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I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 9:12am On Mar 05, 2019
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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by badadvice(f): 9:18am On Mar 05, 2019
Blood of zachariah!! What did i just read?

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by donstan18: 9:26am On Mar 05, 2019
You are not just in sifia pains, you are seriously confused.

Kindly allow your preeeeq to rest because from what you wrote up there, it's clear you are only looking for an available lady to sleep with.

Focus and allow your preeeq rest.

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by madridguy(m): 9:28am On Mar 05, 2019
You crying like a baby? You no go work shocked
Meanwhile, congratulations bro for moving out before too late.
Your only mistake is collecting back the wrist watch you bought for her.

Nevertheless, don't attempt to go back otherwise the return leg will be bad.

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Nobody: 9:36am On Mar 05, 2019
I'll ignore the humongous errors

Three days you never chop,kuku turn am to fasting and prayers

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by CAPSLOCKED: 9:36am On Mar 05, 2019
MY MAN YOU DESTROYED THE ONE GOOD THING YOU HAD WITH SUCH AN AMAZING LADY BECAUSE SHE STOPPED LETTING YOU SLEEP WITH HER.

HOW UNFORTUNATE CAN ONE BE IN THIS LIFE, OH LORD! .

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 9:39am On Mar 05, 2019
madridguy:
You crying like a baby? You no go work shocked
Meanwhile, congratulations bro for moving out before too late.
Your only mistake is collecting back the wrist watch you bought for her.

Nevertheless, don't attempt to go back otherwise the return leg will be bad.

I do work....she behaves like an house wife you ever want so am feeling really bad coz all those trips I no go dey enjoy am again but am really hurt
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by anonymuz(m): 9:39am On Mar 05, 2019
Dont be down emotionally cos It affects all facets of your life during this period. Just stay calm and believe you are not just meant to be together.


But if na me o, na one Jack daniels go make me forget sharp sharp grin

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by madridguy(m): 9:43am On Mar 05, 2019
Awoof dey purge belle my broda. That is single mother for you, they can be charming and accommodating but believe, you will suffer it later. Because when the baby daddy show face, then you start seeing another version of her. Thank you star and move on.


Wapizy:

I do work....she behaves like an house wife you ever want so am feeling really bad coz all those trips I no go dey enjoy am again but am really hurt

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Stevengerd(m): 9:44am On Mar 05, 2019
If na small pikim do wetin u do. dem go talk say e no get sense

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by blackgold2018(m): 9:51am On Mar 05, 2019
That woman is right in all justification though I don't know her reasons why she wants to leave you.. But afterwards You took the watch you bought for her shows how childish and irresponsible you are.

I can't do such thing.. you just move on. Finally trust me you two ain't never getting back just because of that stupid action.

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 9:58am On Mar 05, 2019
donstan18:
You are not just in sifia pains, you are seriously confused.

Kindly allow your preeeeq to rest because from what you wrote up there, it's clear you are only looking for an available lady to sleep with.

Focus and allow your preeeq rest.
Fine I love sex...by my kinda sex is caused by stress ...whats bad is a man comes home and later want sex before he sleeps not like acting porn
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by kullozone(m): 9:59am On Mar 05, 2019
I don't even understand what's going on here sef... bye byesmiley

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 10:00am On Mar 05, 2019
blackgold2018:
That woman is right in all justification though I don't know her reasons why she wants to leave you.. But afterwards You took the watch you bought for her shows how childish and irresponsible you are.

I can't do such thing.. you just move on. Finally trust me you two ain't never getting her back just because of that stupid action.
I later realized how stupid I was but my begging her would hv made her calm....i begged for two days consistently
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Nobody: 10:05am On Mar 05, 2019
Are people really dumb to understand that this man story is made up and an attempt to advertise a dating site.

Dating sites do not work in nigeria. Many guys have try to make it work, they always fail.

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 10:09am On Mar 05, 2019
anonymuz:
Dont be down emotionally cos It affects all facets of your life during this period. Just stay calm and believe you are not just meant to be together.


But if na me o, na one Jack daniels go make me forget sharp sharp grin
The man she gave birth for was supposed too marry her the guy is rich works for fsars has a house car living fine...so the guy wanted her too give birth before they marry along the line after the preparation and even fixing date for the wedding the guy withdraw him self completely...she said the guy family didn't want him too get married...i begin too wonder my he would withdraw at a very tite corner...the guy left both the child and herself alone does hv anything with them if not that he took him too court he wouldn't be sending money self so am like what did that guy see in her for him too run like that
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 10:12am On Mar 05, 2019
wetdick:
Are people really dumb to understand that this man story is made up and an attempt to advertise a dating site.

