On Saturday evening around 8pm, I was in the market when a riot broke out among thugs and traders. It was so deadly that I had to hide my self in a street corner near to the market.
Then I received a call from my girlfriend to buy her food because she was hungry and has nothing to cook, her house is about 4km to the market where the riot broke out. Unfortunately all the traders had packed there goods and there's no other routes to her house than the market square. When I received her call she had the noise nd gun shot, she asked me where I was. I explained the scene and I pray that I will call her back because it was too difficult to hold a phone not to talk of making calls in such scene.
I got home and I called her back as I have promised and told her that I won't be able to bring her the food she requested, because of the riot that was going on every where around my street...
She was annoyed and she stated that she regret calling me nd I have always avoid to come to her house, though I have explained the nature of my job to her and how busy I am as a young server administrator.
Thus, she asked me not to call her again in my life, she has blocked me from her social media accounts.
Our relationship is 4yrs and I have been to doing my best to care for her and I did not cheat on her since we started dating till this moment. Despite all that I discovered about her few months ago that she's in serious relationship with other guy.
Dear bro nd sis kindly advice me and judge me if I am guilty..

FTC

Bro she doesn't love you a bit and presumably you are her maga......How can you be in a tensed place and your girl is talking about food.
BTW if you had died that day am sure her other guy would Bleep her silly that night if they were together.

Olalan:
Bro she doesn't love you a bit and presumably you are her maga......How can you be in a tensed place and your girl is talking about food.
BTW if you had died that day am sure her other guy would Bleep her silly that night if they were together.

true talk thanks bro

You wasted 4 years with her

move on with your life.

Apparently you're sidelined.

Bros. If you go ahead and marry her, believe me the marriage will break up the day you are unable to provide food at home again. Am sure other guys can have sex with her with just indomie and coke. Or gala and lacasera

Which state/area are you living that riot broke out without it making the news?

Pls run away from that lady dont ask me why!!

You discovered she's in a serious relationship with some other guy and did nothing? Damn! What are Nigerian men turning into?? Bro you come off as too soft hearted for a girl to be playing with your emotions like this, its obvious she never loved you. You have low self esteem bro, that's a fact. That girl doesn't give a fvck bout you bro, you were dating her but she was never dating you.

My advice? Move on. Learn to love yourself. Cut off anybody or anything that makes you unhappy bro, that girl doesn't worth it. Nobody is irreplaceable.. Now take yourself out and show yourself the best Love you can and surround yourself with people that make you happy. You also need to grow some balls and have confidence or these daughters of eve would lead you to your early graves someday.

Despite all that I discovered about her few months ago that she's in serious relationship with other guy.
She asked you not to call again and proceeded to block you on her social media accounts and you are still asking what you should do? what you shouldn't do?
You funny sha!

Forget cutlass on her head

My dear girls plenty unless you don't have money that why you are thinking of Love plenty plenty girls they how many you one Bleep if you get money na them go they rush you

honestly, been a man isn't all about muscles and beards or whatever, why are you feeling like a failure because you couldn't satisfy a lady who I guess doesn't care about your life.
firstly: there's no love in yur so called relationship, shes all about the benefits she has been getting from you.
secondly: from your write up, you are a typical dull guy and respect pussy more than yur life. how could you manage to be negotiating food at a point where your life is not really save.
lastly: you should be the one to call off the called "relationship" before she even think about it. just look at it from this direction' if you have been victimized or shot during the tragedy, is she gonna die of hunger that night?
bro sit up and accept the fact that you wasted your time and resources with her. move on but go along with your brain.
peace.

How did you get yourself here?

If she break your heart, you steal her logo benz..........


If u know, u know

And u still dey ask wetin u go do??

spiSeyi:
On Saturday evening around 8pm, I was in the market when a riot broke out among thugs and traders. It was so deadly that I had to hide my self in a street corner near to the market.
Then I received a call from my girlfriend to buy her food because she was hungry and has nothing to cook, her house is about 4km to the market where the riot broke out. Unfortunately all the traders had packed there goods and there's no other routes to her house than the market square. When I received her call she had the noise nd gun shot, she asked me where I was. I explained the scene and I pray that I will call her back because it was too difficult to hold a phone not to talk of making calls in such scene.
I got home and I called her back as I have promised and told her that I won't be able to bring her the food she requested, because of the riot that was going on every where around my street...
She was annoyed and she stated that she regret calling me nd I have always avoid to come to her house, though I have explained the nature of my job to her and how busy I am as a young server administrator.
Thus, she asked me not to call her again in my life, she has blocked me from her social media accounts.
Our relationship is 4yrs and I have been to doing my best to care for her and I did not cheat on her since we started dating till this moment. Despite all that I discovered about her few months ago that she's in serious relationship with other guy.
Dear bro nd sis kindly advice me and judge me if I am guilty..

she doesn't love u from the start ... she is looking for an excuse already ... she does not even care about ur safety ....her mind is on the food alone .....

she doesn't care if u get home safely on that day or not ...


just let go forget her ...

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' I can't go out sad about a hoe... Hell no!! Married to the money, I proposed '


- takeoff (migos)

smh

The earlier you accept how useless our women are and that anyone you are dating is a retired olosho the better for us

Lies, if this is true I don't think you're up to 15yrs

when you get high level of mumuness this is how someone behave

[right][/right]Let's all welcome anoda Fallen mumu from the War of 4yrs Relationship.. Welcome bro..

I think that girl has done you the best good by blocking you and asking you not to call her again.. Now delete her contact from your device and move on

Godson213:
The earlier you accept how useless our women are and that anyone you are dating is a retired olosho the better for us

This is how people like you miss out on good people, how do you move around with this kind of mindset

Na wa oh, don't even want to say what I have in mind.

Girls Girls Girls Girls...
She actually dumped you long time ago,but she just made it official by telling you now. 4 years chai,4 long years chai, that's cold man, especially cos of the stupid reason for dumping you.
I can only imagine how much you have spent on her in the last 4 years of the relationship. Sadly,you might not have spent 5% of it on your mum or sisters.
Enjoy your singleship and look before you leap next time.

@op. you should be happy!.

Unbreak it na

spiSeyi:
On Saturday evening around 8pm, I was in the market when a riot broke out among thugs and traders. It was so deadly that I had to hide my self in a street corner near to the market.
Then I received a call from my girlfriend to buy her food because she was hungry and has nothing to cook, her house is about 4km to the market where the riot broke out. Unfortunately all the traders had packed there goods and there's no other routes to her house than the market square. When I received her call she had the noise nd gun shot, she asked me where I was. I explained the scene and I pray that I will call her back because it was too difficult to hold a phone not to talk of making calls in such scene.
I got home and I called her back as I have promised and told her that I won't be able to bring her the food she requested, because of the riot that was going on every where around my street...
She was annoyed and she stated that she regret calling me nd I have always avoid to come to her house, though I have explained the nature of my job to her and how busy I am as a young server administrator.
Thus, she asked me not to call her again in my life, she has blocked me from her social media accounts.
Our relationship is 4yrs and I have been to doing my best to care for her and I did not cheat on her since we started dating till this moment. Despite all that I discovered about her few months ago that she's in serious relationship with other guy.
Dear bro nd sis kindly advice me and judge me if I am guilty..

U are not guilty but may be guilty of the following.

1. Worrying after u discovered she is in a serious relationship which means the relationship she had with you b4 breakup was a jeuin jeun relationship.

2. Trying to hold on to a lady that has moved on.

My advise , get another girl if you still need one