For over a year now...i broke up with her due to her unresourceful lifestyle,even after i tried setting her up with about 4 differnet businesses .Each of the businesses crashed without any reasonable explanation.She has lot of bad friends that does rubbish and i just couldnt cope even spiritually...recently.she text me telling me she would like to invite me to her engagement..lolz...well,i thankGod for her,she's going to be finally settled.no.more whatsap status snoofing..I started wondering why she would asked me to come for the engagement to the extent of her asking me to buy cap and the engagement kind of materials that was picked..

I really don't understand why she was so confident to ask me to buy the materials?na who get time for all this ?I don't know what she was trying to prove but i think she is confused.Guys,dz baffles me o ..what i really wish i could know d reason 4 all this drama??

Guy don’t be baffled. Just look left n don’t buy anything. It’s engagement and u don’t need to be there. Engagements are more of a family thing so just excuse urself. U can attend the wedding. She just wants to spite you.

You are too much. OP could not decipher she’s only trying to spite him. Who as time for nonsense.

Olifiz:
Guy don’t be baffled. Just look left n don’t buy anything. It’s engagement and u don’t need to be there. Engagements are more of a family thing so just excuse urself. U can attend the wedding. She just wants to spite you.

From the way you used the word "Confused" it's very obvious you do not know the meaning of the word!

Nothing bad in attending, that you guys broke up and are exes doesn't make you enemies. This advice is for the mentally and emotionally strong.

Attend the wedding but not alone. But with a hotter gf

hmmm

Olifiz:
Guy don’t be baffled. Just look left n don’t buy anything. It’s engagement and u don’t need to be there. Engagements are more of a family thing so just excuse urself. U can attend the wedding. She just wants to spite you.

She made it look like she has achieved sometin tangible..it baffles me alot

Parada:
You are too much. OP could not decipher she’s only trying to spite him. Who as time for nonsense.

For real..no time for nonsense

BareFacedLies:
From the way you used the word "Confused" it's very obvious you do not know the meaning of the word!

Whats the meaning?because i keep wondering ,when she knows i am not around and very busy kind of person..she decided to ask if i will buy the clothes..?i see no sense in what she has been tryin to insinuate..she is just confused,why she go wan spite me?it makes no sense...tink deep..u will understand wat i mean by she is confused..

faithfull18:
Nothing bad in attending, that you guys broke up and are exes doesn't make you enemies. This advice is for the mentally and emotionally strong.

Sister,i am not mentally or emotionally disturbed,we are not enemy but i cant keep so close to my ex not to talk of attending d engagement...no bad blood..but once i am done.i am done sister.i dont want to be poisoned or jazz..i fear naija ladies ehnnn

Raydans:
Attend the wedding but not alone. But with a hotter gf

Cool...this is what i will do even if i want to attend it..thanks..u spoke my mind☺☺☺☺

This is no issue. You should have simply ignored her as a normal sane person will do.
Op You are the one CONFUSED

Just tell her you will soon invite her for your introduction too.

And watch how she explodes � �

blackgold2018:
This is no issue. You should have simply ignored her as a normal sane person will do.
Op You are the one CONFUSED

I can be confused only when i am wondering how much it baffles me

issylarry:

Sister,i am not mentally or emotionally disturbed,we are not enemy but i cant keep so close to my ex not to talk of attending d engagement...no bad blood..but once i am done.i am done sister.i dont want to be poisoned or jazz..i fear naija ladies ehnnn

Lol, I didn't mean it that way. I meant for someone to stay friendly with an ex, the person has to be mentally and emotionally strong/intelligent.

faithfull18:

Lol, I didn't mean it that way. I meant for someone to stay friendly with an ex, the person has to be mentally and emotionally strong/intelligent.

I understand,I am

Is she in competition with you or what? I don't get it I think this shiiit is a setup, she wanna beg you/ask you back in an eventful manner.she wants you to propose with those rings

dude find one super hot chick carry go joor.. she wants to spite you finished

androidroot:
Is she in competition with you or what? I don't get it I think this shiiit is a setup, she wanna beg you/ask you back in an eventful manner.she wants you to propose with those rings

Thats not possible

marvin906:
dude find one super hot chick carry go joor..
she wants to spite you finished

Tam..tot as much