Dating sites do not work in nigeria. Many guys have try to make it work, they always fail.
Hello bro am not making it up I intentionally put the site name there coz I wanted everyone too be aware I had about the site on radio....am currently going tru shit I can't talk too anyone even my family am confused maybe am controlled by my preeq I just need someone too talk too
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Predstan: 10:19am On Mar 05, 2019
Wapizy:

The man she gave birth for was supposed too marry her the guy is rich works for fsars has a house car living fine...so the guy wanted her too give birth before they marry along the line after the preparation and even fixing date for the wedding the guy withdraw him self completely...she said the guy family didn't want him too get married...i begin too wonder my he would withdraw at a very tite corner...the guy left both the child and herself alone does hv anything with them if not that he took him too court he wouldn't be sending money self so am like what did that guy see in her for him too run like that


Abeg I get headache. Make Nairaland include Audio so we dont go through the stress of reading something like this

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 10:43am On Mar 05, 2019
The man she gave birth for was supposed too marry her the guy is rich works for fsars has a house car living fine...so the guy wanted her too give birth before they marry along the line after the preparation and even fixing date for the wedding the guy withdraw him self completely...she said the guy family didn't want him too get married...i begin too wonder my he would withdraw at a very tite corner...the guy left both the child and herself alone does hv anything with them if not that he took him too court he wouldn't be sending money self so am like what did that guy see in her for him too run like that
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by zexy2030(m): 10:58am On Mar 05, 2019
you are your own problem, u found a woman that loves you but ur mind keeps telling u to use her and dump her like her baby father has done..in short "u go school"? wetin be "too" just confusing ur reader..ur sense don lose..rubbish post..so we should beg u...when u know that u wanted to take advantage of a woman who is trying to repair her life..stupid u want to damage it the more..because u see her as less..so u don't want to settle for less.. abeg go get life, confused human being.
she may be on face book to collect school fee for the child she has for him with that take care of the home and not bother u with household responsibility.. na d mindset wey u take start, na dat same mindset u take end am...rubbish...

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Wapizy(m): 11:00am On Mar 05, 2019
zexy2030:
you are your own problem, u found a woman that loves you but ur mind keeps telling u to use her and dump her like her baby father has done..in short "u go school"? wetin be "too" just confusing ur reader..ur sense don lose..rubbish post..so we should beg u...when u know that u wanted to take advantage of a woman who is trying to repair her life..stupid u want to damage it the more..because u see her as less..so u don't want to settle for less.. abeg go get life, confused human being.

I needed some bitter truth
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by zexy2030(m): 11:04am On Mar 05, 2019
Wapizy:

I needed some bitter truth
read again..u r immature, maybe if this is done to ur sister u will be happy..though some ladies can act funny..
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by troubleseller: 11:05am On Mar 05, 2019
Bros are you from Sierra Leone because this your English too correct o.

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Offpoint1: 11:07am On Mar 05, 2019
I hurt my brain terribly bad trying to read and comprehend this write up. op please just type in your dialet, it's easier.

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by anonymuz(m): 12:33pm On Mar 05, 2019
Wapizy:

The man she gave birth for was supposed too marry her the guy is rich works for fsars has a house car living fine...so the guy wanted her too give birth before they marry along the line after the preparation and even fixing date for the wedding the guy withdraw him self completely...she said the guy family didn't want him too get married...i begin too wonder my he would withdraw at a very tite corner...the guy left both the child and herself alone does hv anything with them if not that he took him too court he wouldn't be sending money self so am like what did that guy see in her for him too run like that
you need to make your findings about her. Before you should get completely emotionally attached to a woman,at least you have known 30% by yourself then another 30 from her and the rest when you are together. Marriage isn't something one can just go into. Whatever you give into it is what you will get.
Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by dreamwords: 6:00pm On Mar 05, 2019
Wapizy:
I met these lady last year November on a social media site(spicey.com.ng).shes a single mother two years older than me..everything started well,she started coming weekend too me but meanwhile I had a girlfriend who's in school in kogi and am in Lagos we started issues communicating and I didnt trust her coz of distance that was why I was looking for another relationship close by that will make me happy.
Temitope also told me she accepted too me coz her recent relationship then before I called her was having issues due too that they were asked too go pray about the relationship too get married bt was confirmed that they shouldn't get married so when I came along she used that as an opportunity too move on....i was given an accommodation at my work were Temitope(single mother) do come see....so I don't really hv a place of my own but she has a place at sagamu...now I had an issue with my job and left January these year and got a better offer at my new place of work now....but the problem was that there was no place too stay for the job if not I would be spending more from my parents house....so she decided too let me come stay with her,from her place too opic after Berger was close and more cheaper for me....middle of January I started staying with her I took all the responsibility....she even started given me money for transportation when got broke...she a teacher receive very low but her principal do give her money too keep and also she collects money for the school in different ways so she keeps money with her so it's out of these money she do give me if I need money....later I begin too notice she was chatting with that guy she met on FB....wen I asked she said the guy has been begging for her too come back...later on also she stopped making love too me giving excuses that it's not good too be making love everyday...most wen I come from work and hv urge she would deny me and sometimes I beg for it seriously....all these happened one month and half now hv paid all the money she borrowed me including the one she added....have been telling her that I will leave...she stopped if giving me sex and that made me started thinking otherwise she started behaving strange but she is a good and caring lady now hv moved my things out on Saturday..but I regretted coz she didnt ask me too go...now hv begged her seriously but she said I should let her...my instincts pushed me out of that house...am so broken down...the watch I bought for her I collected it before leaving...i just regret all my actions Cox no matter what she has really been of help too me but I feel deep down that she doesn't want me....i don't know if am right or wrong but in pains I cried on the phone talking too her but she's not even replying all my Whatsapp messages....had deleted all her numbers so I won't be able too call and she hasn't called in two days now I feel so bleeped...i don't how too get out of these emotions..hv not eaten in three days now just too forget about the experiences but still my heart longs for her....someone should help me...i have crying like a baby...
When a woman start denying you sex it means another nigger is banging her, so thank God u packed out, move on bro. I know u are missing the good banging. grin

