darlenese:



please forget about marriage .


*assignment*

take a look at all the female relatives who have given birth in your family , from your mothers ,aunt ,siblings etc. study their boobs , what u see is what u will get


for the records , boobs will eventually sag even without having kids ...

Madam, don't be too quick to reply me and getting unnecessarily defensive, me and you no get fight b4 .....All these things about female boobs getting saggy with age, I know perfectly and as a man, I am prepared for that, so it's nothing strange to me.

Now go back and read what I posted, free your mind from being judgemental and answer me politely.

tunde82seidat:



Its pregnancy hormones that causes sagging not neccessarily breastfeeding

Agreed, it's pregnancy hormones but i have read stories of women who gave birth and decided not to breastfeed just to avoid sagging, the questions I asked sef, una no answer.

There are so many young girls who haven't gotten pregnant b4 but breast don sag like slippers.

If I had come to this world as a lady, started my teen years with a very perky boobs, I won't allow any foolish boy handle my breasts anyhow. I heard one story of a guy pressing and squeezing a girl's breast during sex so much that the girl shouted out....a lady who has her breast constantly getting sucked and manhandled anyhow will still come and get angry here.

So how will u cope when she's old? See as breast de sweet u like nursing baby

Elder0001:


His point is clear : if you can put on fake wigs ,fake eye lashes and push-up bra just to look good for yourself and men you shouldn't complain about plastic surgery which you deem fake.


Your husband left you in the most emotional devastating way few years ago so it's hard for you to understand simple things

The last sentence is so unnecessary, my brother.It is one of the reasons people don't open up when they have challenges leading to depression and then suicide.

Chelseafan1:


Agreed, it's pregnancy hormones but i have read stories of women who gave birth and decided not to breastfeed just to avoid sagging, the questions I asked sef, una no answer.

There are so many young girls who haven't gotten pregnant b4 but breast don sag like slippers.

If I had come to this world as a lady, started my teen years with a very perky boobs, I won't allow any foolish boy handle my breasts anyhow. I heard one story of a guy pressing and squeezing a girl's breast during sex so much that the girl shouted out....a lady who has her breast constantly getting sucked and manhandled anyhow will still come and get angry here.

Your question been answered.Breastfeeding doesn't sag the breast as much as pregnancy does so even if your wife decides not to breastfeed her baby, her boobs will still sag .However ,there are factors that influence this process
Such as to make sure shes wearing a supportive bra that fits properly.throughout her pregnancy and postpartum period. ...
Doesnt shy away from targeted strength training or yoga.
Don't underestimate the power of nutrition and GENE has a very strong role to play that's the reason some young unmarried ladies are sagged.All those breast squeeze you mentioned above play little or no role .You can read up on it

Chelseafan1:


Bro, after child birth, is it possible for the wife not to breast feed at all so that it won't sag, if yes? What will happen to the milk in her breast, won't it affect her negatively and again, if the child isn't breastfed at all, won't it affect him later in the future?

Cc Ifyalways...i won't allow my wife go thru surgery but I'm thinking of ways to make the breast stay attractive after giving birth to my intended two kids.

My wife must remain hot for me. I am determined to help her.

now I want to be polite and not being judgemental as well .

the answer to your question is Yes,your wifee can avoid breastfeeding , milk production/supply is as a result of demand , the more the baby suck the more milk she will produce so if she isnt breastfeeding at all then she will eventually stop producing milk.

but u know what, breastfeeding is not responsible for breast sagging the pregnancy hormone has already done the damage during pregnancy . so it's better not for u not to impregnate your wife,lol. and unfortunately the breast will eventually sag with time .

Chelseafan1:


Agreed, it's pregnancy hormones but i have read stories of women who gave birth and decided not to breastfeed just to avoid sagging, the questions I asked sef, una no answer.

There are so many young girls who haven't gotten pregnant b4 but breast don sag like slippers.

If I had come to this world as a lady, started my teen years with a very perky boobs, I won't allow any foolish boy handle my breasts anyhow. I heard one story of a guy pressing and squeezing a girl's breast during sex so much that the girl shouted out....a lady who has her breast constantly getting sucked and manhandled anyhow will still come and get angry here.

u are being very unfair and to women here, I have seen teenagers who are still virgins with sag boobs, why do want to blame people for their imperfection .
as for your question , those ladies are just being ignorant .

