SELF CONTROL TIPS TO AVOID ANGER
PHILOMATH Sunday, January 27, 2019 Education, Relationship Tips


The type of things ANGER have caused people do these days (especially youths and married couples) is highly unbearable. The rate at which we get 'exasperated' these days and destroy things, is really pathetic and regretable.

ANGER to my own understanding is when one loses control of oneself.
when one closes their mind at whatsoever their action might cause to the person involved. (Even when it involves human life)!

Having said all of these however, one question come to mind;
HOW THEN CAN WE MANAGE ANGER?
'self control', 'patience' and 'paying attention to details' best describe how you can manage ANGER and escape from its VENOM. How? you may ask, I will explain.....

First of all, let me deal with married couples.

Excuse me Mr Husband, When you come back from work at night, and instead of welcoming you back home, your wife starts nagging at you. Saying all sorts of Gibberish in annoyance, you don't have to start shouting together with her or start beating her (like some men do.

It might be that she has missed you. yes! some women are like that!
It might be that you neglected or forgotten something very dear to her (especially her birthday). so that's the time she decides to pick offense, some women are like that.
It might be that she is few weeks pregnant, Some women tend to act in that manner when they just take in.

So Mr Husband, when you face such challenge, try and know what might have caused it.

Don't talk back at her.
Don't hurl abusive words at her.
Don't beat her.

Just ignore her and look for the reason behind such act because something must have caused it. SILENCE, is actually the best tool. She will still come back to apologize, that is certain.

And to you WIFEY, whenever your husband comes back home angry, and he talks to you in an angry tone, you........


Continue reading here
http://thebrainyfox..com/2019/01/that-venom-called-anger.html

Anger is a necessary emotion. we can only control it.