which of these is good after having heartbreak from someone you love with whole your hearth, sugar mummy or dating married woman who loves you, Any of the two can contact me on these number, 08054571215 or 08135501665, name Oyinkansola

i no understand u o,u mean say u neva find since dat tym

if i have find i wouldn't have been on here, Tho i travel for couple of days and just got back from my Trip and there was no network on phone where i went to then, So maybe contact must have been contacting me but cos of network affection, I guess, So can u help

ok lets start frm ere

ow old r u

Yeah thanks and may i ask you this question r u on yahoo IM, If yes kindly chat with me on sannioyin, I am online, kindly chat on there and atleast we can aswell share pictures

is dat answer 2 my question

Yeah i am gonna say more of myself to you, And presumed you contact me now on yahoo IM, If yes may i know why you not responding again to me, You ask is this me homealone and i said Yes, Y u not responding again?

na wa o

Y na wa ooo

check out vanguard on sundays check nairalist you will find babaes willing to hook up. my advice though is that you dont sound desperate. that can be counter productive.

@buttkick, How do you mean and what else do you want me to do?

search no more for you will never find becos you are destined to be HOMEALONE.

Ah Ah Ah why, What did i do wrong Ma/Sir?

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Ah Ah Ah why, What did i do wrong Ma/Sir?

you did nothing wrong my son but by their fruit you shall know them. your name have said it all therefore you must always be home alone!!(no companion)

@Love.4Bug, i rebuke it just that after been heartbreak then makes me come up with that name and kindly come to my rescue while i change the name, As soon as i have companion,

my guy i know its difficult after a break up but the next best thing not to do is rush into another one. as the song goes 'wise men say, only fools rush in ' ive had my fair share and im no longer botherd because move on i must but how is what ill share now. i said earlier dont look desperate a babe will get turned off cos you have to be the man - cool and in control. going mama mia wont get you there. mingle at the right places inluding nairaland. if you were in abuja i could pull you into my circle of friends and you may meet someone who is friends to who is so so and so's friend. on sundays vanguard newspapers has this page for intenders for friendship and love if youve got the credit to burn log into any you may fancy and your dream may come true. as for me i engage in a new task or hubby like learning how to play a new musical instrument. if thats too touchy for you join a foreign language class, there might someone to help out with homework after tutorial meetings there. goodluck and pls try to have some fun. life is short.

bravo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@buttkick ,thanks for your msg and your enlighten word, Anyway i am not that type also but only lately i can't bear the pains and that's why i am making hell post on here bro, Wish there's a way out,

the pains are basically the void that you feel cos like the late mj sang 'she's out of my life, ' secondly its the feeling of rejection. non of like it makes us feel less than what we think we are or worth. then that crazy thought that she is doing what she used to do to me alone with somebody else. im sure you know what i mean. furthermore you miss the fun activities together, her perfume, smell, laughter and shadow of her smile. boy i must tell you its a tough call just wishing all that away. your conatantly looking for a closure. now thats the point where you must reach so you can move on.

start by critically analysing the reason(s) behind the breakup. be objective and agree on the errors made. forgive yourself cos the healing starts from you. then forgive her. when you do you may choose to keep reminders out of the way cos they will break you down every time you come across them. i may sound kinky but i go as far as removing photos gifts from constantly bargging into them. now i can sit back and remnisence cos im over them.

then you must move on. you can follow the tips i gave in my earlier post. you must move on. do some volunteer work if you can find it. its refreshing when you achieve some goals and can help with self worth elbows.

finally my friend again i say life is short enjoy life cos she might not give a hoot about what you feel. move on

@buttkick,Yeah sound mature and kind response, Tho sometime messages or looking @ couple around you holding eachother hands or even going for picnic makes things worst when i am alone, But wish i can have grace to face thing, Tho i have my business but wish someone is around to cheer,share on this with me,presumed u know not all things needed to be share with friends or neighbour but so something r important u may want to share with ur soulmate, Wish u understand,this are part of thing missing in life, Wish u understand, Wishing to read from you soon

trust me guy ive been there and i understand. its curious to think back now that ive gone through all those motions and im standing. not only standing but have also become stronger. have you started on the road i pionted you out on. it may be difficult cos i suspect you are an incurable romantic like me. we love too much.

all in all you need to start. the quiet lonely evenings and endless homealone weekends will come but it will become easier when you start with each passing day.

cioa!

Thanks bro, Anyway i need a way out soon, Need someone to come into mylife soon, I mean someone of good heart,kind and God fearing soulmate,

are you intentionally being evasive by not revealing your gender.

and oyinkansola is a female name.

@tpiah,Sorry i got no ideal on whatever you mean, I am who i said i am to everyone, Well the name sounds female now but guess maybe i need to ask my parent why that name, But to me Oyinkansola is a general name okay, I am Oyinkansola Adebowale, Male and here's my number, 08054571215 and 08135501665, I am not freaking anyone of turning things off anyone, just been blunt and i am really tired,

sola, if i may call you that, you are still hung up and strung up. if i may add adrift. most rebound relationships dont work cos when you stabilise you will start looking for what you really want. besides i think you need to get into the friendship zone cos you sound like someone who will go whinning about his ex even if someone good did come along. thats not very good. i dont know your location but there must be some mingling zones around there where you can meet people, start conversations, exchange numbers etc. pls dont go whinning about your ex cos whether you like it or not all of us have got one burden or the other we are carrying so your out look matters a lot.

so spruce yourself up young man, you sound intelligent enough to strike of a promising converstion with the kind of chick youre looking for, step confidently like youve got no care and that you can carry her cares youd be suprised that she will be more than willing to be by your side 247.


take the leap sola and i dont mean to be rude - get off that whinning cliff.

Well guess no one willing to come my way, I am tired of everything for now, Y me God?

you just exclaimed aloud the cry of the victim.

sola step up and step out. there are a thousand and one beautiful and promising chicks out there waiting. but you wont see them cos youre still looking out for your ex in the crowd.

you have not taken any of the hints ive given you these past days. your destiny is in your hands and is dependent on no else but you cos you make the choices every time. simply put - its your call.

ciao!

^^sola is not the short form of oyinkansola.

different pronounciation and meaning.

what is going on here?

n wat does it resemble

Hi bro,sorry i haven't been on since i went to bed early then, Yeah i appreciate your call then and honor it, But wish when next ii am gonna return my calls to you,wish i have good testimony and lovely word to you, Mean while,My MTN phone was stolen yesterday and you reach me on Glo till when i get a new phone soon, Thanks and you there still hunting for the right soul mate, Wish you get back to me, 08054571215 and 08135501665, Oyinkansola, Male

@tpiah,My full name is Oyinkansola,male and not sola, my short name is Oyin(Honey), Not sola, So?