@ op, men are wired to be the provider...ya know...with a big P. If they don't spend on us, by default they be spending somewhere else, so we are left with no option but to keep it going. Once dated someone with whom I was exclusive and as I naturally am not the demanding type he automatically assumed I was cheating, ' like who is taking care of me'? And at that time, I got my own sh*t covered... that tore us apart. Right now, I just let my man do his thing which includes him spending on me... and boy am I lurvin' it?! It's only natural.

Escabado:
How can a Girl be asking a young guy to buy her iPhone x or hair of 100k.pls my sister have pity on them. How much is a Land , how much is bag of cement in the market . If you truly Love him you will consider these things. Must successful men today don't start Life by using there life savings to empress a girl or by using money for tangible investment to invest on a girl cos of pusyyy. Girls why not pity these guys and do hair of 3k or less , buy cheap clothes.His mates are busy buying Lands building houses and cars. But you want to suck him Dry. U girls are wicked Oo

Imagin a girl who can't make 10k on her own calling a man that earns 300k broke just because he didn't give you money. Is it your father that employed him or is it your father that started business for him .

When as relationship or marriage Became Employment
I have discussed with these girls none of them ever talk of how they can start business or get a job , all they talk about is how a man will be taking care of them and spending money on them. Haba girls una wicked Oo

Guys add yours how do you see these girls

Guys like and prefer "gold diggers"...so the same woman you want to reason with you and dress cheap and when she don do surulere with you you then she her as not your taste/type/standard...then you start running after the bleached ones? Ogbeni, you men gotta learn to pay up abeg and stop troubling us 9j women abeg. Do you think to be man is a day's job? shioor

Saff:
Do you demand for sex?
Do you demand for your gf to cook for you?
Do you demand for gf to come over to spend the weekend?
Do you demand your gf to clean?

Listen let me tell you the reality of life. Human beings go into a relationship looking for what they can benefit from it. Nobody goes into a relationship solely for love, it’s a myth. Even if that babe doesn’t demand from you directly, subconsciously she expects/wants you to do things for her in her head. What happens when you don’t meet someone’s expectations? They look outside to fill in that void. I’m not trying to be funny but this has nothing to do with her being Nigerian or not, it’s a global thing, and it will only get worse once you get married. It’s the nature of women. The more money a I woman has independently, the higher her expectations she has for a man, this is the truth I don’t know what you’re talking about. How many rich babes date broke dudes, or date men for love? Please stop it.

Thats why I’m just trying to say, as a man date within your means, so that you can comfortably compliment her. Stop dating a level 10 when you’re only level 3. Stop dating women that are just ridiculously flashy and materialistic if you know that you can’t keep up. One look at a woman, and you’ll know that she’s high maintenance and expensive, as a man you can’t be in her life to act like the painting on the wall. This is just life hun.

1. I don't demand sex from my main chick, she gives it willingly or I can just start kissing her and all, the mood determines. I call my side chicks to come that I want to ride that her sweet pussy (ASK not demand) but I demand sex when I carry a LovePeddler which is rare and its just for the thrill of it or if I'm in a club and want to see what that ass really looks like in her birthday suit.
2. My main chick God blessed me with, asks me if I have something or if the one she cooked is about to finish so that she can come and too up for me, the downside is that lately e don make me lazy to cook so I call her for cooking nowadays sha :-). I REQUEST OR ASK, i don't demand.
3. Yes I do call her and she also tells me she wants to come too most times and it makes me cancel any side chick if I haven't seen her during the week day, she's the queen or I lie that I will be travelling to visit my parents.
4. Rarely, once she sees clothes in my basket for washing which barely happens because I like doing my laundry or the dry cleaners sha If I don't have time or so lazy. I'm starting to feel lazy to do these things sha honestly.

Relationship is a two way street but they way you ladies put it its like YOU MUST BUY ME THIS IF YOU ARE DATING ME!!!!! No its not good, I hate sense of entitlement like crazy it can make me despise a girl that I am falling in love with.
See I love LOVE so much and if I like a girl I don't need to be told when you guys start making that face so that we can ask you what it is or when we are shopping together and you want something and you start that indirect request of " Baby I like this thing a lot its nice" and other technical you guys use in asking guys for stuff. That's not a problem at all. Once a guy is with a chick he MUST spend and if the girl is a good girl the guy really loves her he will do anything to make her happy. I get restless anytime I see my main chick putting up a sad face or thinking until I know what is bothering her and take care of it if I can and she's not doing it to extort me or anything. She's the best girlfriend I've ever had and hopefully my last.

