Ladies who would u rather choose to marry, Guys who would u rather be?

Mr. ABC is handsome, in his late twenties successful n rich. He has a nose for business dat is second to none n is quite a successful professional. Oh did I mention he is single as well. Eligible bachelor with all the trimmings dat come wit success. There's virtually nothing he can't afford. Although single he knows how to lavish a lady wit gifts.

But his Achilles heel? He is cold n detached hardly forms relationships wit people outside of business or professional basis. On those rare occassions he forms an alliance wit a lady it neva lasts long cos even though she gets a lot materially from him she neva has a sense dat he was there for her. Now how ever he wants to get married. He will do anytin for his wife but she shouldn't just ask him to change cos he won't.

Mr. XYZ is also handsome, in his late twenties n single. Moderately successful he can afford all d basic things in life. He is a happy-go-lucky guy who once committed to anything including women stays true to his commitment.

He knows how to sweep a lady off her feet even though her can't lay the world at her feet. He is lively n fun to be wit; the phrase 'never a dull moment' was made for him.

He too is looking to settle down n knows he will give the best of himself to his wife n kids. However his present n foreseeable future earnings put him squarely in the average category.

So who would u choose/be?

if i am going in for a fling then Mr. ABC does it for me

if i am gonna be the decent type and would really love to settle down and raise a happy family with a sweet home then Mr. XYZ does it for me

but to conclude i would rather go with Mr. XYZ because him having a sense of humour is definitely gonna sweep me off my feet

Lord_Reed:

Ladies who would u rather choose to marry, Guys who would u rather be?

Mr. ABC is handsome, in his late twenties successful n rich. He has a nose for business dat is second to none n is quite a successful professional. Oh did I mention he is single as well. Eligible bachelor with all the trimmings dat come wit success. There's virtually nothing he can't afford. Although single he knows how to lavish a lady wit gifts.

But his Achilles heel? He is cold n detached hardly forms relationships wit people outside of business or professional basis. On those rare occassions he forms an alliance wit a lady it neva lasts long cos even though she gets a lot materially from him she neva has a sense dat he was there for her. Now how ever he wants to get married. He will do anytin for his wife but she shouldn't just ask him to change cos he won't.

Mr. XYZ is also handsome, in his late twenties n single. Moderately successful he can afford all d basic things in life. He is a happy-go-lucky guy who once committed to anything including women stays true to his commitment.

He knows how to sweep a lady off her feet even though her can't lay the world at her feet. He is lively n fun to be wit; the phrase 'never a dull moment' was made for him.

He too is looking to settle down n knows he will give the best of himself to his wife n kids. However his present n foreseeable future earnings put him squarely in the average category.

So who would u choose/be?

I would choose Mr XYZ, (add a few years).

Mr ABC, cold and detached  : he does not seem worth spending time with.

hmmmm,



What will be the point of mr ABC  with all his money and the lush lifestyle if he'll be cold and distant and will most times not be there for me and the kids.?

Yes there'll be a lot of money at our disposal which if i have to be honest ( is a huge advantage, since money is sweet to spend), but that money will not make me feel good on days when i need my hubby to comfort and be there for me, that money wont be there to make me happy when my husband misses the birth of our first child because of a business meeting he absolutely had to attend,

i'd go for the average joe,

Definitely Mr XYZ! Cold and detached doesn't do it for me.

Mr ABC with time he will change and become XYZ but with enough cash

People like Mr ABC never change, they are usually set in their ways.

Trust me, I've been in a relationship with someone like that, a lot of cash for an expensive lifestyle and designer gear but at the end of the day the loneliness just kills it for you, plus he no matter how hard you try to make him understand that you need him more than all that money he's throwing around, he just wont get it!

indie22:

People like Mr ABC never change, they are usually set in their ways.

Trust me, I've been in a relationship with someone like that, a lot of cash for an expensive lifestyle and designer gear but at the end of the day the loneliness just kills it for you, plus he no matter how hard you try to make him understand that you need him more than all that money he's throwing around, he just wont get it!

I got to agree with you! Cus I also been in such situation.

There are certain things money can't buy and hapiness is one of it no matter what anyone says!

Mr XYZ all the way. Peace of mind matters, money can't buy me that.

iice:

I like the cold and detached part most of Mr. ABC Bluidy leaches be clinging to someone
I prefer Mr XYZ coz he seems to have more facets to his person. I get bored easily so yeah Could careless about his money, so long as he's able to feed himself i'm good. I got enough on my plate without adding his to it.

Nwayia ehien e leku amadi mo

Lord_Reed:


Mr. XYZ is also handsome, in his late twenties n single. Moderately successful he can afford all d basic things in life. He is a happy-go-lucky guy who once committed to anything including women stays true to his commitment.

He knows how to sweep a lady off her feet even though her can't lay the world at her feet. He is lively n fun to be wit; the phrase 'never a dull moment' was made for him.

He too is looking to settle down n knows he will give the best of himself to his wife n kids. However his present n foreseeable future earnings put him squarely in the average category.

So who would u choose/be?

This sounds like a dream - I doubt if people like this exist!