its been a while a posted on nl cos i have been enjoying my relationship so far.
of recent, my gf began to change.she was used to being in contact with me 247.but now, when i call her and perhaps shes not around the phone to pick it up, she won't bother to beep me when she eventually sees the missed calls and this is unlike what she used to be.
what she did last thatz making me write was that; i told ha i was coming over yesterday.i got to ha place at the stipulated time only to be told by her friend that she went out abt an hour ago.i was beginning to get upset so i called ha up.she said she was still around the area that she was just going out and i should wait for her till she came back.i ws mad.i kept mute.after she got back, she had not too good a time together .she was supposed to travel that evening so i walked her to the bus stop. when i tot she should have gotten to ha destination, i called to check on her but the fone rang thrice without her picking up. i tot she wasnt around so i chilled for her to beep me when she sees the missed calls but she never did.i called back some 2hours later and she told me she had gotten there, saw the missed calls but was feeling headache so could not beep me back(flimsy excuse).i was upset so i rebuked her immediately and cut the fone. i later called to ask abt the headache and if she had used sth and i discovered her response was cold.av not called her ever since and she has not bothered to call text or beep me.these things are very unusual of her. i see them as signals but dont know what to do.whether to respond to these signals or am just overreacting.what do u guys think?

Hard 2 say. But the signs she is showing, says, she either got a new man or she's tired of U.

she jst called now to say hi and talked as though nufin has been happening.is she playing on my intelligence?

She just might be going thru a phase. Stick wit her. Tell her how u feel witout being judgemental. I believe she'll come around.

thanks Lord, feel relieved like that's what av been waiting to hear.

yemium:

thanks Lord, feel relieved like that's what av been waiting to hear.

hahaha, u better free her now, she's tired of u, and ur not giving her room to miss u, i don't think u want to free her, but i bet it would do u good if u do now

Omolulu:

hahaha, u better free her now, she's tired of u, and your not giving her room to miss u, i don't think u want to free her, but i bet it would do u good if u do now

u make sense.maybe what i'll just do is give her room to miss me not to leave her.thanks/

yemium:

its been a while a posted on nl cos i have been enjoying my relationship so far.
of recent, my gf began to change.she was used to being in contact with me 247.but now, when i call her and perhaps shes not around the phone to pick it up, she won't bother to beep me when she eventually sees the missed calls and this is unlike what she used to be.
what she did last thatz making me write was that; i told ha i was coming over yesterday.i got to ha place at the stipulated time only to be told by her friend that she went out abt an hour ago.i was beginning to get upset so i called ha up.she said she was still around the area that she was just going out and i should wait for her till she came back.i ws mad.i kept mute.after she got back, she had not too good a time together .she was supposed to travel that evening so i walked her to the bus stop. when i tot she should have gotten to ha destination, i called to check on her but the fone rang thrice without her picking up. i tot she wasnt around so i chilled for her to beep me when she sees the missed calls but she never did.i called back some 2hours later and she told me she had gotten there, saw the missed calls but was feeling headache so could not beep me back(flimsy excuse).i was upset so i rebuked her immediately and cut the fone. i later called to ask abt the headache and if she had used sth and i discovered her response was cold.av not called her ever since and she has not bothered to call text or beep me.these things are very unusual of her. i see them as signals but dont know what to do.whether to respond to these signals or am just overreacting.what do u guys think?

Next time before you post, sit down and read what you want to post. There is too much grammatical errors.

To be sincere, i couldn't read all, but from the first few lines and replies, When next you see her, tell her how uncomfortable her attitude as made you become. Let her know your mind. Be careful with the way you talk, Do not be bossy, be gentle with her and believe me if she has something in mind, she will tell you,

Good luck,

she is about to move on dude

change break too

lovemoi2:

Hard 2 say. But the signs she is showing, says, she either got a new man or she's tired of U.

Here is what i think too ^^^

do you think you can wait till she maybe breaks the relationship up? or until she goes back to normal?

We get tons and tons and tons of these same stories all the time on NL. It's as if people just copy and paste and then perform little tweaks here and there, but basically the same gist.

Don't you learn from other people's gist ni?

She's just not that into you. She no gbadun you!

You can stay there and fight for her or you can move on. Your choice

If she changes gear, you should either press the break or throttle.

omo~fat:

We get tons and tons and tons of these same stories all the time on NL. It's as if people just copy and paste and then perform little tweaks here and there, but basically the same gist.

Don't you learn from other people's gist ni?

She's just not that into you. She no gbadun you!

You can stay there and fight for her or you can move on. Your choice

gbam! so on point

@OP-in simple engleesh- d girl no like u, she wan waka, free am

deoyel25:

If she changes gear, you should either press the break or throttle.

lol

Dude, its obvoius your girl is got someone making her ga-ga. To pay back, you got to be strong. Blank her out don't call or text or flash. she ll buzz after 2 weeks, if not move on, she ll still respect you. Dont be a sucker by running after her.