My point is, a guy should go for any chick he wants and naked his mind and not let his "class trash" or threshold deter him.
Honestly yes there are girls that are high maintenance and live from their pockets or their dad's allowance and when some of them are dating some make excess expenses while most will just order for a little stuff but the girl from a poor background will check the list given to her and order for something that she has never ate or seen just because she sees it as an opportunity to eat something she never had and few times they are not able to eat half of the thing because they don't like the taste or something.
Relationship is partnership not a job or a parasitic arrangement but here in naija most girls think its solely your responsibility to take care of them once you become their boyfriend. I can understand a side chick making demands but a main chick a real girlfriend? no no no.
90% of Nigerian girls don't know what "going dutch" means, its not about take take take, its give and take, two way street. àkà nrí kwòò àkà èkpè- àkà èkpè àkwòò àkà nrì, you mustn't spend a lot of money for a man just as little as you can afford, we appreciate it.

BlaqCoffee109:
@ op, men are wired to be the provider...ya know...with a big P. If they don't spend on us, by default they be spending somewhere else, so we are left with no option but to keep it going. Once dated someone with whom I was exclusive and as I naturally am not the demanding type he automatically assumed I was cheating, ' like who is taking care of me'? And at that time, I got my own sh*t covered... that tore us apart. Right now, I just let my man do his thing which includes him spending on me... and boy am I lurvin' it?! It's only natural.

We love to take care of our ladies, it feels good to see that una smile and thank you kisses when we get something for you guys but what makes is bad is a girl developing this sense of ENTITLEMENT that since you're my boyfriend or since they have since your account balance they won't value a gift of let's say 5k because they expect you to get them a gift of at least 40k since you get enough bar or entitled to your money. No No No No get the fvck out, Its not a job its relationship.

Escabado:
How can a Girl be asking a young guy to buy her iPhone x or hair of 100k.pls my sister have pity on them. How much is a Land , how much is bag of cement in the market . If you truly Love him you will consider these things. Must successful men today don't start Life by using there life savings to empress a girl or by using money for tangible investment to invest on a girl cos of pusyyy. Girls why not pity these guys and do hair of 3k or less , buy cheap clothes.His mates are busy buying Lands building houses and cars. But you want to suck him Dry. U girls are wicked Oo

Imagin a girl who can't make 10k on her own calling a man that earns 300k broke just because he didn't give you money. Is it your father that employed him or is it your father that started business for him .

When as relationship or marriage Became Employment
I have discussed with these girls none of them ever talk of how they can start business or get a job , all they talk about is how a man will be taking care of them and spending money on them. Haba girls una wicked Oo

Guys add yours how do you see these girls

PLEASE STOP DATING NIGERIAN LADIES that reside in Nigeria.
Focus on NIGERIAN LADIES that reside abroad, period.
If you date such ladies and you do not have POT BELLY within 6months as a man, then call me a bastard

JjBankys:
Girls every where demands for these things as well,not only Nigeria girls

Who told you , have you been to Canada or China ?

candygist:


Who told you , have you been to Canada or China ?

Oga there are gold diggers every where.

OdikwaRisky:
You see where you are hopelessly wrong, and you've just exposed yourself as a stupid liar. Foreign chicks are especially those of a certain level are WORSE when it comes to gold digging. Asian chicks are at the top of the food chain for gold digging and most of them would rather go for rich asian men or white men because of the status thing. in china, the men are complaining about the scarcity of women- because of the one child policy, a lot of Chinese couples would rather have a boy child than a girl. Today, the number of men far outweighs women and the men areas bitter because choosing a spouse is difficult. The Chinese girls on the other hand knowing the state of affairs would only even breathe in the direction of the rich men and if they don't get any, they'd rather marry white.
so shut up and stop claiming you've had experience with different womens when you've only being with your dirty ghetto girls.

that dude know nothing at all

SexyDenzel:
We love to take care of our ladies, it feels good to see that una smile and thank you kisses when we get something for you guys but what makes is bad is a girl developing this sense of ENTITLEMENT that since you're my boyfriend or since they have since your account balance they won't value a gift of let's say 5k because they expect you to get them a gift of at least 40k since you get enough bar or entitled to your money. No No No No get the fvck out, Its not a job its relationship.

