Proverbs 18:22 whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the lord

*Every man is on a pursuit of happiness*

Little things matter a lot and men can`°•.¸ wait a long time to see his woman change from what she use to be to what he wants her to be, because he wants to spend the rest of his life married to the lady he loves without dying of an heart attack

Men take a longer time to decide if they can`°•.¸ marry the woman they are in .¸¸.•°` love with because men brain are programmed to think one thing at a time and the woman brain is programmed to multi-task , so its easy for a woman to make quick decision

A guy can`°•.¸ date a lady for a very long time and not end up marrying her , he meets a new lady and in months they get married, then they call him heartless and a dog for wasting her time. This is were the ladies get it wrong, for men it takes time to cleave and a waiting man is a man who has not given up

Like I said little things matter a lot and men take it seriously and the women overlook thinking its not gonna affect the relationship......a lady came to see me, entered my room with her dirty slippers and walked on my clean rug, I was so mad but had to keep my anger to myself, she also asked for a cotton bud and when she was done with it, she dumped it on the rug, I was like JESUS!
Or you date a lady that wakes up and all she does is chat all morning, or a lady that always forget to flush after using the toilet, or a lady that always burns the food, or the too spiritual ones the would always quote the scripture to prove she is write, how they also talk to people also

Men would wait for years to see if she changes because of the .¸¸.•°` love he has for her then walks away at the end of the day then you call him heartless forgetting that he his the one to work extra to make the woman and their children happy, sex is not always the answer

In conclusion, if your man is waiting on you, if he his fighting of women who want to do what you won't do, and you are making him wait more than necessary because you are distracted into your own things, eventually he gives up on waiting and then you call him a dog.......but not all of them are dogs at first, its one thing to wait on somebody that is getting ready, what becomes difficult is you waiting and you see no change

*men are not heartless....they just take longer time to make that decision*

So while you guys wait to make their decision, you will want to enjoy the benefits of marriage abi?
Make up your mind before doing nonsense with the girl.
Some males won't marry the girl but they will be asking for sexual satisfaction and ask her to do home chores her to like married couples.
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SweetBuns:
So while you guys wait to make their decision, you will want to enjoy the benefits of marriage abi?
Make up your mind before doing nonsense with the girl.
Some males won't marry the girl but they will be asking for sexual satisfaction and ask her to do home chores her to like married couples.
Don't browse her server if you won't download.

now you are making it look like its the guys that demand sex the most...........lately ladies boldly ask for it. and the parties both enjoy it

ethankareem:
now you are making it look like its the guys that demand sex the most...........lately ladies boldly ask for it. and the parties both enjoy it

enjoy what?/

If you truely love her you'll stay and make her wat you want

chiommy123:
If you truely love her you'll stay and make her wat you want

that where the problem is, sometime women stick to this cliché of if you love me, you will stay with me instead of to work on themselves.
this is a relationship, it should be both sides, even the sex you guys complain of, it is not only the guy that is enjoying it. then why the headache

Whilst he’s waiting does he communicate these things to her or does he expect her to be a mind reader and just change? There’s never a perfect person, a level of compromise is always required.