Hey bro... Let me share this!

Been a stammer isn't a sin or a crime. Back in my school days, a colleague successful finished his Msc as a stammerer, we call him a successful stammerer and today, he is the currently the HOD of a mathematics department in one of Nigeria Polytechnics.

Why this short story?

Been a stammerer isn't a short coming. Some people will love you for who you are and some will not even care no matter what. All you need to do is to see your deficiency as an advantage and make good thing out of it.

Stammering is a natural phenomenon that happens to everybody but it is more pronounced in some. It is caused by the brain processing a lot of thoughts at the same time so that the mouth finds a hard time speaking or voicing out those thoughts. You said you are always scared that you'll embarrass yourself when in public. Actually that is where the problem is. Due to your anxiousness you tend to increase stress in speaking. The normal person stammers when they are anxious ..... I believe you understand where I'm going to with this. When you want to speak and you discover you are anxious, take a pause and then take a deep breath. Count one to five in your mind and then speak out slowly but comfortably. Keep on doing that and with time you will stop stammering. The cure to stammering is speak slowly, do not be anxious, keep relaxed when you feel tensed.

NB. Stammerers are more intelligent than the average human as their brains process thoughts faster

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

.

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

B strong bro..suicide is never an option ok..will advise u seek help medically or beter still talk to master Jesus d all solution provider

Drink a glass cup of pregnant woman urine in the morning, afternoon and evening consecutively for 9 months. Thank me later.

U are considering suicide? Oga live ur life happily jare. Life is too short to worry urself

Alexk2:
It's not a disease neither is it a curse my brother. You're unique and amazing just the way you are and I encourage you to love yourself first and never let anyone put you down. There'll be people who won't understand or who choose to display there ignorant; ignore them and just live your life happily as much as possible. You'll get better or learn to overcome that challenge by keep talking wherever and whenever possible not to keeping quite....so face the fear and learn to enjoy doing so. God is your strength.

God bless you Alex

I don't know much about stammering but i do stammer when i'm shy or in an awkward position, and believe me its no fun... So just try to relax your nerves, feel free around people, don't concern yourself too much about your stutters when you speak. I believe it might help a little but sometimes a little is just enough for greater things..

Sorry bro, just stay strong

mmadu5:
dude , people are dying of AIDS , CANCER , HEPATITIS and many more , your ONLY worried about being a stammerer ., ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

shut up

Swargu:
Just stop talking fast... Infact limit your talk, these days I even have nothing to say to anyone.

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thornapple:
It has come to my notice that when a nairaland needs help on a delicate issue he opens a new account.

So

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

Hi, you should watch this video from Steve harvey, he was a stammerer, but now he is a popular tv show host, the video below shows him advicing a lady who asked him how to overcome her own stammering condition, i hope it helps.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZ4XNEDSKWY

Talk slowly. Calculate your speech.


I've never really had real contact with a stsmmerer though

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

When you read the Bible which I suggest you start doing daily.

Read it aloud slowly, then teach or preach to yourself what you understood by saying it out, slowly.

Your confidence level begin to grow, and your speech pattern will be healed.

Walk up to people without fear, be full of confidence, as time goes on it will become normal.

Try to relax, don't be too self conscious when you speak it will make you fidget and stammer uncontrollably. practice in front of a mirror, take deep breaths before you speak,if you are about to stutter stop and continue. if you have access to a speech therapist please see one. don't let it get to you, everyone has one flaw. live your life and let the world see the best in you.

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

Fast talking helps put stammering under control..... You just need to be calm and composed, while talking fast.....

If your stammering is causing you to feel suicidal, how do you expect dumb people to feel?

Bros na wa ooo....do you know Mr Bean is a stammerer and don't even argue it ,he makes more money than many comedians who don't stammer ..Britain Got Talent 2018 was won born a comedian who completely lost his speech ..As in he can't talk at all ..Always see positivity in every thing ..find a way to turn your uniqueness to money .Abi na radio station u wan work ?? Brother I bow to you self ,ordinary stammer wey guys dey stammer na in you come turn big deal?

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

Do stomach exercises.
Speak more from your stomach region than from your neck region

u jst hv to attend the up coming '5 night of glory' Salvation ministry Port Harcourt....many hv bn healed of d same issue...

thornapple:
It has come to my notice that when a nairaland needs help on a delicate issue he opens a new account.

lol, after them don bash alot of people you wan dem make dem use dia original monicker? impossible

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

Stammer confidently...some ladies find it sexy.

Relax dude, just relax. It is not that bad biko...I once dated a stammerer. Na kisses I take finish the bobo. Relax, don't take life too seriously. Concentrate on self improvement that will lead to money for you...when you get money, even queen Elizabeth will fall for you , Otedola will dine with you!

thornapple:
It has come to my notice that when a nairaland needs help on a delicate issue he opens a new account.

Yes nau.....no trace and nobody knowing it's yu especially for family section

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

Make a style of talking from it.
Find the way to talk that won't make u rush.
If you could sing without stammering, then be talking like u are singing. E.t.c.

Make a style of talking that won't make u stammer. Don't mind how it sounds to pols hearing. Just practice and be consistent.

op inbox me and whole heartedly follow what I will tell u

I think you've been experiencing anxiety. That could be the cause.

Besides what others have suggested, I'll advice you download and watch 'the king's speech'.

Its a true story based on queen Elizabeth's father what happened to be a stammerer.

Be happy and healthy.

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

No need to be frustrated dear,speak more , keeping quiet won't help and ignore negative vibes. Sing often when you are alone,it will help.

sisisioge:
Relax dude, just relax. It is not that bad biko...I once dated a stammerer. Na kisses I take finish the bobo. Relax, don't take life too seriously. Concentrate on self improvement that will lead to money for you...when you get money, even queen Elizabeth will fall for you , Otedola will dine with you!

He was lucky.
Not every guy, who stutters, can find a woman.

What makes the matter worse is because you're being controlled by people's opinion concerning your life. Calm yourself down, inhale nd exhale then say to yourself ; i can overcome this. Be positive nd relax, communicate with your friends as you always do, don't think too much, do what you love most and most importantly, try to keep it simple by speaking softly, not too fast, and with relaxed mind.. You'll surely overcome. The lord is your strength.

Drock49:
Hi, everyone, am tobi from ogun state, a tall guy in his early twenties, I'm a stammerer from birth but recently i have been noticing that it's been getting worse, I can't talk anymore in public without the fear of embarrassing myself.

Everytime am on the net, searching for "How to stop Stammering" but up till now, no improvement, I have tried all method, but still no improvement, Each time I go out to buy something, I usually embarrass myself, sometimes I overhear people saying, is he deaf and dumb?

I have few friends I talk to regularly, they do understand but not everyone understands, it wasn't as bad as this early this year or in the middle of the year, I just can't explain, Usually I talk fast, but people advise me to calm down while talking but even though I try to calm down I still end up Stammering, am frustrated, nothing is working, its even leading me to suicidal thoughts, am just tired,

Ignore my typos, am just frustrated

Dude take it or leave it... the best way to stop stammering by not giving a f++k about the shitz they say about you. say that word with confidence, the moment you stop worrying about what the person you're talking to will think, that moment you'll stop stammering.

Don't just a f++k