We have to be entitled nah... y'all still paying up whether entitled or not...why una come dey fight on top our feeling entitled nah? Y'all want loyalty, exclusivity, yeah we are entitled to your earnings abeg... a 9j man feels good pointing out a nicely kept woman and he wants all to know that's my woman and una still dey grudge feeling entitled? So if we are not feeling entitled, you certainly are one maga on the line.The same way any woman should know if he is not introducing you to his family/ friends/ circle of influence as his woman, you are just a side chick...so you were saying about our feeling entitled? Why would you buy a N5,000 gift when you very well can afford a N40,000 gift to show how special she is to you and you really are not broke? Having financial intelligence totally have nothing to do with the amounts you spend on your woman... because you spend on your woman does not mean you have not saved or invested; so y'all should stop that weak line of build house or buy cement...if y'all gotta build house or buy cement shey we all must date according to our level and type abi? Shikena,no wahala. Everybody have their type and level so no matter your type and level y'all should take care of your women and stop complaining Nigerian women this, Nigerian women that...how many Nigerian women dey disturb una for furs and diamonds sef wey una no dey allow us rest...we dey manage una with loads of una bs una still dey complain?

OdikwaRisky:
You see where you are hopelessly wrong, and you've just exposed yourself as a stupid liar. Foreign chicks are especially those of a certain level are WORSE when it comes to gold digging. Asian chicks are at the top of the food chain for gold digging and most of them would rather go for rich asian men or white men because of the status thing. in china, the men are complaining about the scarcity of women- because of the one child policy, a lot of Chinese couples would rather have a boy child than a girl. Today, the number of men far outweighs women and the men areas bitter because choosing a spouse is difficult. The Chinese girls on the other hand knowing the state of affairs would only even breathe in the direction of the rich men and if they don't get any, they'd rather marry white.
so shut up and stop claiming you've had experience with different womens when you've only being with your dirty ghetto girls.

Your comment is brimming with IGNORANCE! Statistics shows the world's gender ratio to be 65:35 of women to men so, abeg where did you get ur own foolish numbers from?

Go to the western world and experience how women from other races naturally and effortlessly look beautiful UNLIKE the baboons we call women here that can't even do without some form of wig or fake hair.
When other races wear wigs, they do to have a different look from what they're used to NOT an everyday must have thing for them. They date for the thrill and passion NOT for money.

BlaqCoffee109:
We have to be entitled nah... y'all still paying up whether entitled or not...why una come dey fight on top our feeling entitled nah? Y'all want loyalty, exclusivity, yeah we are entitled to your earnings abeg... a 9j man feels good pointing out a nicely kept woman and he wants all to know that's my woman and una still dey grudge feeling entitled? So if we are not feeling entitled, you certainly are one maga on the line.The same way any woman should know if he is not introducing you to his family/ friends/ circle of influence as his woman, you are just a side chick...so you were saying about our feeling entitled? Why would you buy a N5,000 gift when you very well can afford a N40,000 gift to show how special she is to you and you really are not broke? Having financial intelligence totally have nothing to do with the amounts you spend on your woman... because you spend on your woman does not mean you have not saved or invested; so y'all should stop that weak line of build house or buy cement...if y'all gotta build house or buy cement shey we all must date according to our level and type abi? Shikena,no wahala. Everybody have their type and level so no matter your type and level y'all should take care of your women and stop complaining Nigerian women this, Nigerian women that...how many Nigerian women dey disturb una for furs and diamonds sef wey una no dey allow us rest...we dey manage una with loads of una bs una still dey complain?

LOL LMAO you be case ooo hahahahahaha the impetus in your post no be here. So what makes or determines how special you are to a guy is the ratio of his worth to the cost of the gifts he buys for you? OMG abeg I no fit shout. Hopefully you will realize its more than money, I'm not saying it's bad to spend on one's chick or buy the gift of 40k the thing is whoever the girl is its a pleasure to do so not a must or that she is entitled to it. So if you ladies are entitled to that what is the guy entitled to?

Saff:
This one has not stepped out of ajegunle village, talking about you’ve dated from different races, shior. Even if you have, I’m sure it’s all these scallywags that you can just manage to pull from the streets.

Go and date any high maintenance babe from any race, any girl above a 7 in looks, a lady of a certain standard , you are going to have to spend in one way or the other. Even if she’s got her own money, you won’t be in her life and behave like a tree. You can’t avoid It, women look for providers, men who have the strong financial capability to protect. It’s either you swallow that pill or you die.

Well it's ONLY ignirant riff-raffs like you that spew rubbish. Any beautiful white lady will date anyone as long as she's physically and sexually attracted to that person NOT for any material or financial gain. Their governments have provided them with everything they need. You ugly bunch here ONLY date for money as a result of poverty!

