Sparro:
Is there any thing I can take that will force me to remain faithful to my wife. My wife is the center of my earth. She is a compartment of all that I need. I love her to heaven. Somehow, I see all her activities in my dreams. Like, if she is ill, unhappy or if she is getting too close to a guy and the closeness can lead to a potential damage, I foresee all these activities in my dreams and I take the necessary steps to forestall any unpleasant situation that it may lead to

Another aspect is that, I dream of any potential danger lurking around her. I have pulled her out of graves in my dreams like on two occasions so far.. There are many more. We are connected spiritually. I love her with my soul.

My only challenge is my sexual urge. I love sex. She sometimes can't meet up. It breaks my heart whenever I go down with some else. I am in captivity of my own feelings.

People, is there anything I can take like medication or prayers that will just lock out the beauty of other girls from my sexual eyes? I want to remain true to her till eternity.

Note: I have never gone out deliberately to gratify my sex urge before. I will be minding my own business even while am horney and she is not available and one incident will just usher in a girl into my house.

Despite all these, my love for her is still as hard a s a rock. I can never and will never stop adoring my angel.

Somebody please, advice

Sparro:
Is there any thing I can take that will force me to remain faithful to my wife. My wife is the center of my earth. She is a compartment of all that I need. I love her to heaven. Somehow, I see all her activities in my dreams. Like, if she is ill, unhappy or if she is getting too close to a guy and the closeness can lead to a potential damage, I foresee all these activities in my dreams and I take the necessary steps to forestall any unpleasant situation that it may lead to

Another aspect is that, I dream of any potential danger lurking around her. I have pulled her out of graves in my dreams like on two occasions so far.. There are many more. We are connected spiritually. I love her with my soul.

My only challenge is my sexual urge. I love sex. She sometimes can't meet up. It breaks my heart whenever I go down with some else. I am in captivity of my own feelings.

People, is there anything I can take like medication or prayers that will just lock out the beauty of other girls from my sexual eyes? I want to remain true to her till eternity.

Note: I have never gone out deliberately to gratify my sex urge before. I will be minding my own business even while am horney and she is not available and one incident will just usher in a girl into my house.

Despite all these, my love for her is still as hard a s a rock. I can never and will never stop adoring my angel.

Somebody please, advice

mrsthang:
Interesting..

You aren't the only one with an urge..I struggle as well and haven't cheated yet.
Unfortunately,there is no pill or magical solution.
You will do what you want until you learn to say No or at least put up some resistance.
Good luck.

ZIMDRILL:


what you mean you are connected spiritually,

as per wife denying you sex we need to find out yhe daily routine of wife and whether yoy have kids, their age group etc. such things affect women by the time she comes to bed she is tired

ValCon888:
Use this

Don't forget to give all the keys to your wife.

Orla234:
You even do the do in your matrimonial home or y'all live apart?



Your case is extreme.

Oya report yourself to your maker solemnly. Him alone can help you out of this.


All the best..

Sparro:



Hahaha ha hahaha. I wish I have access to that thing. Thanks

femi4:
People with low libido are free from sextual temptation. You can reduce your libido

Sparro:


How please?

femi4:
https://www.livestrong.com/article/60852-lower-sex-drive/

Sparro:


Thanks buddy. My wife doesn't nt deny me sex. She is trying her possible best.

But.. You can't be completely wrong. She is a victim of girl-child circumcision. Her sexual urge is low. She hardly get wet and hardly cum. (oh God, here I am talking about my wife)

I love her.

Mcslize:
Dada2010

What message do you have for me?

Dada2010:

I face what you face.
My wife can't keep up with my sex drive.
Sometimes she just manages to give me and I feel for her, because its like I am using her to satisfy my urge
I haven't slept with anybody yet, but I have sometimes done self service which I hate.
I thought marriage was an escape route to unlimited sex, but it isn't.
We still have to deal with our issues of lust.

Dada2010:

I face what you face.
My wife can't keep up with my sex drive.
Sometimes she just manages to give me and I feel for her, because its like I am using her to satisfy my urge
I haven't slept with anybody yet, but I have sometimes done self service which I hate.
I thought marriage was an escape route to unlimited sex, but it isn't.
We still have to deal with our issues of lust.

Gaspardd:


Thats y u shld gratify urself sexually b4 gettin married, so that u can outgrow all dis obssessive sexual orgies. As a guy if ur body count is not more than 50, then never get married. Anyother opinion is invalid

johnkey:
I see my self in your shoes some years to come.

I love my gal but damn I too like pussycat

And there are loads of pussycats around these days, with no strings attached sef and less money to spend as long as you fine like me

It begins to baffle you

Elevation:
Mr Sparro, your signature says JESUS cares, take it to Him. Do you fast and pray often? when was the last time u got baptised in the HolyGhost, do you attend weekly activities, do you truly love JESUS? separation is not of GOD. Dry that lust do not feed your flesh punish it however you need to study the word of GOD and meditate on it. Chastity is very vital for all round progress. Cry out to JESUS.

Sparro:


Thanks buddy. My wife doesn't nt deny me sex. She is trying her possible best.

But.. You can't be completely wrong. She is a victim of girl-child circumcision. Her sexual urge is low. She hardly get wet and hardly cum. (oh God, here I am talking about my wife)

I love her.

ZIMDRILL:



sorry to hear that

your wife went through a physcial and mental scaring, what you need to is being patient with your wife and teach her slowly to be comfortable with sex, eg dont be typical african man who has no time to sexual games in the bed or texting sexual messages during the day by the time you her mind would be looking forward to sex

Also by sexual teaching videos and you watch together there lots of sexual stimulating moves you can learn from such videos but remember these sexual videos are not the same with porn ones

Dada2010:

I face what you face.
My wife can't keep up with my sex drive.
Sometimes she just manages to give me and I feel for her, because its like I am using her to satisfy my urge
I haven't slept with anybody yet, but I have sometimes done self service which I hate.
I thought marriage was an escape route to unlimited sex, but it isn't.
We still have to deal with our issues of lust.