highqueen:
Yawns.

Disrespect kor, Please, get busy with something.


You both lack manners.

highqueen:
Yawns.

Disrespect kor, Please, get busy with something.


You both lack manners.

highqueen:
Yawns.

Disrespect kor, Please, get busy with something.


You both lack manners.

highqueen:
Yawns.

Disrespect kor, Please, get busy with something.


You both lack manners.

Daniwes:
So recently she was mad at me, giving me attitude - you know when girls start getting mad at you for no reason, you just let them be.
SIGNATURE MOVE OF THE GIRL THAT DOESN'T VALUE YOU.

She asked I drive her to somewhere to do some registration, which I obliged. We were still fighting then, but I had to do it as she had a pain on her leg, and so couldnt walk properly.
O! SUCH A CARING DARLING YOU ARE.

Well fastforward, inside the car, she continues with the attitude and she starts receiving calls from different guys,
LOL. SORRY BRO.

talking and laughing out on the phone, which I ignore. But there is this particular guy which I know through her to be her best friend of some sort...
LOL

He normally calls her often, they talk, nd all and he knows very well we are dating, even though he has asked her out before. So, he was around even greeted me before I took her from her house.
MESSAGE TO THE MEN, IF SHE TELLS YOU SHE'S GOT SOMEONE.. YOU LEAVE HER ALONE. WE KNOW SHE'S NOT GONNA CUT YOU OFF BECAUSE SHE ENJOYS THE ATTENTION YOU GIVE HER, AND YOU CAN WIN HER IF THERE'S A SLIGHT SLIP UP... BUT YOU DON'T WANNA BE THE CAUSE OF DAMAGE TO YOUR KIND, YOU KNOW IT GOES AROUND, RIGHT?

Fastforward...So he calls her while we re driving, talking on the phone where I then hear her telling the guy that "I m annoying and I wouldnt apologize for what I did wrong"and all those other stuff in my car. I also heard them deciding whether to see later that evening or not.
ALL THIS IN YOUR PRESENCE.
ARE YOU THE PETTIEST PERSON ALIVE OR WHAT?

I kept minding my business and decided to turn up the volume of my music which then seemed to disturb her call. She then turns it low and then an argument ensued where she abruptly left the car where I was stopped at an intersection.
IF YOU CONTINUE TO LIVE FOOLISHLY LIKE THIS YOU DESERVE ALL THIS AND MORE FROM THAT GIRL.

On the way home, I got a call from a girl, and pretended we were talking and also deciding to see. She then kept asking me who I am going to see. It was at that point I got mad at her behaviour.. cos you cannot play judge and jury on me.... Well, I sternly still warned her not to try such disrespect with me... We argued, were quiet for the rest of the trip, dropped her home and broke up there and then... She probably didnt expect it till I asked for one important item I left in her place, she then texts me to pack her stuff in my place while she does same,..... I m like naaahhh.. forget everything and come arrange her own stuff whenever she ready.
I KNOW Y'ALL GONNA MAKE UP WHEN SHE COMES AROUND CUS YOU'RE SOFT AND ALL THAT BUT FROM YOUR POST, YOU'RE AN EASY GUY, AND HER UBER DRIVER.
YOU'RE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP, SIR. THERE'S NO WAY FORWARD WITH SOMEBODY THAT BEHAVES LIKE THAT. YOU ONLY KILLING YOURSELF OVER SOMEBODY THAT'LL HOP INTO THE RIDE OF THE NEXT AVAILABLE GUY WHO SHE THINKS WORTH MORE THAN YOU.

IF A GIRL TALKS NONSENSE ABOUT YOU, IN YOUR PRESENCE, TO HER MALE BESTIE WHO ALSO HAPPENS TO BE TOASTING HER.... IT'S TIME TO PACK YOUR BAGS.

ImaIma1:
You both are acting like children. And do you feel too proud to apologize to her when you have wronged her?

Because I have noticed that some guys will form ignorance and want to go on like nothing happened instead of acknowledging their offence and apologizing.That is disrespect.

Both of you are probably better of apart.

Daniwes:

I obviously didn't type much, but if I tell you I wanted to talk things with her and apologize where I did wrong, you wouldn't believe me. I asked what I did wrong, she wouldn't tell me... Meanwhile the attitude started when I told her I couldn't see her due to my busy schedule (After already meeting twice in the same week). Well, I did resolve not to bother myself with her poor level of communication and lack of respect. Its not my job.. Maybe the next guy can take care of that

Daniwes:

I obviously didn't type much, but if I tell you[b] I wanted to talk things with her and apologize where I did wrong, [/b] you wouldn't believe me. I asked what I did wrong, she wouldn't tell me... Meanwhile the attitude started when I told her I couldn't see her due to my busy schedule (After already meeting twice in the same week). Well, I did resolve not to bother myself with her poor level of communication and lack of respect. Its not my job.. Maybe the next guy can take care of that

Postfut:

Apologize? Why you? She should be doing that to you for disrespect. Truly you are a sissy, a paragon of a nice guy.

Desperate, lacks options, too nice, effeminate, toady. Truly you deserve to be disrespected.

J2381:
the best way to say this is to use pidgin. The girl don see the guy finish. To her, the guy na proper M.U.M.U that's why she dey do all dat nonsense.

I bet you say no be today she even start to dey do am sef. Imagine, talking sh1t about the guy in his presence. Lawd!, if na me, na dere I go stop the car and throw her out.

Postfut:


Exactly. I was extremely pissed when reading the story sef. In your OWN car with your OWN time. The guy doesn't value himself. Too subservient.

If it was me, Let me stop here.

Daniwes:

Bro... Plsss don't get things mixed up... She is on crutches. I didn't add that not to make it TMI. so when she threatened to leave the car, I knew it was blackmail playing there. I also know her uncle she lives with and would rather drop het back home and breakup there and then, which I did