They don't need ur money, they got it all readily available. There's a reason they're referred to as civilised.

IjebuWarrior:


Your comment is brimming with IGNORANCE! Statistics shows the world's gender ratio to be 65:35 of women to men so, abeg where did you get ur own foolish numbers from?

Go to the western world and experience how women from other races naturally and effortlessly look beautiful UNLIKE the baboons we call women here that can't even do without some form of wig or fake hair.
When other races wear wigs, they do to have a different look from what they're used to NOT an everyday must have thing for them. They date for the thrill and passion NOT for money.

He is not exposed at all, he is stuck in the year 1970 in naija when men's wealth was determined by how good their wives look. Dude probably was have been dating leeches now think its a norm and its the birth right of females.

IjebuWarrior:


Your comment is brimming with IGNORANCE! Statistics shows the world's gender ratio to be 65:35 of women to men so, abeg where did you get ur own foolish numbers from?

Go to the western world and experience how women from other races naturally and effortlessly look beautiful UNLIKE the baboons we call women here that can't even do without some form of wig or fake hair.
When other races wear wigs, they do to have a different look from what they're used to NOT an everyday must have thing for them. They date for the thrill and passion NOT for money.

He is not exposed at all, he is stuck in the year 1970 in naija when men's wealth was determined by how good their wives look. Dude probably was have been dating leeches now think its a norm and its the birth right of females.

IjebuWarrior:


Your comment is brimming with IGNORANCE! Statistics shows the world's gender ratio to be 65:35 of women to men so, abeg where did you get ur own foolish numbers from?

Go to the western world and experience how women from other races naturally and effortlessly look beautiful UNLIKE the baboons we call women here that can't even do without some form of wig or fake hair.
When other races wear wigs, they do to have a different look from what they're used to NOT an everyday must have thing for them. They date for the thrill and passion NOT for money.

lol you know nothing at all, Western women,do

Nose job

Eye lifting

Breast implant

Lip augmentation

some of them are also gold diggers ,they won't even look at you twice if you no get money

JjBankys:
Oga there are gold diggers every where.

Nigeria and Africa own is out of this world .

candygist:


Nigeria and Africa own is out of this world .

that's why I said there gold diggers everywhere it's not a Nigeria something.

SexyDenzel:
LOL LMAO you be case ooo hahahahahaha the impetus in your post no be here. So what makes or determines how special you are to a guy is the ratio of his worth to the cost of the gifts he buys for you? OMG abeg I no fit shout. Hopefully you will realize its more than money, I'm not saying it's bad to spend on one's chick or buy the gift of 40k the thing is whoever the girl is its a pleasure to do so not a must or that she is entitled to it. So if you ladies are entitled to that what is the guy entitled to?

@ the bolded...y'all know and understand the pride/ego boost and the thrill of having a fine and nicely catered to grown assed woman on yours arms when you introduce her to your friends as your woman...what was the question again? Abeg oh...do Nigerian men know, understand or appreciate love? Most Nigerian men see a relationship as a mutually beneficial contractual agreement devoid of love...like you be loyal to me even if I stray once in a while...I take care of you! Abeg all nah game, shioor. Love kor love ni...with a 9j man? Abegi make I hear word, e no dey una dictionary.

Jesse01:
lol you know nothing at all, Western women,do

Nose job

Eye lifting

Breast implant

Lip augmentation

some of them are also gold diggers ,they won't even look at twice if you no get money

preach brother preach this guys know nothing .

Jesse01:
lol you know nothing at all, Western women,do

Nose job

Eye lifting

Breast implant

Lip. augmentation

some of them are also gold diggers ,they won't even look at twice if you no get money

Well, do the ratio comparison of western chics with physical bodies augmentation and those without it. It's probably like <5% of the female population doing it.

Now gimme a ratio of 9ja women that wear wigs and artificial hair compared to those that are natural.

BlaqCoffee109:
@ the bolded...y'all know and understand the pride/ego boost and the thrill of having a fine and nicely catered to grown assed woman on yours arms when you introduce her to your friends as your woman...what was the question again? Abeg oh...do Nigerian men know, understand or appreciate love? Most Nigerian men see a relationship as a mutually beneficial contractual agreement devoid of love...like you be loyal to me even if I stray once in a while...I take care of you! Abeg all nah game, shioor. Love kor love ni...with a 9j man? Abegi make I hear word, e no dey una dictionary.

