lefulefu:
my brother even very ugly girls still cheat. U might be unlucky to end up with a very ugly girl with bad character who is a serial cheat. U might also be unlucky to end up with an attractive lady with bad character and a serial cheat or u might just be lucky to end up with an attractive lady with good character and she's loyal. Its a wrong perception that its ladies who arent attractive that make good wives. U might even be surprised that this benue girl that this guy dropped 2 million naira and 250k as bride price might be a very ugly girl who still cheated on him with her ex.

it's not all about luck my brother
I am not saying cheating or no cheating depends on the beauty.
But the truth is that most guys refuse to calm down and do their investigation. I can't spend 3 months with a girl and not tell exactly who she is no matter how much she pretends. Guys who wants to get married shouldnt be afraid of digging deep into the girls past. I have a theory that says "Who a person is at the age of 18 is who he or she will be forever. people don't change"
I can also give the same advice to ladies, look beyond the money and dig deep into the past, a serial cheater will never ever change, he may only pretend for a while

IamD18:
Never you in this country as a guy expect much from much from a lady because 100% of unmarried Nigerian ladies are hardcore prostitutes disguising as girlfriends, ready to spread their disgusting and smelling pussay to any available man.

>If you must date them, see them as prostitutes on time and do well not to invest your emotions on them.
>If you must marry them, also see it that the only things they can offer you are babies and sex, nothing else, don't expect much from them, they are never satisfied, they are not loyal, they can never be loyal.

They'll claim to love you because of your money, while deep inside them, their private part is ready to fall inlove with any available diiick.

To you my guy who her wife-to-be cheated, do well to keep your cools and be strong. It's just unfortunate that God cursed Nigeria with bad women.

I just stumbled on InMessage, God, Nigerian women are something else.
I will never, ever, take you women serious again.