Is there any man that ever lived or still living, that has never been accused or suspect by either wife, fiancee or girl friend; for having side chics?
On my way from Ikeja today, I check on my room mate from school in order to discuss some important issues for we've been chatting online and to map out our strategies in the pursuit of excellence. My babe called me asking for where I was and I told her I'm with Emma; well known to her. Few minutes later, she called again while I'm still with my friend and I responded accordingly, then she asked what are we discussing that is taking much time and funny enough she said where I was is so quiet that no any noise at all. Jokingly I responded, did I tell you I'm at the party or in a market for you to be expecting noise from the background. I knew where she's ending to anyway. Not that we have any issue whatsoever in relation to what I'm presenting here, but I'm just curious to know if we can ever find a man who has never been accused by his either wife, fiancee or girl friend of having side chics. No matter who or how care the man is
From my observation I think the phenomenon is common everywhere; I stand to be corrected
anyway.

DISCLAIMER
This piece doesn't mean I have any issues whatsoever with my beautiful babe and also it doesn't mean I don't have respect for womanhood, they are wonderful and beautiful being. Kudos to all kindhearted ladies/women out there.
It purely my own personal observation and opinion and out of curiosity; I chose to seek wider opinions in relation to the topic raised.

Cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44 & Co

You told your babe, I'm going for business meeting and next she will jokingly reply "don't look at any other face at the meeting o"

I think there is no correlation between going for business meeting and looking at other chicks face.

There is nothing difficult in being with only one woman.
Many atimes guys cheat to boost their ego. All women have the same thing down there.

234GT:
There is nothing difficult in being with only one woman.
Many atimes guys cheat to boost their ego. All women have the same thing down there.

I understand you, but I'm only curious to know if there is any man ever lived who is free from been accused of cheating from his female partner.

For instance, have you ever been accused of cheating from your female partner (wife, fiancee or girl friend)

INTEGRITYA1:


I understand you, but I'm only curious to know if there is any man ever lived who is free from been accused of cheating from his female partner.

For instance, have you ever been accused of cheating from your female partner (wife, fiancee or girl friend)

All the girls I have dated have always had 100 percent trust in me. I don't give them reason to doubt me.

234GT:


All the girls I have dated have always had 100 percent trust in me. I don't give them reason to doubt me.

I just dey laugh, Ti ri gbo sa.

@op, there is none.

light101:
@op, there is none.

Exactly what I'm thinking.

I have not experienced that before, that is because i have never been in a relationship before, but i am a serial chatter, i chat with one girl till i get bored of our conversation, then i move on to another girl.
I think that you mostly give your partner a reason to doubt you, however i am not neglecting the fact that some people have trust issues naturally. But as for me if you dont trust me then there is no need for us to be in a relationship, so if a girl shows lack of trust, break up sharp sharp.
I promised myself to get into a relationship next year but deep down i know that i cant date a girl for more than 3 months.j

emmy2807:
I have not experienced that before, that is because i have never been in a relationship before, but i am a serial chatter, i chat with one girl till i get bored of our conversation, then i move on to another girl.
I think that you mostly give your partner a reason to doubt you, however i am not neglecting the fact that some people have trust issues naturally. But as for me if you dont trust me then there is no need for us to be in a relationship, so if a girl shows lack of trust, break up sharp sharp.
I promised myself to get into a relationship next year but deep down i know that i cant date a girl for more than 3 months.j

Well, you said you will get into relationship proper by next year. Wishing you the best.
One thing I noticed about ladies/woman by nature, not until you give them reasons to doubt you but their is an iota of doubt towards their male counterparts in them, but the degree of doubt varies from individuals.

They are always suspect every move of their husbands consciously or unconsciously. I don't blame them anyway, because what is happening nowadays in our society is enough reason for them to act that way. Only that too much of everything is always bad.

If we have ladies/women on here who truly trust their husband/fiancee 100% in relation to side chic related issues; they should prove me wrong.

I have never accused my husband.

He has not given me any reason to distrust him.

It is either you are giving your lady a reason to distrust you or you are dealing with someone who has unresolved trust issues.

My hubby has never given me a reason to mistrust or doubt his faithfulness.
We have been married over a decade and he is over a decade older than i am yet he worships me.
Like bukatyne has said, ur girl either has serious trust issues or ur action is that of one with poor boundaries in a relationship

bukatyne:
I have never accused my husband.

He has not given me any reason to distrust him.

It is either you are giving your lady a reason to distrust you or you are dealing with someone who has unresolved trust issues.

That's wonderful