Good day people. I battling anger issue, which makes me sometimes get angry over little things that is not worth it.
This is bothering me much.
Like today I got angry at a guy in school for damaging my shoe and bag and falling me down in the dirt. When I thought of how much I bought the bag and shoe I burst into rage and wailed & yelled at him for some seconds even though I know his action was unintentionally. He tried to apologise and I ignore. He felt very bad and guilty afterward. I must have ruin today for him with my actions by making him feeling guilty throughout day.

Before I could realized my mistakes the guy is no where to be found. And I just moved on and this spoiled my day too. I know I have replacement for those things yet I got mad at another person unintentional mistake.

my mom says when someone provoke u to anger just wait and count 1 to 10 bfore u react. try it




i dunno if it works o cos i dnt think i've ever been angry so much

You have to discover yourself before you can stop any bad habits.....

CharlesJok3r:
Good day people. I battling anger issue, which makes me sometimes get angry over little things that is not worth it.
This is bothering me much.
Like today I got angry at a guy in school for damaging my shoe and bag and falling me down in the dirt. When I thought of how much I bought the bag and shoe I burst into rage and wailed & yelled at him for some seconds even though I know his action was unintentionally. He tried to apologise and I ignore. He felt very bad and guilty afterward. I must have ruin today for him with my actions by making him feeling guilty throughout day.

Before I could realized my mistakes the guy is no where to be found. And I just moved on and this spoiled my day too. I know I have replacement for those things yet I got mad at another person unintentional mistake.

Olodo. After believing in god you still get angry like a baby. Ordinary slap you no fit give the guy. People like you like argument pass fight

On a serious note try and learn from today's mistake. Just breathe in and out and demand for an apology and move on regardless.

Getting angry is natural and it take times to learn how to control and master your emotions. It comes with a lot of practise and you have to make mistakes.

Life is a journey. We learn every day

Always think for a split seconds before you react,think positive and negative but make sure the positive supersedes the negative. I was coming back from church one Sunday with my phone and bible on one hand when a bike man taking a one way lane just brushed my hand both the phone and bible scattered on the ground, i just bent down picked them up replaced my battery switched it on, nothing happened and kept on walking without saying a word thinking what if i was the one he had knocked into the gutter with his bike, would i have been conscious enough to get angry at him? come and see how the bike man was begging and begging till i waved him off that i was cool.

But there's nothing wrong in getting unnecessarily angry
Its totally fine
Anger is a good emotion that helps to cleanse the soul.
You should be asking for better ways to get angry easily not how to stop it.

hahn:


Olodo. After believing in god you still get angry like a baby. Ordinary slap you no fit give the guy. People like you like argument pass fight

On a serious note try and learn from today's mistake. Just breathe in and out and demand for an apology and move on regardless.

Getting angry is natural and it take times to learn how to control and master your emotions. It comes with a lot of practise and you have to make mistakes.

Life is a journey. We learn every day

Slap ke , the only thing I Know how to do is to joke and talk !

CreepyBlackpool:
But there's nothing wrong in getting unnecessarily angry

Its totally fine

Anger is a good emotion that helps to cleanse the soul.

You should be asking for better ways to get angry easily not how to stop it.

Not every body is cool with getting angry...

CharlesJok3r:
Good day people. I battling anger issue, which makes me sometimes get angry over little things that is not worth it.
This is bothering me much.
Like today I got angry at a guy in school for damaging my shoe and bag and falling me down in the dirt. When I thought of how much I bought the bag and shoe I burst into rage and wailed & yelled at him for some seconds even though I know his action was unintentionally. He tried to apologise and I ignore. He felt very bad and guilty afterward. I must have ruin today for him with my actions by making him feeling guilty throughout day.

Before I could realized my mistakes the guy is no where to be found. And I just moved on and this spoiled my day too. I know I have replacement for those things yet I got mad at another person unintentional mistake.

GENUINE SALVATION(HOW TO GET IT)







The starting point for a relationship with God is to forsake sin." Let the wicked forsake his way,and the unrighteous man his thoughts:and let him return unto the Lord,and He will abundantly pardon"( Isaiah 55:7). What separate man from God is sin,and you can never please God without being save.Also, your self -righteousness can never take you to heaven.(whether you are a philanthropist,without being save,your works are all in vain,your generosity can never take you to heaven.), "For they being ignorant of God's righteousness,and going about to establish their own righteousness,have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God."(Romans 10:3)," An hypocrite shall not come before Him"(Job 13:16). Your self righteousness separate you from God.



We must turn away from sin and completely surrender our life to Christ.God is ever ready to forgive."There is no sin that is too great for God to forgive if we turn from it to him". It is very easy to have genuine salvation.The first step you need to take in getting it is to;



(1) Acknowledge that you are a sinner: "All men are sinners,for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God"(Romans 3:23). you need to be in a serene vicinity inorder to commune with God effectively or right now you can commune with God,acknowledge that you are a sinner.



