Ladyjide:

Maybe it is just me, but on my side of the world( USA) it seems that these days there are a lack of single, quality, honest Nigerian men out there!! A lot of men will say the same for us women as well!!!  The problem seems to be that there is not a lack of quantity these days, but truly of quality.  Maybe I am looking in the wrong place, but my question is where are they hiding, or do they no longer exist!! Will one have to settle in 2010?  Lets get the dialogue started!

lovemoi2:

Trying 2 get a job n not depending ön pops!

hehehe cosign u for real. . . we are tryna get money n0t w0men . . . lols. ,

double08:

please can you expantiate on what you mean by QUALITY?

double08:

please can you expantiate on what you mean by QUALITY?

sakastic:

you babes are part of the major problem, when good guys approached you. all u look out for is if he has money and good job. forgetting that a guy that is focused is better than a guy that is not but a millionaire.
it is high time you babes knows what you want

5p1naz:

hehehe cosign u for real. . . we are tryna get money n0t w0men . . . lols. ,

Brownteeth:

I think the good guys do not approach women as easily as the bad ones. So I think its time you ladies do your research, discover and approach any guy you think is a good guy, rather than sitting down and waiting for any guy from anywhere to pick you up.

Inked_Nerd:

omg, i know how you feel. luckily for me i have family in the UK, the Nigerian guys there seem to be better than the US ones.

Inked_Nerd:

omg, i know how you feel. luckily for me i have family in the UK, the Nigerian guys there seem to be better than the US ones.

Ladyjide:

Its a shame, have to catch a darn flight just to get a Good Naija man and import him in!!!

kokoye:

Hold on to that thought to make urself happy. Meanwhile your naija mates / friends are getting married all over the world including the U.S.

I bet you would say the samething about u.k guys if this thread was created by a lady in the u.k

gawky81:

Don't know whose thread I should pick here or respond to but generally speaking, most ladies take it for granted when they have a single young smart guy tending to their little details every time, what I mean is that, when you are with a woman and you love her like no other person, even when you treat her right, maybe its a syndrome now, but they actually believe you are too good to be true and then try seeking whats not lost in the first place, then come running back begging (dats a personal experience). Av got female cousins in the US who'd rather not marry in the US but Naija, and they still get their fingers burnt in the end. So, eff location, focus on getting the love of your life, God will drive the person towards you, prayers allow you the inner ability to mark and identify the right guy. Just don't choke him.
dats all.

gawky81:

Don't know whose thread I should pick here or respond to but generally speaking, most ladies take it for granted when they have a single young smart guy tending to their little details every time, what I mean is that, when you are with a woman and you love her like no other person, even when you treat her right, maybe its a syndrome now, but they actually believe you are too good to be true and then try seeking whats not lost in the first place, then come running back begging (dats a personal experience). Av got female cousins in the US who'd rather not marry in the US but Naija, and they still get their fingers burnt in the end. So, eff location, focus on getting the love of your life, God will drive the person towards you, prayers allow you the inner ability to mark and identify the right guy. Just don't choke him.
dats all.

Ladyjide:

Maybe true, but where do you find these men to approach??

davidylan:

They've been snapped up by American women who know what they want and GO FOR IT not sit around playing hard to get.

davidylan:

They've been snapped up by American women who know what they want and GO FOR IT not sit around playing hard to get.

kenis:

@Inked Nerd. r u frm Hilltop? Yehhs? Hapy 2 find som sis.