BlaqCoffee109:
@ the bolded...y'all know and understand the pride/ego boost and the thrill of having a fine and nicely catered to grown assed woman on yours arms when you introduce her to your friends as your woman...what was the question again? Abeg oh...do Nigerian men know, understand or appreciate love? Most Nigerian men see a relationship as a mutually beneficial contractual agreement devoid of love...like you be loyal to me even if I stray once in a while...I take care of you! Abeg all nah game, shioor. Love kor love ni...with a 9j man? Abegi make I hear word, e no dey una dictionary.

BlaqCoffee109:
@ the bolded...y'all know and understand the pride/ego boost and the thrill of having a fine and nicely catered to grown assed woman on yours arms when you introduce her to your friends as your woman...what was the question again? Abeg oh...do Nigerian men know, understand or appreciate love? Most Nigerian men see a relationship as a mutually beneficial contractual agreement devoid of love...like you be loyal to me even if I stray once in a while...I take care of you! Abeg all nah game, shioor. Love kor love ni...with a 9j man? Abegi make I hear word, e no dey una dictionary.

WHAT?! that's the entitlement?!?! where do I start? OMG I'm done, I quit. You probably talking about your "9ja" men around you. OMGaaaaaaaaaaaad

Saff:
Do you demand for sex?
Do you demand for your gf to cook for you?
Do you demand for gf to come over to spend the weekend?
Do you demand your gf to clean?

Listen let me tell you the reality of life. Human beings go into a relationship looking for what they can benefit from it. Nobody goes into a relationship solely for love, it’s a myth. Even if that babe doesn’t demand from you directly, subconsciously she expects/wants you to do things for her in her head. What happens when you don’t meet someone’s expectations? They look outside to fill in that void. I’m not trying to be funny but this has nothing to do with her being Nigerian or not, it’s a global thing, and it will only get worse once you get married. It’s the nature of women. The more money a woman has independently, the higher her expectations she has for a man, this is the truth I don’t know what you’re talking about. How many rich babes date broke dudes, or date men for love? Please stop it.

Thats why I’m just trying to say, as a man date within your means, so that you can comfortably compliment her. Stop dating a level 10 when you’re only level 3. Stop dating women that are just ridiculously flashy and materialistic if you know that you can’t keep up. One look at a woman, and you’ll know that she’s high maintenance and expensive, as a man you can’t be in her life to act like the painting on the wall. This is just life hun.

I hate threads like this because they are too common here on nairaland but I have to contribute to this one.@saff this mentality of yours maybe be destructive .these days very few men are willing to spend on women like its a must do even the richest guys are not willing to comply to excessive female demands I hope you have heard the song by kiss Daniel and davido one ticket now davido is considered as the richest youth in Nigeria with 30billion kiss Daniel is also rich .now if these two big boys naija guys are looking upto as role model still complain about girls do you think an average boy will be comfortable with giving you money all the time wake up to reality learn to hustle or you may find it hard to get a husband

Jesse01:
lol you know nothing at all, Western women,do

Nose job

Eye lifting

Breast implant

Lip augmentation

some of them are also gold diggers ,they won't even look at you twice if you no get money

Yes you're right. Personally how do feel or what do you think about a lady feeling entitled to your money just because she's your girlfriend and you must provide her any of her "demands" if not you should move on? will you be in a serious relationship with a lady with such mindset?

Correction, I live in the u.k and I know for a fact that what you’re saying is hogwash. Goodnight.

IjebuWarrior:


Well it's ONLY ignirant riff-raffs like you that spew rubbish. Any beautiful white lady will date anyone as long as she's physically and sexually attracted to that person NOT for any material or financial gain. Their governments have provided them with everything they need. You ugly bunch here ONLY date for money as a result of poverty!

They don't need ur money, they got it all readily available. There's a reason they're referred to as civilised.

Saff:
Correction, I live in the u.k and I know for a fact that what you’re saying is hogwash. Goodnight.

OK? You live in the U.K where immigrants live from hand to mouth... so freaking what, abeg?

Go above and beyond, dear. Go to the North Americas where their economies sustain enough immigrants NOT a 2nd Nigeria type of environment.
I'll be glad to send you an invite if you're naturally beautiful with no foull smell, months old wig or attachments.