Saffi:
If my husband turns broke, and remains below average in the financial department, should I tolerate this, because I’m honestly not attracted to church broke rats? I thought marriage is through thick and thin? Let a wife cheat on her husband or leave him because of his broke ass and his lowest point. You all will will be quick to dehumanise her. But now, men can’t accept the changes that occur in a woman’s body, or they will leave? It’s a shame. Life happens, shit happens and if you can’t accept this, then you’re not ready for marriage.

Again, I am sorry if you women would be ready to remain sexually miserable for the rest of your lives, in the name of desperation to stay married at all cost but, let me be the bearer of bad news and let you know that the majority of men WOULDNT....and as much as they would still love their wife, they would get their freak on in other ways. We are DIFFERENT being, we react to certain things differently, we certainly ain't emotional as women are, and just because you women only need to spread your legs to fulfill your "possible" miserable duties, we men need to be AROUSED to do so, and if wifey is sexually unattractive, then such man won't be able to do it, even if he wanted to.

You can want whatever you desire out of life, but don't expect castles in the sky, simply because you women are judging this issue "the woman way", not considering that we men AINT WOMEN.

darlenese:




now I want to be polite and not being judgemental as well .

the answer to your question is Yes,your wifee can avoid breastfeeding , milk production/supply is as a result of demand , the more the baby suck the more milk she will produce so if she isnt breastfeeding at all then she will eventually stop producing milk.

but u know what, breastfeeding is not responsible for breast sagging the pregnancy hormone has already done the damage during pregnancy . so it's better not for u not to impregnate your wife,lol. and unfortunately the breast will eventually sag with time .

You are a darling This is the kinda reply I wanted to see.

There are different levels of sagging I believe, I want to believe the level of sagging won't be as bad as if she breastfeeds, and I won't marry a lady with extra large boobs, be like say na doz ones dey quick sag even b4 childbirth, my exes had small, perky once....I dey help dem maintain am well dt time sef. #Operationhelpyourwifemaintainperkybreast and if d thing eventually sag patapata like grandma own. We die there noni , I have married her, she'd make up for it with her good character, taking care of my household, Cooking good food, praying for me and her loyalty....life goes on jare.

You were not ready for marriage

So if a man is less than a minute suddenly! or broke! The woman should do what.na wa oo.women re really at d receiving end in africa.just imagine this shameless post.

bamirotola:


I really appreciate this.. I am trying to wipe it off my mind , and I have thought more on this , I thought there could be some creams or natural great product to use to correct this.. And if that isn't possible , I guess I will have to work on myself, my mind to see her more desirable .. Thanks sis

You didn’t answer any of her questions!

Do you have at least two cars at your wife’s disposal?

Do you live in a comfortably posh area?

Are you yourself willing to go under the knife when your balls shrink due to time / age??

MannieA:
Bamirotola...this matter doesn't need too much talk. I hope you have money?? If you have money then no problem take your wifey for cosmetic surgery to get the perfect boobs. I know you want to save your marriage so do the needful.

Lol! He most likely doesn’t.

Haven’t you noticed it’s the brokeass brothers who make the most noise?

Oyindidi:
when small boy with lots of fantasies marry na this kind story you go hear.

Him want flat tommy, slim figure, pecky booobs, tight veejay after 4 kids and sexy wife till old age, wake up from your dream Bro, welcome to saggy boobs movement.

Lolzzz!!

EfemenaXY:


Lolzzz!!

Where have you been sis? Have been missing you lots.

Saffi:
If my husband turns broke, and remains below average in the financial department, should I tolerate this, because I’m honestly not attracted to church broke rats? I thought marriage is through thick and thin? Let a wife cheat on her husband or leave him because of his broke ass and his lowest point. You all will will be quick to dehumanise her. But now, men can’t accept the changes that occur in a woman’s body, or they will leave? It’s a shame. Life happens, shit happens and if you can’t accept this, then you’re not ready for marriage.

The person you have quoted gets very angry if a woman is into loaded guys. Imagine this!

So I have reported the stalker Elder001 because he has been following me from section to section and his posts disappear when I log in but are visible when I log out. So fishy. Moreover, he has not been banned yet. I do not always play by the rules but if someone reports me, I am banned and my posts are not visible. I demand the same rules apply to everyone.

It's getting beyond annoying.

Cc: Seun (just thought you should know)

Mindfulness:


Where have you been sis? Have been missing you lots.

I’m out in force tonight

I’ve missed you more love

How’ve you been? Seasons greetings

Mindfulness:
So I have reported the stalker Elder001 because he has been following me from section to section and his posts disappear when I log in but are visible when I log out. So fishy. Moreover, he has not been banned yet. I do not always play by the rules but if someone reports me, I am banned and my posts are not visible. I demand the same rules apply to everyone.

