Am 29years Old Lady With A Baby Boy.My Parent Are My Problem. Institing That i will not marry the father of my child because is a christian, am a graduate and got pregnant during my service year, throught my pregnancy period that i informed my parent that am pregnant they stopped picking my calls but i send every month to them which they neva reject d money. after i delivered they came to pick me from d father of my child's place because i delivered at his place.last month they forcefully come and take me from my fiancee house, but there is no peace of mind my mother will wake up curse me and my fiancee everyday lamenting on what she spent on me, and i make her realise that my fiancee also spent on me,ever since i completed sec. school, i started buying everything i need myself and with his help.My Dad Dont Buy Anything For Us , it was thru him i was able to complete my University Studies And We Have Been In Relationship For 9years. please help me out, my husband family love me so much and i love him too

have you tried speaking to your mother personally on why she doesn't want the man..
why not try and sit her down.
hear her out and defend yourself to every point she made....
try and make her reason from your own perspective. ..
perhaps you can go through any of your siblings or a close relative your mum can hear from...and explain to such individual....

Ayodeji4love, Thanks O,she Is So Difficult To Deal With.If U Say Small Thing She Will Start Cursing, Going Up And Down.Curse Me, Curse My Child And The Father Of My Child

They Are After Someone Wealthy, They Even Call Man For Me To Marry Me

why not go through an elderly person in the family that your mother really have honour for

Hmm, Av Tried All I Could She Was Like Over He Dead Body Will I Marry A Xtian Same Goes For My Dad

Your situation is special.

But I feel only you can end it.

My 2 cent.

Call a family meeting, allow no one to do the talking. Make everyone know what your parents have been doing to you. Afterward leave their house, marry your fiancee legally, and inform your parents.

Sometimes taking action works. Nigerian parents are adamant and selfish.

Mumadeife:
Am 29years Old Lady With A Baby Boy.My Parent Are My Problem. Institing That i will not marry the father of my child because is a christian, am a graduate and got pregnant during my service year, throught my pregnancy period that i informed my parent that am pregnant they stopped picking my calls but i send every month to them which they neva reject d money. after i delivered they came to pick me from d father of my child's place because i delivered at his place.last month they forcefully come and take me from my fiancee house, but there is no peace of mind my mother will wake up curse me and my fiancee everyday lamenting on what she spent on me, and i make her realise that my fiancee also spent on me,ever since i completed sec. school, i started buying everything i need myself and with his help.My Dad Dont Buy Anything For Us , it was thru him i was able to complete my University Studies And We Have Been In Relationship For 9years. please help me out, my husband family love me so much and i love him too

Move far away from them but don’t stop sending them money. Life is too precious mehnnn. Take full control of your Life

Mumadeife:
They Are After Someone Wealthy, They Even Call Man For Me To Marry Me

The man they want you to marry might be wealthy but might not love you and your child like your fiancee and his family does. Marry your fiancee and live a happy life with him and your baby.