A female friend of mine dated a guy about 4yrs ago and during the time of their relationship, she was impregnanted by the guy who later opted for abortion which the girl refused. As a result of her refusal, the guy denied the responsibility and went on with his life. Just last year being 2009, he got married to another girl and few months after the marriage he had an ancident which made him impotent according to a medical doctor who later confirmed the damages done to his reproductive system as a result of the accident. Now, the boy is pleading with the girl to let go his child who is now getting to 3yrs old. And the girl is not yet married. Beside that, the parents of the girl said on no account will their daughter get married to him after the long yrs of pains he caused her{their daughter}. As for the wife of the guy, she said she's not leaving the guy because she is afraid of not getting married to another man again due to her age, she is 35yrs+. What's ur advice?.

She needs an advice which i believe nairalanders can give.

well i will say is not right cos he is so heartless.for instance now,when he asked dat lady 2 go for the abortion if she has angreed 2 do it will he still ve any hope now.that is y is gud in every situation we should think of 2moro.wel dat lady should just pray 2 God 4 direction and she should follow her heart most especially she should of her child.But left 4 me i dont think dat man ve any child again cos is own child as been aborted 3 yrs ago foooollllllllllllllllll like him.

kai-osama!:

A female friend of mine dated a guy about 4yrs ago and during the time of their relationship, she was impregnanted by the guy who later opted for abortion which the girl refused. As a result of her refusal, the guy denied the responsibility and went on with his life. Just last year being 2009, he got married to another girl and few months after the marriage he had an ancident which made him impotent according to a medical doctor who later confirmed the damages done to his reproductive system as a result of the accident. Now, the boy is pleading with the girl to let go his child who is now getting to 3yrs old. And the girl is not yet married. Beside that, the parents of the girl said on no account will their daughter get married to him after the long yrs of pains he caused her{their daughter}. As for the wife of the guy, she said she's not leaving the guy because she is afraid of not getting married to another man again due to her age, she is 35yrs+. What's your advice?.

karma is a bi/tch aint it.  he said the child is not his so be it.  a child is not a raincoat that you pull out when convinient and ignore the rest of teh while, if he had been a father to the child the whole time then there would be room to even think abou this but the man threw away his child, no getting him back.  tough poo, you made your bed lie in it

at the end of the day he is the father of the child.
If the woman loves her child she would not deprive him of the father.
Some men panic and deny the pregnancy.
BUT he had enough time to repent and go back for his kid.

Don't pay evil with evil, let peace and Joy reign for the sake of the love they share in the past. look unto the past and nt the presence but look at the future. Doctor's report is not our portion. God create everyone and is touch alone with bring a new song so pls let anger go follow ur heart and not what parents is saying. show example of true love n forgivess

Dear nairalanders, i have seen ur replies so far. Thanxs y'all.

Take the script to Ghollywood as Nollywood has a similar movie.

moi dont ve advise 4 nobody

The guy is a jerk, that's a fact but the lady shld find a space in her heart to forgive him. If she doesn't want it she might not allow d boy to go and stay with him but she shld pls allow the man to be a father to his son. The boy would need it. One mistake she however must not let herself to be lured into is marrying the man.

If it is really not a ghollywood or nollywood line then i'll say 2 bad for the guy cos he's married so she cant marry him, he has a companion why does he want to take hers & one he rejected. If it is a matter of being fair, he can get the f##k out of her life.

reality4us:

Take the script to Ghollywood as Nollywood has a similar movie.

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The guy is a jerk, that's a fact but the lady shld find a space in her heart to forgive him. If she doesn't want it she might not allow d boy to go and stay with him but she shld pls allow the man to be a father to his son. The boy would need it. One mistake she however must not let herself to be lured into is marrying the man.