on her mum in law.

Some people take life too seriously and that's why they always have issues.

Is it her kitchen? The Mother in law is in the best position to make her son's wife to be free around her!!Friendly way ko! Enemy way ni!

ottohan:
Is it a must to eat with fish and meat.??
I hate the smell of fish and I dont like meat sef...
I wonder how pple eat meat..dont it look as of u are eating ur flesh?

Did you study medicine?

DonEd:

Grow some wisdom. Not all things are learnt in school or social media.

You need this advice more!! Wisdom have deserted you.

It may have been a test. But i don't like tests and being put under some kind of microscopic watch by inlaws to be.

That said...she should have stylishly asked if she wasn't worthy enough to be served with meat or fish. Because in Nigeria, it speaks volumes when you are served without meat especially when it is not lacking.

So both the server and the servee both have faults.

This is why I call them stupid-heads, empty headed girls.

Simple test of humility you failed woefully.

ottohan:
Is it a must to eat with fish and meat.??
I hate the smell of fish and I dont like meat sef...
I wonder how pple eat meat..dont it look as of u are eating ur flesh?

shut up.

What manner of stupid test is that? Some mothers will bring out heaps of clothes when their son's fiance is around and start washing all in the name of useless test. If you cannot treat your guests with a little bit of dignity, then you're an awful person and your family is not one a sensible lady should marry into. It is obvious the family in question is looking for glorified slave not wife.

LadySarah:
What stupid test,when she even washed the goat meat used to prepare the soup.
I will conclude that my would be mil just sent me a message which is'im not welcomed.

Anybody who supports this is very wicked.
Most nigerian men want slaves in the guise of a wife

Chai! See 250 yards of wife material o
I'm sure she mopped the compound when she finished with the gate

Lalasticlala should come see the lady who was tested.

Very annoying mother inlaw.

Olatunji1929:
you got it wrong participating in the cooking is just like an expo it was just a test and she failed this is Africa

No bro, if your going to put me through a test with meat, probably to know if i would hang on during hard days, then you have make it look like there was no meat in the first place. Otherwise, i will perceive it as a wickedness. Is a very stupid test by the way and an insult to her person. I wouldn't even look that food twice

I don't want know whatever rubbish some guys are talking here. Your only problem here is sweet mouth and lack of discipline. Believe me your fiance planned that with his mom to know if you would stand with them in had times.

Likewise when a company wants to offer you a job, they won't just call you to come and take over a position instead they will interview you to know if you're the ideal candidate for job or if you're the type they're searching for, including your salary preference. But if unfortunately you failed the first interview, the won't call you again.

See my dear, humility is the key. And I know it's not been long you've been dating. So they want to know you without delay. Peradventure your wedding should have been this Christmas. It's an Expo. Another one is still coming, but you got to be careful.

IamD18:
What exactly is wrong with people on this thread? Like, what kind of mentality do we have?

Some said she was tested..... Wtf

What manner of test was that? For crying out loud,the foolish mother inlaw disrespected the said lady, because you'll never try such to a lady you have utmost respect for. You won't. It's so humiliating an disrespecting.

You helped her in the kitchen, washed the meat and cooked with her, all for her to send a maid to serve you without meat, and you lots called that "Test?"

As a man, how would you feel if your mother-inlaw-to-be serve you without meat when you know she cooked with meat. Will you call it "Test"

It's even sad most ladies are condemning the lady.

>That woman v'got no regards and respect for her son's fiancé.
>There are high possibilities that more test will come from the woman if she had passed that disrespectful type of test.
> No wise lady who know her worth will ever tolerate such humiliation from a mother inlaw.
>A wise woman should marry where she'll be celebrated, not tested and tolerated.

That woman don't like her. Period!

no mother expects her daughter to be the one in charge of financing the family when they get married so such test can't happen to a man

Olatunji1929:
you got it wrong participating in the cooking is just like an expo it was just a test and she failed this is Africa

Is this how Africa is supposed to be?

Desperate women everywhere why will you even still dail the number of a boy that has such a mannerless mother
IF you give any in law a Chance they will be happy to disrespect you. In the name of a test. Who is testing their mannerless son that you are managing?

IamD18:
What exactly is wrong with people on this thread? Like, what kind of mentality do we have?

Some said she was tested..... Wtf

What manner of test was that? For crying out loud,the foolish mother inlaw disrespected the said lady, because you'll never try such to a lady you have utmost respect for. You won't. It's so humiliating an disrespecting.

You helped her in the kitchen, washed the meat and cooked with her, all for her to send a maid to serve you without meat, and you lots called that "Test?"

As a man, how would you feel if your mother-inlaw-to-be serve you without meat when you know she cooked with meat. Will you call it "Test"

It's even sad most ladies are condemning the lady.

>That woman v'got no regards and respect for her son's fiancé.
>There are high possibilities that more test will come from the woman if she had passed that disrespectful type of test.
> No wise lady who know her worth will ever tolerate such humiliation from a mother inlaw.
>A wise woman should marry where she'll be celebrated, not tested and tolerated.

That woman don't like her. Period!

1:she is probably broke and
2: they are checking to see how much shit she'dbe willing to accept from them.

IF she is wise she will just throwaway that true excuse for a husband and go be a baby mama.
Because that family is just showing her how much shit/disrespect she is coming in to face

Don't mind those ladies that will support anything, they just want to impress the men, and such end up with users like the aunty up there

Nobodys:
some test are not necessary you know...buh the girl should have handled the situation maturely though...

We let little things bother us, why not become a vegetarian for few minutes it won't hurt....
As long as I love and cherish my man, I can't let things like this bring issues between us.. no no its not worth it.... Simply eat a little portion, go home and buy 5000naira meat, invite future hubby to your house and consume all the meat... DO NOT GIVE FUTURE HUBBY ANY SINGLE MEAT.......

The babe needs to calm and learn how to laugh things off......

Bullshit it's actually a test and if she went through with it she just opened the door for more disrespect. Be there loving your man when he doesn't give a shit about you, if he did he will never accept his mother treating you like that.

For those of you nonentity supporting this type of thing, you will end up with such MIL, especially the ladies

Mklanceee:
how can you serve someone food without meat? soup for that matter. if it were to be me, I will just tell her I don't eat without meat

wa pe n be.....

see mouth like I don't eat without meat....
correct hunger never catch you be that......

I don't buy the MIL idea of testing the lady. Even if she eats the food with anger it won't change the type of person she is. How can you allow her to wash the meat, then serve her with out it. Haba that's total disrespect from the MIL. well everybody with their own yardstick. As for me, I don't like such and I won't allow my mother test her in such manner.

That family suffers from extreme poverty of the mind. Who does that in this day and age? Many of the posters here who agree to this manner of "testing"a potential spouse need to have their heads examined. Can the mother-in-law try that nonsense if the girl was Dj Cuppy, Dangote's daughter or some privileged rich girl?