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Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Fasinaomolade: 5:46pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
stankezzy:pls where can dis be found in d bible. the Bible says we have been given a name that is d name of Jesus every knees shall bow. not in d name of Catherine or Bramham. just like latter day saints that were distributing the book of Mormon. let me shock I didn't feel any touch from d book. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Ishilove: 5:57pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
Jabioro:Jabioro!! |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Nobody: 6:30pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica: Na wetin vex me pass be this, so I choose to reserve my comment. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Jabioro: 6:53pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
Ishilove:lshilove where have you been?...abi mi wi re! |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Yuceeluv(f): 7:28pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
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Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Nobody: 7:49pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
LovingLife28:look, my dad is baptist, and my mum is pentecostal. religion wouldnt stop u from marrying him, but if you know you cant deal then leave, or both of you find a compromise and go to a completely different church together. If he uses children to blackmail you, then you tell him that our xhildren will choose their path, and if he still insists, then run. my parents tried that solution of going to a different church and that worked for a few years before they went back to their original churches and they are still together. They learnt to keep church, work and home where it belongs. i am a Christian mystic and philosopher, my other siblings are catholic, jehovah witness and C&S respectively. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by themanderon: 7:51pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
Leave that guy while its still morning for the time is coming when you will regret your actions if you don't leave now!!! A Christian whose teaching is based on one mans view and not the bible is something that can only come from the pit of hell. Think with your head and not your heart. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Aishasuccess(f): 8:01pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
MrGodwithin: |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by prof2015(m): 8:43pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
I am atheist and my wife is a Christian. We don't have any issues. Its all about maturity and understanding |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Magonline: 9:03pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
My advice is simple: disentangle your from the guy now before it is too late. Not every that glitters is gold. Seek God sincerely....and He'll bring right man your way. Flee from sexual immorality. It would have been so easier to forget this guy if you had not slept with him. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Ishilove: 9:08pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
Jabioro:I've been right here, darling. Where have you been? |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by bg0074real(m): 10:22pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
My dear don't let love fool you. This relationship cannot work. The earlier you come to reality the better. Your future husband is still out there. I'm sure you have gained experience from this. I will advise you to move on. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by adetounblessing(f): 10:22pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
Beloved ..I am a message believer we are not living in fear ...Is there any teaching that you find contrary to Bible? and every church has it's Leader ....so d o we... Go back to the bible on the dressing code for a lady as recommended by God and how lady should comport herself in the church and My dear Hell is real....Dear sister count yourself privileged to have found the message |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Nobody: 11:01pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
LovingLife28: Mtcheeeew. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by kogi2010: 11:35pm On Nov 24, 2018 |
same too she is a Christian im a muslim, now she wants to dump me because I couldn't convert to Christianity, we have been dating for over a year now , pls advice me |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by rayobaba(m): 12:05am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Pardon me, at least u need advice. I think u are still So young and naïve. U waisted time before knowing his church---wrong move. I doubt u even know about his mentality. I cant attend church or gathering not teaching the bible ---wrong road. I think you've been too much into sex with him, so u are kinda hooked. Going to different church after wedding might not work, even if it works, it's not encouraging. Use your brain, ensure its love and not lust. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by rayobaba(m): 12:14am On Nov 25, 2018 |
kogi2010:depends on ur tribe. Either of u can change religion. If u cant change dont force it. If she wants to go, let her go. I dont beg or influence other person to stay in relationship with me, they wl eventually go, so dont waste your years. I won't judge between the two religion. If someone doesn't believe in ur religion, u might not help it. Me, wouldn't start relationship with another religion because same religion sef wahala stl dey. Some people say love conquers all, but l dont believe. Do u want her to change to ur religion? |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Beey(f): 1:14am On Nov 25, 2018 |
