randy01:
Don't stress your self a lot.let me use my little sister as example.she is like your sister then exactly 16 years.she will never listen to advise sometimes she will insult my mom.she only behave normal when we her grown bro are around. She got pregnant at 16 and gave birth to a boy.she move in with the guy that impregnate her.that is when she knew all gilter are not gold.the is g boy but maga never pay.to cut the long story short that is how my sister end going to farm with the guy mom.she have come back home and start begging because the suffering is too much.we accept her back.@ op now she is a medical doctor.she hate guys a lot.she never accept any guy that want to date her.Am even scared now if will ever get married.just leave your sister let her make mistake then she know how life is.

Omudia11:
You're an idiot. My cousin came to my house about 9:30pm last night. His father had made a distress call to my dad that his cult people wanted to take his life last night and the only thing that could save his life was if he ran to come see refuge in mine. So his father put him in a taxi and he came here. First thing this morning his father will come take him to the village so he can hide there to prevent the cultists finding him. Is that one a girl too?

I have some useless neighbours (boys) who ran mad for doing drugs. Some others are just neighborhood touts who always tax you for money to go smoke or drink their life away and none of them are girls. So continue with your misorgyny.

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

Sarang:


You are an idiot! Do you know what teenage kids overseas does?

CaptainGOOD:


I think she has been jazzed by those yahoo guys like u said.
I'm sorry to say but it seems they have used her, there is nothing any man can do except some spiritual interventions.
It's apity

Nigeriadondie:

My only fear for your sister is incuruable STD not even belle. Besides the risk of getting killed by some of the yahoo guys that are ritualists. You as a bro if she is out of the house, locate her quickly. Then talk to her on one on one basis how are actions hurts the family and will eventually hurt her. To inspire a little fear in her google with her links with pics and videos of people suffering from dreaded STDs. You could take her for a walk to LASUTH Ikeja General Hospital let her see the long queue of HIV patients waiting to get their ARV spending valuable time though little money for their treatment. I swear she will get sense.

SSAwhistleblowe:
Eeya so sad and she doesn’t realize that there is no time to waste on irresponsible behaviour .. by the time she realizes it now it may be too late... she will definitely regret the actions later in life... the way we live our lives matter... even her making your parents sad may bring a curse upon her... I feel nothing but pity for her .. may God give us wisdom to understand times and seasons.

Thicktemptation:

Nothing like jazz bros, Na the sex wey she start dey confuse her. She will change in a coupla years and that's if her life never finish then. Kids these days dey wild sha

CreepyBlackpool:


kukuma sell the girl to one alhaji and make money off her for all her troubles

mogbojaiye:


Baba u jst kw well
I stopped advising females becus na wahala or yeye person day go tag u, ,,,so make everybody day e lane, ,,,

GBOKASINCHA:
Seriously having a girl child in nigeria is a curse 16 years old and see wetin dis little ogbanje dey cause her family..members

mogbojaiye:


It seems u are a female, y are u so pissed off, ,,,controlling a female child is difficult, just accept it, ,,,ok from ur statement even the boy too will b afraid dat some cult boys are after their life and he will gladly accept to go and hide in d village, and probably learn his lesson

But a girl child that is already sleeping around and been giving some tips (indomine and egg) which advice u wan advice her? Or d one dat is sleeping with married men becus of tips and bigprick or her toto day scratch her for sex,

I stopped advising a female mostly girls dat are going wayword around me becus u will only end up as their enemy and even write off negative words on u to other people u know about u, ,,,infact na see finish she go even see u finish, or say u toast her and she kw gree dats y she kw day talk to u, ,,

I pray to have children o but girls shouldn't b among


Get ur facts straight woman

idumeni:




bros ...it's your fault!!! first..how will your father send her packing? is that the solution? what happen to beating her? this may sound archaic but shave her hair with razor blade!! she is just 16 for chrissakes !!! and as for you...guy watch her then when you see the yahoo boys she is with go and warned them to leave her..if them no hear...if you be strong man..carry men go beat them or fall their hand but if you be JU-man na to use SARS buts them. one day she will thank you for it.
also no forget to seize her phone and shave her hair!!
find one good lady to put her under her wing and be advising her.

p.s chimezie I know you stay in Lagos badagry area..if you need my help unto beating the Yahoo boys or police I am available
GOD bless you

Morbeta11:
Once her in-road becomes like this, she will definitely run to Christ Jesus before returning to your father..

Thicktemptation:

If you don't have a daughter,then you never born. Male children are the most difficult to tame once they grow wild.

IamPlato:
you All Are Just Saying She Needs love. Bros! Love Is One Thing This Useless Girl Doesnt Lack at All... My Mother's Love For Her Is So Strong. When Ever My Father Forgave her He'd Draw Her Close But She Ends Up Doing The same Thing And Even Worse

IamPlato:
Mr. Seun Please What Do You Think About This Issue?

ruthxzy:

And they should use prayer to follow her

1stCitizen:


Bro, it's not only in Nigeria. I live abroad and it's not easy for parents these days.

Nigeria is good because only the girls are endangered which is by choice most times.Their comeuppance is 'baby mamahood' being abandoned, later frustration then depression.

Here every young black teenage boy is an endangered specie whether by choice or not

Mart1994:
I think it's bad company she keeps or someone wants to make her useless.
You guys should pray for her. It may not be normal.
Your dad sending her away isn't the right thing but it seemed like he had enough.

If this is not a curse, then she needs to learn the hard way.

You can only take a horse to the river, but you cannot force it to drink.

Badmusthomas:
y are u talking like this