WHEN THE NAGGING SUDDENLY STOPS
One of the greatest mistakes we make as men is
to bask in the euphoria of victory when the wife
suddenly stops complaining or nagging. We
celebrate our phantom victory, ignorantly mistaking
her silence to mean that she has been subdued or
she has finally accepted what was making her
complain or nag. A woman is known to nag and
fight over a man for whom she has feelings for,
she moves to protect her territory at the slightest
sign of encroachment. She wants him to be perfect,
she tries to make him fit into her fantasy image of
Mr right. A wise man shouldn’t be worried when
the nagging is going on, however, you should be
very worried if the fighting and nagging suddenly
stops. If she suddenly starts to ignore the things
that used to make her quarrel and fight, pay closer
attention and move to make things right before you
loose her for good.




When a woman stops nagging or complaining, one
of two things may have happened. She has either
fallen out of love for you and does not care about
you or what you do anymore or she is talking to or
planning to start talking to someone else. She may
not be cheating yet, she may not even be planning
to cheat, but she is certainly ready to talk to
someone who has the patience to listen to her
whine about the time and energy she has put into
the marriage or relationship. Your marriage will now
depends on the temperament, motive and character
of the person she talks to. A woman is naturally
very patient and will usually give you many clear
signs and warnings before cheating. If you pay
attention , you will notice her frustration gradually
fade away leaving an unusually peaceful and very
confident disposition, at that point she is trying to
convince herself that she can do without you, you
will also begin to notice some bold independent
moves, if she didn’t keep Friends, you will begin to
see some around her, she may also start to dress
differently, paying particular attention to her looks
and appearance, wearing a bit more makeup and
so on. She may not leave you especially if there
are children involved, but at this stage she certainly
does not have feelings for you anymore, she has
the capacity to pretend until death do you path.
When the nagging suddenly stops, the only way to
ensure she doesn’t do something silly, which will
hurt you and hurt her as well is to talk to her, you
may have to woo her all over again. Try to be
patient because she may be enjoying her emotional
freedom and will be very reluctant to give that up
for you again that easily. Don’t worry somewhere
deep inside her, the feelings are still there,
whatever made her say yes to you the first time
will make her say yes again, no matter how she
tries to throw you off, don’t budge, be persistent
and consistent in your effort to win her back, she
will definitely be yours again.





Someone may ask why put in all this effort to win
over a woman who wants to leave, I always tell
them that the devil you know is better than the
angel you don’t know. If you leave wife no1 and
settle for wife no2, what guarantees do you have
that the person won’t be worse than your ex, also
bear in mind that once you start a new relationship,
especially if the person hasn’t been previously
married, you will be starting from a disadvantaged
position, you will tolerate worst things from him/
her for fear of being labelled a failure in
relationships, you may have to endure much worse
to save face. These are the things to consider
before you decide to let her go.





I know there are women who are incorrigible and
will not be appeased once they have fallen out of
love, latched onto greener pastures or have falling
in love with someone else, if you try and she
refuses to be appeased, you may not have much
choice but to let her go. Make sure you make a
note of the the things she used to complain about,
women reason almost alike, chances are your new
wife will complain about the same things and may
not be as patient or as nice as your first in her
approach to correct you. Date for a while before
you commit, while It is difficult to recover from a
first marriage and find happiness again, it is almost
impossible to recover from the failure of a second
marriage.




I suggest you leave pride out of your marriage and
do all you can to ensure it doesn’t break, you will
be happy you did. A very high percentage of
divorced couples regret the extra mile they didn’t
go, they wonder if they gave up too soon, don’t let
that be your story, the pride you swallow today will
transcend into the celebration of silver and golden
jubilee of your marriage in future. Don’t be in a
hurry to give up, no marriage is perfect, stop and
think, you may be moved to forgive, compromise
and keep your home intact - Sir Stanley Ekezie
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Funny but true!

No post formatting whatsoever. You just copied a lump of words and pasted. Ahan!

Poorly presented...

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Very true.

Just like my husband will say "Honey you have changed I love the new you". They reason like babies

Women like is that don't nag nko? We say something once and act thereafter. I don't like whining, complaining or saying something over and over.

You mean a woman nagging is a sign of love. I reject that kind of love for my enemy.

So true

Heishere:
You mean a woman nagging is a sign of love. I reject that kind of love for my enemy.

hahahaha i see u love ur enemies.