So my cousins go to this church.Actually they call themselves “Bible believers” & the are followers of William Branham.I know they don’t wear makeup or jewelry, no trousers or clothes with slit for ladies.I am even surprised that he’s dating you because they don’t usually marry from other denominations.I don’t know much about them because i’ve never attended their services.However, when my cousin was getting married, the family members who attended the wedding said that the building had pictures of William Branham on the windows & walls.One of my other cousin who was a flower girl, had to remove her nail polish because it’s not allowed in that church.You sound really young & inexperienced in relationships.My advice would be for you to leave that relationship.Two cannot walk together unless they agree.Even if you escape going to his church, would you be comfortable with your children being taught the doctrines of his church & you already mentioned that they have strange doctrines? My dear, a heartbreak hurts but after a while you’ll heal & find new love.Better run before you get too deeply attached to him.It’s a cult actually. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Beey(f): 1:39am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Rotentina:Are these the ones who worship at Bible believers tabernacle? |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Beey(f): 1:48am On Nov 25, 2018 |
MrGodwithin:i think it was a typing error as she said that she couldn’t think of her girls going for sports in dresses. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Beey(f): 1:50am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Actjulius:Did she at any point mention that it’s been a sexual relationship? |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Beey(f): 2:00am On Nov 25, 2018 |
kogi2010:Were you expecting her to convert to Islam or maybe raise your kids as Muslims? For me the issue of faith is a serious one.I can marry a Christian of another faith but am a bit picky about the denominations I can marry from because of doctrine issues.As for the two of you , had you discussed whether you’d worship in your different religions or one would have to convert? Also where were the children gonna go to? |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by nwaimoroseyaho: 5:53am On Nov 25, 2018 |
My dear forget about love for now. Marriage is a serious business. Pls that Church is occultic. I know it is difficult pls try to switch off. Gradually withdraw from this man another man will come. Don't ever believe that you will not see another man. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by kogi2010: 6:25am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Beey:I wasn't expecting her to convert to Islam, let her practice her own n I will practice mine, she worried she is getting older she is 32 now , I even ask for court wedding she refused. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by kogi2010: 6:29am On Nov 25, 2018 |
[quote author=rayobaba post=73277603]depends on ur tribe. Either of u can change religion. If u cant change dont force it. If she wants to go, let her go. I dont beg or influence other person to stay in relationship with me, they wl eventually go, so dont waste your years. I won't judge between the two religion. If someone doesn't believe in ur religion, u might not help it. Me, wouldn't start relationship with another religion because same religion sef wahala stl dey. Some people say love conquers all, but l dont believe. Do u want her to change to ur religion?[/quote thanks bro we are from the same geographical area but of us from north central she is Idoma while im Igala I guess I have to let go thanks for your advice |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Beey(f): 1:14pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
kogi2010:Mmmmmmh,if she changed her mind, just let go.I always say that some things can’t be forced, they must come from the heart.If her heart is no longer with you, it’s easier to just move on.It’ll hurt for a while but you’ll be glad you did. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Zither(m): 3:14pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
slowbreeze: Beautiful! Well said! @Op, an addendum. I know William Branham. I've read his history and how he died. Sis, do the needful and give that guy a VERY wide distance, relationshipwise. Branham was noted for extreme heresies. I cannot begin to tell you. It is like he was a misogynist cloaking his orientation towards women with Biblical doctrines which have nothing to do with his heresies. Go and make investigations about a church called The Bride Assembly. They are a sister church to the one your boyfriend attends. You really don't want to stick to anyone who believes in their doctrines...not especially a guy...and not especially for a long term relationship. I weep for you if you follow love like a blind fool which is worse than a fool or a blind person. The heart is very deceitful above everything. You tell your heart who to love and it will obey....not the other way round. I am using a persuasive tone to reach you as you are just like any of my blood sisters who I wouldn't want to fall into the pathetic ditch of deception through groping in a senseless fog which masquerades itself as love. Stay yourself and your heart away from that guy for good. Besides, we never always get it the first time...except by some unexpected stroke of luck. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by myk2mic: 4:04pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
funmisticqueen: What do u mean by Christian mystic curious. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Extremists who call themselves Christians are actually not Christians. Please take note of this. All extremists treat women like trash. If you cannot wear trouser, it means you can't wear suits and tshirts designed for females since their men have their own designs. You will be stuck with only dresses reaching your feet. This is the mode of dressing for women from chauvinists who call themselves Christians. Even the Israelites were fans of jewelries. It was part of their culture. Any true christian will know that the popular scripture on dressing often misinterpreted by ignorant people was actually tailored to stop sodomy in all forms. Your boyfriend knows the church he is attending and he is still there out of fear. Nothing more. Else, why will he leave all the sisters who attend there and date you? Probably looking for any form of fresh air from all the junk they have been feeding them. If he cannot leave that sect, please call the relationship off. This is beyond trouser,high heels and makeup. There are a lot of things you don't know. And please, next time you want to date, don't just discuss on values and believes. Get to know the inspiration behind it. It will save you a lot. |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by kogi2010: 8:01pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Beey:thanks 1 Like |
Re: Help - My Relationship Is Threatened By Religious Differences by Nobody: 11:26pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
myk2mic:what is it to you? curious. |
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