Let us say u met/saw some body who got physical limitations and you feel them but it become clear to you they need more than feeling sorry, they might not get some body to marry easily because they are physically challenged i.e. blind, deaf or other forms of physical disabling.
Would you marry them for sake of God  or sympathy in that matter?

No! Why would you mary somebody for sympathy?

No.

I wouldn't, no.

What happens when the sympathetic disposition wane off?end of the marriage.

Omo men, na WEAC question be dis O! But i no fit sha, make i no lie! (E be as e get!)

by virtue of the fact that marriage is a covenant between two people, it would be wise not to embark on it for sympathy sake.

no, i nearly did but not to a disabled person.
i would not marry out of sympathy

I almost did, but to a jobless guy. I tried to help him, but he back stab me.

NO MORE SYMPATHY

NOPE not in this life and not in the next one that is if there is any
its just like standing on a rope knowingly fully well you are gonna fall in no time

@ poster: would you?

Most Nigerian marry out of pity, family influence e. t. c dts why we have many failed marriage in the country with many more to follow in the recent years, Parley no even try and marry for sympathy oooo.

Naija_Sisi:

Guys can be so silly atimes

women are d worst. please, don't ask me to to state my example cos I will make a book.

No, but I would definitely marry a MUTE girl. In fact, its #2 on my list things my future wife should have/be

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I want to ask when LOVE became on absence of pity/compassion?
for me Love(Agape lOVE THOUGH),pity and compassion are synonymous.
COS I KNOW VERY WELL THAT THE LOVE OF THIS WORLD(in the actual sense "lust') excludes pity and compassion(to be compassionate).
there is nobody who does not need sympathy one way or the other
some people's deficiency/deformity/incapability is obvious. others is hidden and secret but will come to light in due time, and can be worse than physical disability.

Gold that we seek does not always come in a platter of gold.
As that glitters(healthy, absence of deformity,clean and flawless) is not gold.
this is the reason why people will never be found by love cos they are looking in wrong places(preconceived ideas of where love can be found).


Just like any relationship which runs out of love crashes, so will any relationship that runs out of pity crash! That is not a new thing.!!!

what is must important is:
a marriage is an agreement between the parties involves( "can two work together unless they agree?"
so therefor as both the man and his wife continue to love, cherish, pity and have compassion on each other the unit will succeed.

Both must pity each other at all times. the husband the wife: the wife the husband.

that is better than criticizing murmuring
bearing each others burdens
accepting the faults of ur partner and complementing them!!!
being respectful and proud of your partner in the presence of all.

(some to avoid spite hide their faults and inadequacies, lie, put up a false front, deceive their spouses-to-be)

it is not those who inadequacies are physical and impossible to hide that are now the worse of.

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Do not marry out of pity. U R hurting the person you are marrying. They deserve to be married for love and nothing short of that.

you should never use temporal emotions(pity) to solve a permanant situation(marriage)

Now let me ask, what if you had a relationship where suddenly she had an okada accident, and that gave her a little limp, and before then she was your perfect dream girl, and you loved her, would you still go ahead in the relationship? would you call that pity? can someone answer this!

if she is very hot ? yes. i wouldnt let a little thing like being deaf or blind get in the way of my marrying someone who looks like alicia keyes 

Why would anyone marry some one for sympathy?

That doesn't even make sense, if you want to marry, marry for someone for his/her behaviour.

Not out of pity or sympathy, it's ridiculous.

mama-gee:

Why would anyone marry some one for sympathy?

That doesn't even make sense, if you want to marry, marry for someone for his/her behaviour.

Not out of pity or sympathy, it's ridiculous.

Marrying because of one's behaviour could as well be for sympathy. I believe love should be the basis of marriage as it covers a multitude of sins. Hope I would not marry due to sympathy - but who can say?

No! YOu will regret itr if you do so. I had a terrible experience already

@Valacious,
such case lyk dat, i'll stil marry her not out of pity buh, for d sake dat she's stil my gurlfriend amid her accident!
But somhow i can stil marry a gurl out pity. y? my reason goes lyk dis- what if i know a gurl dat is not dat beautiful n b'cos of dat guy's don't always aproach her buh, she's a wyfy material, den, y won't i marry her/such gurl? is it a must dat every man must marry beautiful gurls? after all, not all so called beaytiful gurls r wyfy materials, dey'r just "beautiful for nottin". Dia beauty is just to attract boy's n next is to have dem on bed, after dat, dey'r useless!

@Poster, Have you pictured living with someone out of pity for at least 40 years?

We must never marry because of one thing or the other. Marriage has its purposes as clearly taught in the scriptures. Its a godly thing not a pity/sympathy thing.

It is not advisable to marry someone out of pity, if anybody tries that, they will live to regret it, marriage only thrives on true love.