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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Icon79(m): 1:08am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Why do some women feel that it always up to the man to ensure that the woman enjoys sex If the man ain't doing something right then take charge and teach him to rock your boat ... don't just lay there moaning that you're not enjoying it O pari cococandy: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Icon79(m): 1:09am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Oyin, no be like that now. They probably had a twins O pari Oyindidi: |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Icon79(m): 1:12am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Good point! O pari Donjazzy12: |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by MissJoy29(f): 1:14am On Feb 19, 2019 |
whiteeyes:Lol @bolded. Or they will be flicking the Lips of the VJ like they are playing a guitar & chooking hand inside there carelessly & senselessly all in the name of "fingering" 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by cococandy(f): 1:17am On Feb 19, 2019 |
It’s up to both to make each other enjoy it. The emphasis on men is because they usually don’t care once they have reached their peak. Icon79: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by UKBobo(m): 1:20am On Feb 19, 2019 |
ashawopikin: Like advice, like name 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by MissJoy29(f): 1:26am On Feb 19, 2019 |
TotoNaRubber:And Pray tell, what's unfortunate about children? Are your children unfortunate? |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Mayflowa(m): 1:27am On Feb 19, 2019 |
ifyalways: No one should force another or spouse for sex but this is not a situation of declining libido or tiredness. The OP mentioned he was even bothered more for sex in recent past. Clearly, there are other underlying issues that can only be resolved by communications. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Icon79(m): 1:29am On Feb 19, 2019 |
That's where COMMUNICATION comes in. Communication is the key. If he ain't getting it done for you then let him know. Men are NOT mind readers. Don't fake it only to go back and complain. And if he ain't pumping hard/fast enough, then roll him over and get on top. You naija women need to learn how to charge during. A tiny Asian gurl can bang your brains out, but an average naija woman ain't built that way. O pari cococandy: 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by stanliwise(m): 1:29am On Feb 19, 2019 |
jakandeola:quoting bible out of context. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by ROCKJ1(m): 1:41am On Feb 19, 2019 |
ogawisdom:oga na WA for you oh... Twice a month is too small na. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by MissJoy29(f): 1:52am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Shibaraba:To think this up here got 95 likes! I saw it & cringed like Op's wife. And it was 88 likes when I checked first. By the time I finished the whole pages, it has increased to 95 & counting. Who are these men liking this? They are people's brothers, boyfriends, nephews, uncles, fathers and even husbands o! Hey!! Wahala o wa!!! 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by cococandy(f): 1:57am On Feb 19, 2019 |
I agree very much with that. But you have to factor in the slut shaming that’s part of our culture. Where a woman has committed taboo if she indicates that she enjoys sex in any way much less demand it. Someone like me won’t let if deter me but I’m a hoe because of that. Not that I mind But some women literally take these things to heart and will rather die in silence than make sexual demands even from their husbands. So yes it’s easy to say what women should do or say. But when the environment they grew up in didn’t empower them to do that and then turns around to blame them for doing or not doing it (as the case may be), then we are only talking about stuff that we aren’t working to achieve. Icon79: 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by cococandy(f): 1:59am On Feb 19, 2019 |
You still haven’t overcome your fear of women. Donjazzy12: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Mrkumareze(m): 1:59am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Stress kills sexual libido. I guess the kids n other family issues are affecting your woman. Try find way to reduce her activities at home ok. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by cococandy(f): 2:00am On Feb 19, 2019 |
The ones liking it are the same one that shed buckets of tears when they hear of women cheating on their husbands MissJoy29: 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by MissJoy29(f): 2:04am On Feb 19, 2019 |
cococandy:Pathetic 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Icon79(m): 2:05am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Understood. But that shouldn't be a factor with your husband tho. If you were to interview men, most married men would prefer a lady on the street and a "slut" in the bedroom. When it comes to sex, I definitely wouldn't want my wife to play shy or fake anything. Even the Bible says that "marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled" (emphasis mine). O pari cococandy: |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by noscarn91(m): 2:07am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Ajengogo:You need to make more money my brother 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by fascowilly(m): 2:11am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Zoharariel:My guy why you come dey mad like this? |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by AngelicBeing: 2:12am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Zoharariel: 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by DONFASZY(m): 2:19am On Feb 19, 2019 |
U sound like a sex addict 5children in 10yrs....u think Givin birth is easy? Ur wife is afraid of belle Show her protection...body Don dry weak...2 time a week for 10yr.... I day fear u sir...she is suffering in Ur addiction 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Ikpongiton: 2:25am On Feb 19, 2019 |
ogawisdom:sex ,twice a week is not enough,except for a semi impotent. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by 1Sharon(f): 2:25am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Ishilove: If this is the case, what does that say about the wife for not telling him? |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Lexusgs430: 2:26am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Ajengogo: Has she hit menopause?...... |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by madjune(m): 2:34am On Feb 19, 2019 |
Actually, this is good news for any aging man. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Ikpongiton: 2:36am On Feb 19, 2019 |
sassysure:some men are champions outside,but boring zombies at home 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Ikpongiton: 2:40am On Feb 19, 2019 |
apelike1:gbam ! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Ikpongiton: 2:57am On Feb 19, 2019 |
femi4:there is nothing like rape here.he rightly takes,what belongs to him . |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Ikpongiton: 3:06am On Feb 19, 2019 |
ogawisdom:if you don't force her,what do you give to your preek,if it stand erect and refuse to fall in the night.just asking |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by 9jawear(m): 3:10am On Feb 19, 2019 |
My brother she has been replaced by someone else, its called the swap programme. Your wife is somewhere sleeping with another man, you are living with an impostor. |
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