In marriage, you do not have to respond to every minor insult or argue over every minor misunderstanding or disagreement. Sometimes you just have to listen, look, bite your lips, forgive and get on with bigger issues of your life. Life is too short to waste on trivial battles over trivial issues.

But also remember there are times u will not say anything but would have said a lot by ur actions. So..put both ur actions and words in check.

sometimes I wonder if marriage is a MUST. its just unnecessary stress and BURDEN.... but if we marry the right person then it will be BEST

When i yell, know whatever you did really hurts me and after all the yelling, it's gone.
But when i don't, hmmm I hate gathering my thoughts.

But it's better your partner yell than pretend nothing is happening.cause they are bottling it up and it get to a point they become violent. (like a time bomb waiting to explode)

l prefer yelling and shouting when I am angry because it helps reduce the anger I am feeling at that moment.

After the yelling you feel peace within you because there is no need to bottle up your emotions at times

yelling works well 4 me, u just Forgive without an apology after it. When i keep quiet, i bottle things and will overreact later (maybe after a week or even months)