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My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:29pm On Dec 11, 2018
Am a young guy dat is sucessful in life handsome got house furnish with AC washing machine and all dat money aint my problem i wish to get car next year. Am in pains of love since cos Ibo girl I train in skool and wish to marry Neva sex her turn out to be animal. I got a girl dat rule my world now I wish to marry early next yr prophet have confirm her but her mother is the problem. D woman don't like me and do all so we brake up cos everybody is OK wit it only dis woman. Am a man ready for marrage but am close to my mum am not ashamed to say dat am a mommys boy so I got house close to her street. My girl mother say before marrage day I must lived Dere and go far from mom cos she think my mom will cause wahala and I sware my mom aint like dat.my mom only dat my girl wash for her on weekend. She got mad at me and say her daughter is not a slave.anytin bad der? She accuse me dat I beat her daughter when it's a small issue even my girl have quarell wit her dat she deserve the beat. Now she say wedding will not hold next yr cos Iv not done rite thing and dat she may Neva allow me married her. A guy wit car is toasting my girl too this woman also insult my mother wen we do introduction. I feel so sad cos I dont want to loose her a sweet Yoruba girl can cook good in bed and all. Am 36 if I loose her were will I start from.am a dicipline guy tho not married but Neva go to hotel for prostitude I stop dat wen I am born again. My ex dat marry still call and dat she wish she marry me cos am d sweetest guy she know dat I have a good heart
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:36pm On Dec 11, 2018
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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 10:39pm On Dec 11, 2018
Jakan Millionaire! grin

Your future mother in-law is right sha. Let me even ask you, would you like it if your sister always goes to wash her mother in-law's clothes on every weekends when the woman isn't sick? I think getting a place away from your mum will make you both more independent and above all, in charge of your marriage. Marriage is for two, not three. Except if kids are involved.

Be a man! You're 36.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:46pm On Dec 11, 2018
kimbraa:
Jakan Millionaire! grin

Your future mother in-law is right sha. Let me even ask you, would you like it if your sister always goes to wash her mother in-law's clothes on every weekends when the woman isn't sick? I think getting a place away from your mum will make you both more independent and above all, in charge of your marriage. Marriage is for two, not three. Except if kids are involved.

Be a man! You're 36.
Kimbraa is it bad if u wash ur mother cloth so why not my mother day take her as daughter.my sister must be stupid if she refuse to help mother in law I live close to mum but I sware she dont control me cos she know I get angry easily. What some men of 60 Neva achive I achive so dont go dere. Will blog dis in romance tomorro
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Dec 11, 2018
jakandeola:
Kimbraa is it bad if u wash ur mother cloth so why not my mother day take her as daughter.my sister must be stupid if she refuse to help mother in law I live close to mum but I sware she dont control me cos she know I get angry easily
It's not bad if I wash my mother's clothes, but for how long? You even said you have washing machine in your house, according to you, money isn't your problem, so why not buy your mum a washing machine? I hope you're not looking for a slave as a wife to marry?

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:53pm On Dec 11, 2018
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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:57pm On Dec 11, 2018
kimbraa:
It's not bad if I wash my mother's clothes, but for how long? You even said you have washing machine in your house, according to you, money isn't your problem, so why not buy your mum a washing machine? I hope you're not looking for a slave as a wife to marry?
Am looking for a girl dat will love and respect my mother
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 10:57pm On Dec 11, 2018
At OP are you a stammerer?

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:02pm On Dec 11, 2018
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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 11:02pm On Dec 11, 2018
jakandeola:
Am looking for a girl dat will love and respect my mother
9JAFULLBREED:
At OP are you a stammerer?

Respect is a two way thing. If you treat her right, same will be meted on your mum.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:03pm On Dec 11, 2018
9JAFULLBREED:
At OP are you a stammerer?

May ur genaration become stammerers

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:12pm On Dec 11, 2018
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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:14pm On Dec 11, 2018
kimbraa:
Respect is a two way thing. If you treat her right, same will be meted on your mum.
I respect my girl and treat her as queen take her to eatry and all she know that. My girl living me for dat
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Homeboiy: 11:15pm On Dec 11, 2018
I was not invited here
I'm just intruding
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Dec 11, 2018
The problems listed here are the very reasons everyone is running from marriage and embracing the babymama, baby daddy lifestyle.



So you don even do introduction sef? Sorry sir but it's now your cross to carry. The word 'husband' means to manage. Manage your problems with the best means available to you. My advice, impregnate that babe asap. Babe wey dey fit wash your male clothes na humble pikin. As for your mother-in-law, you don't need a prophet to tell you she despises you. Give her a reason not to. Give her a grandchild by force, she go calm down. Either you do that or you quit the relationship.

N.B.
Try to rent an apartment far from both yours and her family. It will save you a lot of drama. Stop beating your woman too. E no make sense.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:27pm On Dec 11, 2018
Homeboiy:
I was not invited here

I'm just intruding
Animals lol
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ojun50(m): 11:38pm On Dec 11, 2018
36 yearsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss, men u never ready for marriage oh mummys boy,

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:40pm On Dec 11, 2018
ojun50:
36 yearsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss, men u never ready for marriage oh mummys boy,
god purnish u for dat word
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:42pm On Dec 11, 2018
Earthbound:
The problems listed here are the very reasons everyone is running from marriage and embracing the babymama, baby daddy lifestyle.



