My looks are not too interesting but i find out that people fall head over heels with me. That I don't know.

But presently I am in a fix with three guys, and they all take very good care of me. Is it a crime.

You're young and female, so you get a lot of attention. Enjoy it while it lasts - it will be over in 5-10 years.

Double or triple dating isn't bad, provided you make what you are doing clear to each guy. If any of them develops a sense of ownership or entitlement over your person, your triple-dating will become very dangerous.

Roliing on the floor, laughing my fat ass off. . .


Sweetheart, you are only tripple dating and you come dey fear!

So what would you say about me, who has promised 3 different guys my hand in marriage!

@ elohor1

Dear how old are you?

Does each guy think he's the only one and that you're committed to him?

we'll take it from there

i think u girls have lost he touch!!! (magic)

what of sextuplet date?

how do you share your time among them?

elohor, i always knew there was something about you. YOUR BOOBS!!! for now while you're enjoying it, i recommend multi-dating.

As long as you are still only dating.
You both havent entered into any sort of agreement yet asper relationship wise.

And as long as you dont sleep with all of them.

in 2007, are there still men that splash cash, gifts, trips et al and don't get a piece of that booty?

IBB Fan:

in 2007, are there still men that splash cash, gifts, trips et al and don't get a piece of that booty?

If its a good piece of booty and worth the hassle then why not if they have the cash to spare.

Na u sabi! But u surely must av one dat is closer to ur heart compared to the remaining. My advice to you is to play ur cards right.

Triple dating is a crime, a very big one.
If you love a guy, you have to remain faithful to him. Now come to think about it.
Suppose one of your guys whom you claim loves you very much sees you with another guy, how do you think he's going to feel?

Or suppose you are the one who loves the guy, and he has three other girls whom he loves so much, how would you feel if you find out?
When you make decisions, don’t just think about yourself alone consider other people ok?

whats d big deal in tripple dating?

as if una no dey do am even if u dont u'ld wish you were

the rule is dont get caught
the other rule is if u get caught DENY! DEBY!

It's cheating ok?

@crazykid

Ofcourse!!! as long as u win

You win right?

you don't even want to consider how your partner would feel if she finds out.
it's not fair ok?

what is in one female is the same thing that is in the other female. I don't know why most guys can't just stick to one

@crazykid
its a game someone is bound to lose another to win watever the losser does depicts his/her game spirit

as per what is other females that,

good question

some are bootylicous,

some lepacious

some HOT

some saucy

do i need to continue?

And you should also come to consider that some have

HIV/AIDS

Gonorrhea

And other Sexually transmitted diseases.
so when you begin to misbehave you have to consider this factors so you'll live to fulfill your dreams, and not die a premature death.

thats a good point

all playas note

a good playa conodmize

na warri or edo girl you be? i am so ashamed of you becos its people like you that show us the bad part of women and then go behind and say we are not ROMANTIK. how can you follishly ask this kind of question, did your mum triple date to produce you? Y not tell us that you are a cheat yourself or that you have three rich monkeys (MUGU 1, MUGU 2 & MUGU 3) taking care of you and you dont know how to tell the one you love most that he is the one you want. Just die this case abd enjoy the lots you are getting afterall they are all mugus. But you will be a bigger mugu when they dump you for their life partners,

Don't you think your being too harsh ,even if she is wrong, cast the sand off your own eyes first, or would you tell me you have not cheated before?by the way am not from warri or edo, but must you generalize

Triple dating 3 guys without their knowledge is wrong (fact) - if they chose to accept it and still remain is a different story - well it's all good until u get caught n end up with none.

On the flip side they might even be cheating on u as well!

It is ironic how women are now defending this act, when asked on the other thread of what they dislike in a guy CHEATING filled the pages, umgh

@IBdat
if thats referred to me, then read my post well, ain't supporting it. am just saying he is being to harsh, must he insult her, when its obvious his hands might not be clean also.

IBDat:

Triple dating 3 guys without their knowledge is wrong (fact) - if they chose to accept it and still remain is a different story - well it's all good until u get caught n end up with none.

On the flip side they might even be cheating on u as well!

It is ironic how women are now defending this act, when asked on the other thread of what they dislike in a guy CHEATING filled the pages, umgh

thankyou jooooooo, i wonder how some can possibly think what she's doing can be defendable

Is it a crime?? No, you won't be sent to jail. Is it a rude and heartless act?? YYESSSSS, because nobody not even the person doing it would want to be treated that way

Someone doesn't have to put their finger in a fire to know it hurts, likewise you don't need a forum to know that "cheating" and leading different people (3 in this case) on at the same time is neither a cool nor likeable act!!!

She wants our honest opinion right?? she got it!

am not defending her. but be realistic. you don't go about clearing other people's farms, when yours is not.

Well it seemed so.

I've read through JuneJemini's post, and the big big mistake i found about his post was the generalization, that pisses me off. Infact i can't stand generalization.

Apart from that, he was giving his 2cents in the way he saw fit.

You said "you don't go about clearing other people's farms, when yours is not cleared"

sorry for asking dear, but do you know JuneJemini in real life?? how sure are you that his farm isn't cleared?? well when you present your farm personal problem/case/topic/thread on nairaland, isn't it because you need us to help you clear it??

And right now the person we're clearing her farm is elohor1 atimes the truth hurts, but when the person asks for it, you just have to pull it out without hesitating!!

For the records, some give advice out of experience, so even if he has been down that path, he still has the right to call back someone else doing the same, remember our advice is to save her from misery, at the end of the day only the involved will carry the cross of consequences

well i guess your right.

ThoniaSlim:

well i guess your right.

. . glad we finally agree we're all here to help!

@cute-ass - u really have a way with words - do u write columns for a living?

ThoniaSlim:

@IBdat
if thats referred to me, then read my post well, ain't supporting it. am just saying he is being to harsh, must he insult her, when its obvious his hands might not be clean also.

I wasn't personally singling u out for one, but JuneJemini was just giving his opinion on the matter which u also gave yours and it wasn't clear if it was for or against.

@ Razorrs Comment:
Roliing on the floor, laughing my fat ass off. . .


Sweetheart, you are only tripple dating and you come dey fear! Grin Grin

So what would you say about me, who has promised 3 different guys my hand in marriage! Grin Grin


U THINK UVE DONE WHAT NAPOLEON CLD NOT DO?
YOU MAKE ME LAUGH. U THINK ITS AN ACHIEVEMENT. THE GUYS WOULD EMERGE THE WINNERS ON THE LONG RUN.

AND U? WELL, A LOSER

GIRLS NEVA LEARN. CANT THEY GET IT GUYS PLAY ALONG SOMTIMES JUST TO HAVE THEIR SHARE. IT MAY EVEN BE A "TRY-NETWORK", SOMETHING LIKE A PICONET. SO IF U LIKE KEP "SPREADING" YOUR "BI-ANTENNA" IM SURE GUYS WLD LOVE TO MEASURE THE "GAIN"

WAKE UP SISTA.

Basically, if you love the 3 of them(wch is impossible), then go ahead.If you have not started DON'T DO IT, if you have, pls find a way to reduce it to one!! help urself.