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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 2:49am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Davash222: Though sounds weird but it's the truth. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 3:08am On Mar 05, 2019 |
edicied:no time |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 3:11am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Godsent12:local fowl |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Benwallt(m): 3:12am On Mar 05, 2019 |
I smell lies, just tell us that you have no confidence in his pocket |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Oluwakaysblog55: 3:33am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by busomma: 3:34am On Mar 05, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Best advice so far. It shows u hv a good head on ur shoulders. U're awesome. |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 3:51am On Mar 05, 2019 |
lilmax:no mind her, the world is not fun anymore |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Ide4u(m): 4:08am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Check my signature |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by ideology(m): 4:14am On Mar 05, 2019 |
seekingop: Na confidence you go chop. Your guy has probably not dated anyone before... Don't see him as boring, he is crazy inside... But you are the one to bring out that craziness... For the meantime, you be the one initiating the gist and other fun activities with time you will see him unleashed himself. Thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Babs24: 4:22am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Wow! Nice one from a weedseller WeedSeller: 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Ishilove: 4:31am On Mar 05, 2019 |
ThothHermes:Seriously? 3 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 4:44am On Mar 05, 2019 |
seekingop:you know what they say about familiarity, I am sure with little time his confidence level will increase. I guess the point isn't in his confidence but if you actually like him enough to date him 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 4:44am On Mar 05, 2019 |
The guy will break your heart, fear a slow poison 4 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by bigcil2(m): 4:59am On Mar 05, 2019 |
WeedSeller: The same happened with my then Girlfriend now Fiance. I always stutter when I was around her. I could get my speech coordinated. There was this one time we travelled to Lagos, and we didn't speak for more than 5mins, when we got to Lagos she said, Do you know we are boring! She was actually referring to me though, as at this time we weren't dating oo. His confidence will come around just give it time. 7 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by annford: 5:17am On Mar 05, 2019 |
seekingop:it is perfectly normal for a guy to "have low self esteem" when he's with or even talking to the lady/woman he's in love with. The guy might even stutter, fidget and sweat profusely when around the woman he's into but give him some weeks after the relationship has begun and you'd be shocked how the Lion in him springs out. The way most ladies get shy and withdrawn around the guy they crush on or even a guy that's asking them out, is also the way some guys get all shy and "boring". if you like him and would want to go into a relationship with him, then waste no time at all for as you guys progress, you'd be amazed how bold and daring he is, naturally. Done properly, relationships can be exciting. 4 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by PLAYBOX22: 5:26am On Mar 05, 2019 |
WeedSeller:Summary of all these = Give Him SEXes 2 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by aquame: 5:27am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Wow since you know his weak point just talk about it when you are alone together. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 5:43am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Don't date him oh, he is dry and you feel pity for him not love. Trust you wld get tired. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by edego2up(m): 5:59am On Mar 05, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Stop .I maen stop pestering him with more money his Bank account is running red anytime you engage him.this is whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by rottennaija(m): 6:06am On Mar 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Talking to a girl you love while still being in control is an art. Not every guy masters it. Even me, for all my experience, wittiness and class still fumbles in the presence of the girl my heart beats for 4 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 6:06am On Mar 05, 2019 |
De boy feet be one nairalander wey i know wey de make noise because na ihm type de always fall hand in real life 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by jeph19(m): 6:09am On Mar 05, 2019 |
seekingop: Which means he's not as boring as you think. It only happens when you're around because of the affection he has towards you. He tends to calculate his every move and choose his words and attitude so as not to hurt you or annoy you. When he eventually finds the comfort zone between the two of you, he'll bring out his true self. But better still let him know, I mean we're adult. ... Why you act the way you do... By Tim LaHaye can stll be of help. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by abdulo4real: 6:19am On Mar 05, 2019 |
seekingop:that is a strong indication that he is an introvert.. just like me you need to understand him very well, you can't change him bcuz introverts are very loyal in relationships u need hold him tight .... 4 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by canalily(m): 6:49am On Mar 05, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:still.water.runs.deep |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Excallibur(m): 7:03am On Mar 05, 2019 |
seekingop:Introverts are like that , the closer you get to them the more they open up to you... Na you go even tire for talk 3 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by bayocanny: 7:06am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Chi59:Not like me |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Bowrex: 7:11am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Not a good reason for me if he has the qualities nd just because his boring you turn him down you have not done well. You help build his confidence nd teach him how he can't be boring. |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by itelima: 7:22am On Mar 05, 2019 |
If he is a Christian and he is born again, he should feel boring at first. But u will be glad later if u let him in. Its better to live with a boring man that doesn't womanize than a lively woman hunter. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:24am On Mar 05, 2019 |
� Na so he pain you on behalf of the guy reach. Reminds me of a girl I went on a date with, just like this OP boyfriend, I was scared to make any wrong move, hoping I wouldn’t offend her. Above all, all wanted was a life partner and I saw it in her. You know what she told me This date wasn’t fun, I don’t think we should see again. It was painful but I have always been a believer in time healing pains. I tried to assure her things would be okay between us with time, but it was all tiring for me to keep doing it. And I hate the fact that I have to be the only one to make the relationship worthwhile, there was no single effort from her, even to show just a slight interest na wahala, and God knows I hate wahala. I just stopped calling and wasting my time with her. But I have someone else right now in my life, and I can tell you we are having the best of times together. I just realise that most of us guys that really mean well and want to have a future with these girls, are usually taken for granted, because they want “fun”...... fun wey we go still get wey go tire us after we don gain confidence finish! Some of us just need your patience. All guys can’t be the same. And you ladies can be boring as fk also. Thank you very much. apelike1: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by clems88(m): 7:41am On Mar 05, 2019 |
I was like that then but now even she dey fear the kind confident av gotten especially when am with ladies . Just give him a month , his life will never remain the same |
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