Loool

There’s something called “relatability” in marketing that media stars use to draw attraction to people. Singers especially try to use this “relatability” in their lyrics to gain more fans. They sing about relatable topics, doesn’t necessarily mean they practice what they sing. Listen you think Davido would think twice before spending On a babe or even kiss Daniel. They know the dynamic of how a relationship should be. You cannot see the way chioma Is shining Lool? They only sing to appeal to you regular dudes, not trying to be rude but this is just the truth. I understand that being too demanding is parasitic, but don’t expect to be in a relationship without money. No woman is attracted to empty pockets.

kollinzgee:



I hate threads like this because they are too common here on nairaland but I have to contribute to this one.@saff this mentality of yours maybe be destructive .these days very few men are willing to spend on women like its a must do even the richest guys are not willing to comply to excessive female demands I hope you have heard the song by kiss Daniel and davido one ticket now davido is considered as the richest youth in Nigeria with 30billion kiss Daniel is also rich .now if these two big boys naija guys are looking upto as role model still complain about girls do you think an average boy will be comfortable with giving you money all the time wake up to reality learn to hustle or you may find it hard to get a husband

SexyDenzel:
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WHAT?! that's the entitlement?!?! where do I start? OMG I'm done, I quit. You probably talking about your "9ja" men around you. OMGaaaaaaaaaaaad

start from this...what makes you different?

Saff:
Loool

There’s something called “relatability” in marketing that media stars use to draw attraction to people. Singers especially try to use this “relatability” in their lyrics to gain more fans. They sing about relatable topics, doesn’t necessarily mean they practice what they sing. Listen you think Davido would think twice before spending On a babe or even kiss Daniel. They know the dynamic of how a relationship should be. You cannot see the way chioma Is shining Lool? They only sing to appeal to you regular dudes, not trying to be rude but this is just the truth. I understand that being too demanding is parasitic, but don’t expect to be in a relationship without money. No woman is attracted to empty pockets.

So to round it all up, no money no love/attraction from your perspective right?

kollinzgee:



I hate threads like this because they are too common here on nairaland but I have to contribute to this one.@saff this mentality of yours maybe be destructive .these days very few men are willing to spend on women like its a must do even the richest guys are not willing to comply to excessive female demands I hope you have heard the song by kiss Daniel and davido one ticket now davido is considered as the richest youth in Nigeria with 30billion kiss Daniel is also rich .now if these two big boys naija guys are looking upto as role model still complain about girls do you think an average boy will be comfortable with giving you money all the time wake up to reality learn to hustle or you may find it hard to get a husband

dayuum! So Naija boys/men look up to the likes of kiss Daniel...Davido?oti kpari... hehehehe,ewo! mtcheew

Not to brag, I’ve lived in France, lived in Nigeria, born in the U.K. and also been to America. Women around the globe are the same, I’ve been very exposed to life. The government helps citizens, yes but with how much? The government supports those living below minimum wage, for the average American lady who works a 9-5, you think she’ll entertain empty pockets? With all the bills and expenses you are just in denial. Your role as a man is to provide and protect, if you can’t do that then please go and date your fellow man. Bikooo

IjebuWarrior:


OK? You live in the U.K where immigrants live from hand to mouth... so freaking what, abeg?

Go above and beyond, dear. Go to the North Americas where their economies sustain enough immigrants NOT a 2nd Nigeria type of environment.
I'll be glad to send you an invite if you're naturally beautiful with no foull smell, months old wig or attachments.

kollinzgee:



I hate threads like this because they are too common here on nairaland but I have to contribute to this one.@saff this mentality of yours maybe be destructive .these days very few men are willing to spend on women like its a must do even the richest guys are not willing to comply to excessive female demands I hope you have heard the song by kiss Daniel and davido one ticket now davido is considered as the richest youth in Nigeria with 30billion kiss Daniel is also rich .now if these two big boys naija guys are looking upto as role model still complain about girls do you think an average boy will be comfortable with giving you money all the time wake up to reality learn to hustle or you may find it hard to get a husband

dayuum! So Naija boys/men look up to the likes of kiss Daniel...Davido?oti kpari... hehehehe,ewo! mtcheew.

EVILFOREST:

PLEASE STOP DATING NIGERIAN LADIES that reside in Nigeria.
Focus on NIGERIAN LADIES that reside abroad, period.
If you date such ladies and you do not have POT BELLY within 6months as a man, then call me a bastard

Unless you're talking about the ones that are born there, try marry a naija girl that just discovered the power that the American government gave to women over men and both of you are in America you come accidentally marry her your own don finish, she go use you do practical and if she come join these their groups then welcome to hell. No talk that one abeg.