It's just not right.

tayotina:

Guys will always be guys, they would cheat no matter what. Both parties are supposed to be committed in a relationship but unfortunately it is not so. The lady puts in all her heart while the guy just doesn't care.

Imagine this:

I don't think anyone should stereotype genders. There are lots of guys who remain faithful, while their "loved one" gives herself to all takers. The only thing I can concede is that there is more pressure on girls from guys than on guys from girls cos guys are naturally more persistent.

Flint, when I say guys will always be guys, I know what am talking about.

Well I present a challenge to you. For every "playa" you post, i will post a committed guy. We have to be honest here. You can use pseudonyms if you want.

And what happens when one is both... ??

[falls into the two categories ... ]

how will that prove anything? you can just put names who will confirm if they are players or saints?

which kind test be that??

he could remain faithful but for her being a nigerian girl. i doubt much, nigerian girls are never faithfull to their man.

@ rufee,now that is a very VERY wrong thing to say. Statistically, that statement is false. You might say majority, you might say most, but to just throw a blancket on all Nigerian girls and call them unfaithful abeg...

I think its high time we start accepting that cheating is ok.. especially when ur loved one is very far from u .
u just want someone u can hold, kiss, and talk to, someone who can pet u..

we are not monks for God sake, The girls cheat too, thats for sure. but who cares..if she cheats on me i cheat on her...what matters is we love each other and someday we will open the secretes to each other perhaps after marriage.it will be fun.

You call that fun?? Gosh!! Can't believe this.

And rufee, mind what you say ok? What the hell If you have been cheated on by your girl, do you have to take it out on the decent girls we have in this country?

You better withdraw that statement.

please someone should appologize to Tayotina.....
My mum is a nigerian pleeeeeeeese,because of her, lets respect Nigerian women.
rufee....na u i di talk to oh.(u could have used the word "some"or "most")

What you guys don't know is that, whatever you say on this forum affects at least one person. We all know how to insult but we just have to control ourselves sometimes.

I don't tolerate nonsense and as such I would not have anyone talk to me anyhow. If I decide to remain silent at times, that doesn't mean I don't know what am doing.

This wouldn't be the first time this sort of this is happening. It's just not fair.

Tayo don't take it too hard ok....
you know guys na.......,they just wan yarn

what rufee said was too generic and he should not have said it.

but the same should also go for when the girls make statemens like: men are all players or all men just want one thing, sex.

fair is fair

In that case Vieira, we are sorry.

tayotina I am cool with you anyway, just trying to settle things down now.

I cannot get angry at you jare. you are one of the few female realists on this site.

Thanks Vieira.

Where did you see the pix you posted on this forum, Tayo? You're to post your pix and not this. So we are still waiting.

Greatpeter, this thread is not meant for asking questions bout pictures, is it?

The pix you posted reminded me that there was a pix trend we've not been able get you convinced to post your pix.
But with recent development between Pkrix and pinky I start to have a re-think.

You better do, man??

Don't take the advantage of that, just do it,

i have the pic of every body in my immagination, my brain is getting overloaded.
cant we just allow the pic posting thing.
i want to see especially the ladies

Everyone Remember a guy has needs.

from what i have been seeing on television and hearing on air i will rather forget about the guy and continue with my life cos he will end up dumping you after a long period waiting. they are all the same after making alot of promises cos out of 100% about 3.4% fulfill their promises even with that he might have already seen other gals so as for this it doesnt work so my advice to both is that they better continue with their life but if the guy is not going to stay for long i think she can wait for him even with that hmm..........................

with dat what...?

tayonita that is a funny ass diagram. Me BF is in the State and i am in England. i still believe he shld remain faithful to me. if u cant be faithful in a longdistance relationship why end up having one.if u cant let ur partner know how u feel by telling him or her that u can not cope and u wanna still mess about but u love her than any other gurl and still have a relationship together or both of ya to split up.

maame is right. but i am in a longdistance relationship now and this wld be me last one hopefully. if anything shld happen with me present relationship (hopefully nothing shld happen) i wld not go into any long thingy anymore.it hard to cope with and not all u wish or hope for come too past.

never give up

He should remain faithful. But he wouldnt!

Its his decision, if u know ur girl and u think she'll be faithful, enjoy, I fall into that category too. But u have to know ur girl well cos naija girls will dump u soooo hard if they find another who's loaded and willing to mingle
Thats the latest one in town now, They call them Aristos, married men who are looking to pay kool cash for fresh blooded small girls

What ever the boy does over there is his business. My advice to the lady is, girl, you get down with anyone you wanna get down with. You might be losing a lot of chances if you are pining for a guy 5000 miles away from you. Whenever he gets back to Nigeria and you are available for him to hit it off with, then what have you got to lose? You go for it baby.