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Ukoabasi: 7:49pm On Mar 05, 2019
Nigga, just pretend for 21 days and it'll be over.
It takes an average of 21 days for any attitude, feelings to be built.
Just give yourself time, anyhow you configure your brain, it will respond.
You'd be free

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Lightangel65: 8:29pm On Mar 05, 2019
Wapizy:
I met these lady last year November on a social media site(spicey.com.ng).shes a single mother two years older than me..everything started well,she started coming weekend too me but meanwhile I had a girlfriend who's in school in kogi and am in Lagos we started issues communicating and I didnt trust her coz of distance that was why I was looking for another relationship close by that will make me happy.
Temitope also told me she accepted too me coz her recent relationship then before I called her was having issues due too that they were asked too go pray about the relationship too get married bt was confirmed that they shouldn't get married so when I came along she used that as an opportunity too move on....i was given an accommodation at my work were Temitope(single mother) do come see....so I don't really hv a place of my own but she has a place at sagamu...now I had an issue with my job and left January these year and got a better offer at my new place of work now....but the problem was that there was no place too stay for the job if not I would be spending more from my parents house....so she decided too let me come stay with her,from her place too opic after Berger was close and more cheaper for me....middle of January I started staying with her I took all the responsibility....she even started given me money for transportation when got broke...she a teacher receive very low but her principal do give her money too keep and also she collects money for the school in different ways so she keeps money with her so it's out of these money she do give me if I need money....later I begin too notice she was chatting with that guy she met on FB....wen I asked she said the guy has been begging for her too come back...later on also she stopped making love too me giving excuses that it's not good too be making love everyday...most wen I come from work and hv urge she would deny me and sometimes I beg for it seriously....all these happened one month and half now hv paid all the money she borrowed me including the one she added....have been telling her that I will leave...she stopped if giving me sex and that made me started thinking otherwise she started behaving strange but she is a good and caring lady now hv moved my things out on Saturday..but I regretted coz she didnt ask me too go...now hv begged her seriously but she said I should let her...my instincts pushed me out of that house...am so broken down...the watch I bought for her I collected it before leaving...i just regret all my actions Cox no matter what she has really been of help too me but I feel deep down that she doesn't want me....i don't know if am right or wrong but in pains I cried on the phone talking too her but she's not even replying all my Whatsapp messages....had deleted all her numbers so I won't be able too call and she hasn't called in two days now I feel so bleeped...i don't how too get out of these emotions..hv not eaten in three days now just too forget about the experiences but still my heart longs for her....someone should help me...i have crying like a baby...

You are very very weak, you are pathetic.
To believe a man could fall for a lady(dirt).
I still can't believe it.

Cheer up bro women are dogshit, don't demean yourself by mingling with them. You are better them.
Don't make that mistake again, men and rats don't mix

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Nobody: 8:43pm On Mar 05, 2019
You expect one to read that long epistle and still advise you? Oga abeg you go do one of the two . undecided

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Draken(m): 9:00pm On Mar 05, 2019
You are acting like a love struck puppy. Its not the love that you want from her its the sex. Get your sexual needs sorted.

Fast for 40 days and 40 nights then come back and read the Miseducations.

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Re: I Need Help I Can't Control My Feelings by Nobody: 9:09pm On Mar 05, 2019
Predstan:



Abeg I get headache. Make Nairaland include Audio so we dont go through the stress of reading something like this

This one weak me cheesy. grin

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