Separated bedrooms. Period!

I need to stay alone sometimes.

Seriously.

How can we be married and have separate bedrooms? Private sanctuaries in the house, yes but separate sleeping quarters? Couldn't be me.

i would have my own bedroom, but it will only serve as a dressing room / closet , you know we women have a lot of cloths and shoes
but for sleeping naaa, my hubby is gonna be the only blanket and warmer that i know. though am not married yet but i know that for sure. ( cos am the cuddle cuddle type. .

She has her own bedroom where she keeps her plenty loads and we have a Master bedroom we share.

I dont think I would want her on the same bed those times when she is "showing the red flag" or trying so sort out/display her cleaning apparatus in the shared bathroom

It depends on what the couple actually want. Ideally, there should be privacy. That has nothing to do with love.








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I find this very interesting. Thanks to Poster. To the original question, NO, it's not cool to sleep in separate beds. I know some old couple who did and lived like strangers until they died. To me , separate bedroom means that the marriage is heading towards divorce of facing serious problems. When you sleep in separate rooms your spontaneous sexual encounter disappear. What about those unexpected “pokes” in the middle of the night? I’d consider my marriage a match made in heaven if we can sleep together and manage whatever our sleeping problems are--- my sweet fantasy--- I cant wait!!!

Hahahaha in UK you must share cuz no space for extra room. Stingy UK.

^^^Not always, but your correct we do lack land space in the UK.

I will sacrifice lots for my own bedroom, I will do 2 jobs, cut down on the clothes and jewellery I buy.

I need the extra room to paint and collect my thoughts .

Nothing bad about sharing bedroom with your spouse.

having separated rooms isnt bad but we must always sleep together.
I think it will help couples to close gaps.
moreso, i wont need to send an I V or request letter to another room before having fun with my wife wen d need arises.

there's nothing bad in sleeping in d same room with ur wifey, i mean it's a great way to build trust in ur marriage. but e no go happen when she born pikin ooooooooo.

once d bedroom is being shared den sometin is abt to happen or is aalready cooking

What about people wey dey lived for Face me and Slap you.

We stay in thesame room but I often run to seating room when am awake at mid night to avoid disturbance.

when we eventually make peace, he would be made to sleep on the couch for denying me his presence the other night.

that sleeping on the couch stuff only happens on sit coms.

no woman can put me on the couch, i'd rather sleep with one eye open

mama-gee:

Let's see if you have a 250Ibs buffalo as a wife and she asks you to leave the bed.

I would like to see your face when she lifts you and tosses you on the floor.

I can always make an exception for my buffalo queen 

Separate bedrooms can work depending on the personality on the couple. introverts would probably like the idea

Seperate bedrooms in older couples might work out fine obviously there's the  grandkids that come to stay over and maybe want to sleep in grandma's room

But seperate rooms for a young couple? dont see how that would work if they are a "happy couple", i'd like to think my hubby and i will be sharing thesame bed and thesame room for the better part of our marriage as it aids the whole "making up process" after a row, coz at the end of the day i know my husband will still  come to bed and thats where we will finish our fight, and to be honest i havent seen a lot of happy couples sleeping in seperate rooms

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Why sleep on the couch when you can call and book a hotel on your phone.

If you sleep on the couch, How would you function at work with the neck aches

separate bedrooms is ideal but she no go gree.
i move for separate beds.

guys i dont see why you should marry when you stilll want to keep seperate room from your spouse. as for me i dont like to keep seperate room  because i want to sleep in my man arms always and next to him every night - and if my husband should start seperate rooms stuff i will call the attention of our families to it. if he continues to separate room from me. then i will start seeing another man. well you can call me names i dont care. The bible says two should keep warm and God forgive me if my husband dont keep me warm i will find warmth elsewhere

Shallom

I think it all depends on what works best for u.
Personally, i can't stand seperate rooms.