(2) Confess:" ...covereth his sin shall not prosper..." Confess all your sins to God with a contrite heart,plead for His mercy,ask for His forgiveness,cry out to Him with sincerity.(There is no point going through your pastor,bishop to confess and ask God for forgiveness,that was before,but now we have direct access to God, as soon as Jesus died for us,the way was opened into the Holy of Holies,talk to God by your self,confess to Him not through your bishop,revered father,pastor etc).



(3) At this point you need to make a covenant with God by promising Him not to go back to the sins you have left behind, forsake your sin wholeheartedly.



(4) Believe on Jesus that you have been pardon and forgiven:" If thou shalt... believe in thine heart...thou shalt be saved"(Romans 10:19),"Whosoever believeth Jesus is the christ is born of God"(1John 5:1).



The evidence of SALVATION is an unprecedented joy in your heart.The joy of SALVATION is wonderful.(like when you remember that there is no enmity between God and you,oh! the happiness that will spring up from your stomach can be so overwhelming).



But you need to go further,though you have been forgiven,but that Adamic nature,that inbred sin is still in You. SALVATION is the first Christian experience, SANCTIFICATION(Holiness) is the second experience.What is SANCTIFICATION(Holiness)?.We are told in Hebrews 12:14,"follow peace with all men,and holiness,without which no man shall see the Lord." We read in 1peter 1:16,... Be ye holy; for I am holy". The word holy is mentioned in the Bible 596times,holiness,43times. SANCTIFICATION means spiritually pure,godly.When you are sanctified,that inbred sin in you will be uprooted,spirit of fornication will be uprooted,spirit of masturbation will be uprooted,spirit of lying,stealing,envy etc will all be uprooted. The urge to do them will not be there if you are sanctified.SANCTIFICATION is real(I have experienced It,that was why I easily gave up on plaiting my hair with any attachment.). The benefit of SANCTIFICATION is so wonderful,those urges will be eradicated.If you don't believe me,try it.Go down on your kneels,pray to God with a contrite heart,plead with God to sanctify your heart.This need deeper consecration.(don't be distracted),plead with God wholeheartedly,ask for such heart,(a sanctified heart). Name all the spirit you want Him to uproot from your heart,cry to Him.Tell Him You want to serve Him in Holiness,tell Him you don't want to go back to your sins." Father have determine to make heaven,please father,sanctify my heart,come into my heart, I need you father,uproot those spirit that is tormenting me,that makes me to offend you always,Jesus please,help me, I cannot stop them myself please Help me...�����..." Pray that way,with deeper consecration,with a sincere heart.Believe that you will receive it.Evidence; receiving SANCTIFICATION can change your life automatically,no more urges for your sweetest sin,even though you might be tempted,you will have the power to overcome it.



Well thats not all,you need to pray further,for the third Christian experience,which is baptism of the Holy Ghost,gbam! Very important.(many people don't believe we can receive it,it is real,i have received it). The work of the Holy spirit;



(1) The Holy spirit anoints us with power to witness(Acts1:8,Lk4:18,Acts 4:29,32)



(2) The spirit brings forth virtues in our lives(The fruit of the spirit us love,Joy,peace etc,Gal.5:22-23,Rom.5:5,Rom14:17).



(3) The Holy spirit comfort us (John 14:16-26,John16:7,Acta9:31,Rom.8:1).



(4) The Holy spirit is the spirit of Truth( John 16:13,1John 5:66).



(5) The Holy spirit helps us to pray( From.8: 26-27,Jude20).



(6) The Holy spirit give us wisdom and guidance(Mk13:11,Lk12:11,12) and many more ...



The evidence of receiving it is by speaking in another language entirely,the spirit will overwhelm you, you won't be able to control your tongue.It need deeper consecration. Sometimes it takes a long time to receive it(mine took a long time to come,days before coming,if you are patient you will receive it), sometimes you need to make restitution,before receiving it,holding grudges with your fellow brother can hinder the Holy spirit,make sure you make things right before praying for the Holy spirit.



After receiving the three Christian experience,dont just relax,you have a lot to do(so that you won't loose them). There are things you need to do to maintain your three Christian experience;



(1)Read your Bible and study the word of God: check the importance(Deu. 32:46,47,psalm 138:2).



(2) Pray always,be in a constant attitude of prayer:Read your Bible pray everyday... Pray everyday... Pray everyday...., read your Bible pray everyday...if.. you.. want..to.. grow..(I love that song�)(1chr16:11,Pro.3:6,"Watch ye therefore and pray always "LK21:36).



(3) Attend weekly activities in church,it helps a lot in maintaining your experiences, you will be expose to teachings that will help you grow spiritually.( Do you know that absenting your self from weekly activities can take you to hell,as serious as that.GOD NEEDS 100%COMMITMENT).



Attend a church that preaches salvation every Sunday.if your current church is always preaching about prosperity every day,i will advise you to leave that Church. The main reason church was instituted by God was to prepare everyone for HEAVEN. Look for a church that will prepare you for HEAVEN..."Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added unto you".



GOD BLESS YOU,AMEN.
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