So you don even do introduction sef? Sorry sir but it's now your cross to carry. The word 'husband' means to manage. Manage your problems with the best means available to you. My advice, impregnate that babe asap. Babe wey dey fit wash your male clothes na humble pikin. As for your mother-in-law, you don't need a prophet to tell you she despises you. Give her a reason not to. Give her a grandchild by force, she go calm down. Either you do that or you quit the relationship.

N.B.
Try to rent an apartment far from both yours and her family. It will save you a lot of drama. Stop beating your woman too. E no make sense.
Nice one guy I love d word you type make sence
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ojun50(m): 11:46pm On Dec 11, 2018
jakandeola:
god purnish u for dat word
na wen u Reach 38 u go get sense well well.... Continue yr mummys boy charater

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:50pm On Dec 11, 2018
ojun50:

na wen u Reach 38 u go get sense well well.... Continue yr mummys boy charater
Guy am too old for dis I Neva blog to u so Bleep off and use ur tiny brian
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 11:55pm On Dec 11, 2018
The mother is right, I can't give my daughter away to a riffraff like you. Ciao

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Asey(f): 11:56pm On Dec 11, 2018
It is not a bad thing to wash for a GOOD to be mother-in-law or already mother-in-law.
Most of the time it is never ideal to stay close to both parents after marriage. Today, you can hit your chest and swear you know your mom too well and that she won't cause any problems between you two. Your to be mother-in-law is only trying to protect her daughter from any marital wahala.
I hope you know human beings are prone to change. The probability that your mum might change positively or negatively after marriage is 50 50.
Please note that marriage is not about how well furnished your apartment is. You can have a well furnished apartment and still face issues from different angles.

I also believe your lady's mom should take her time. It's not as easy as she thinks. Try talking to her. Convince her that you will make arrangements to move after marriage.
RESPECT is RECIPROCAL.

I wish you well.
jakandeola:
Kimbraa is it bad if u wash ur mother cloth so why not my mother day take her as daughter.my sister must be stupid if she refuse to help mother in law I live close to mum but I sware she dont control me cos she know I get angry easily. What some men of 60 Neva achive I achive so dont go dere. Will blog dis in romance tomorro
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by bujebudanu1(m): 12:04am On Dec 12, 2018
Well.i didn't understand the comprehension.

Owning a house with AC , washing machine and the likes even a car.is that what you call successful?

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 12:14am On Dec 12, 2018
jakandeola:
May ur genaration become stammerers

Good to know that you’re a du.mb stammerer! u just dey talk like a barren goat. Sissy boy grin you said money is not ya problem but somehow sense is your problem.



U bragging about having AC in 2018? shocked

How old are you again? 36 for real? shocked

U said u get money but no common sense to know how to buy washing machine for your mother.

With the way u dey type It’s not that hard for me to know that you’re a stammerer + u come lack sense join

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 12:16am On Dec 12, 2018
ojun50:

na wen u Reach 38 u go get sense well well.... Continue yr mummys boy charater

grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 12:32am On Dec 12, 2018
Colourich:
[b]The mother is right, I can't give my daughter away to a riffraff like you. [/b]Ciao

Jesus Christ!!!! grin cheesy grin
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by otipoju(m): 12:40am On Dec 12, 2018
Truth is you are still a boy and you are not ready to marry.

Why cant you get a maid for your mother if she cant wash her dirty clothes by herself.

That girls mother is protecting her child from danger and she is a good mother.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by mankettle(m): 2:44am On Dec 12, 2018
a lot of issues can be avoided especially when one looks at the bigger picture involved.
she washes your mum's cloths get mummy a washing machine and get one for her mum too.
you live close to your mum, get a house a little bit far, after marriage you can always come back. marriage isn't easy especially when ones inlaw are close by. that is the fear most ladies have.
also u said u hit her, pls don't do so next time.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by missyojo(f): 5:11am On Dec 12, 2018
[quote author=9JAFULLBREED post=73765343]

Good to know that you’re a du.mb stammerer! u just dey talk like a barren goat. Sissy boy grin you said money is not ya problem but somehow sense is your problem.



U bragging about having AC in 2018? shocked

How old are you again? 36 for real? shocked

U said u get money but no common sense to know how to buy washing machine for your mother.

With the way u dey type It’s not that hard for me to know that you’re a stammerer + u come lack sense join

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Eketem: 5:32am On Dec 12, 2018
First problem here is you are not smart, you think having AC and washing machine means you are ready for marriage.


Second thing is you are a hypocrite, you want to be close to your mom marry a woman that will become her househelp, weekend she is supposed to be resting like a human being she will go and be slaving for your mom but you don't want her own mother to protected her, so you sef weekend go and be cutting grass in her mother's compound and cleaning gutter.

Last thing is you are abusive, go and get help, violence is not the best way to resolve conflicts there will be more conflicts after marriage. You are almost 40 I hope you don't enter your 40s with foolishness

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by carammel(f): 5:57am On Dec 12, 2018
The op sounds like he is trolling anyway. grin grin grin.

In the event that this is true, the only thing that caught my attention is that "her mother said you should stop beating her daughter", but you won't stop because even the girl knows she deserves the beatings, humor me please.

Una go dey alright lasslass.

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