It's getting beyond annoying.

Cc: Seun (just thought you should know)

Click on the Report button and send a PM to RoyalRoy and the supermods.

EfemenaXY:


Click on the Report button and send a PM to RoyalRoy and the supermods.

I have clicked the report button. I no longer see his posts but they are still there. There is a whole bunch of psychos following me from one section to the other.

EfemenaXY:


I’m out in force tonight

I’ve missed you more love

How’ve you been? Seasons greetings

So happy to see ya
How I missed you and the way you write.
My sister from another father

Mindfulness:


So happy to see ya
How I missed you and the way you write.
My sister from another father

Haha!

It’s a fairly long holiday for me and I decided to swap Netflix for a night on the nairaland tiles so to speak

EfemenaXY:


Haha!

It’s a fairly long holiday for me and I decided to swap Netflix for a night on the nairaland tiles so to speak

What have you been watching and enjoying lately? I got hooked on "You". I loved it. The suspense and the acting skills were superb even though it was a little unrealistic for the murderer to get away with everything for so long and in such a way.

Mindfulness:


What have you been watching and enjoying lately? I got hooked on "You". I loved it. The suspense and the acting skills were superb even though it was a little unrealistic for the murderer to get away with everything for so long and in such a way.

I’m terrible with remembering titles but let’s see:

1. The two seasons of Glitch
2. The 1st two seasons of The Last Kingdom (those Vikings are drop dead gorgeous)
3. The Twilight Saga (yes, yes, I’m a hopeless romantic)
4. Bird Box (that got me gripping the edge of my seat. So tense...)
4. Underground (watched both seasons in one weekend. Wondering when season 3 will be out)

And a few more

MrBrownJay1:


Again, I am sorry if you women would be ready to remain sexually miserable for the rest of your lives, in the name of desperation to stay married at all cost but, let me be the bearer of bad news and let you know that the majority of men WOULDNT....and as much as they would still love their wife, they would get their freak on in other ways. We are DIFFERENT being, we react to certain things differently, we certainly ain't emotional as women are, and just because you women only need to spread your legs to fulfill your "possible" miserable duties, we men need to be AROUSED to do so, and if wifey is sexually unattractive, then such man won't be able to do it, even if he wanted to.

You can want whatever you desire out of life, but don't expect castles in the sky, simply because you women are judging this issue "the woman way", not considering that we men AINT WOMEN.

Abeg stop saying " WE MEN" u are not even a man yet. a real man will not write those pooh u put up there

EfemenaXY:


I’m terrible with remembering titles but let’s see:

1. The two seasons of Glitch
2. The 1st two seasons of The Last Kingdom (those Vikings are drop dead gorgeous)
3. The Twilight Saga (yes, yes, I’m a hopeless romantic)
4. Bird Box (that got me gripping the edge of my seat. So tense...)
4. Underground (watched both seasons in one weekend. Wondering when season 3 will be out)

And a few more

You know which one I will check out now, don't ya?

Mindfulness:


You know which one I will check out now, don't ya?

Haha! I can make an educated guess

EfemenaXY:


Haha! I can make an educated guess

I recommend Modern Family as well, it's very funny.
I am impatient for the next season to come out.

Just took a glance at the Vikings
Whoever said women did not like handsome men was right. We love them!
I am a very shallow woman.

Mindfulness:


I recommend Modern Family as well, it's very funny.
I am impatient for the next season to come out.

Just took a glance at the Vikings
Whoever said women did not like handsome men was right. We love them!
I am a very shallow woman.

Are you sure Modern Family is available on Netflix?

I just checked and didn’t see it. Just titles related to Modern Family.

Re: shallow, I think I’m shallower than you. Honestly.

EfemenaXY:


Are you sure Modern Family is available on Netflix?

I just checked and didn’t see it. Just titles related to Modern Family.

Re: shallow, I think I’m shallower than you. Honestly.

Yes, just checked it.

Mindfulness:


Yes, just checked it.

Maybe there are slight differences in content between the Netflix providers? It’s certainly not available on the UK Netflix (version?)

EfemenaXY:




Maybe there are slight differences in content between the Netflix providers? It’s certainly not available on the UK Netflix (version?)

Yeah, obviously 'cause it's the second time it is happening. My friend from France could not watch one film I recommended once either.
What a pity!
Modern Family is very funny.