Alhamdulillah, Allah has granted us a great favour by choosing Islam as our Deen. Allah, the Exalted, says: “Today I have perfected your Deen for you, completed My bounty upon you and chosen Islam as your Deen.” (Surah Al-Mai’dah, 5:3)

Islam is an all-encompassing and holistic way of life. It takes into account all of the human needs: spiritual, emotional and physical. It encourages marriage and has made it the only means through which we can satisfy our sexual needs. In fact, according to many scholars, though marriage is a highly recommended act, it becomes obligatory once there is a risk of getting involved in a sin.

Unfortunately many Brothers are living a very promiscuous life these days. A number of them are involved in premarital relationships while others are even having extra-marital relationships with girls/women.

These Brothers who are involved in these immoral acts can actually be divided into three common categories:

1. Brothers who are in unlawful relationship with a single girl either with the aim of having fun with her or with the sincere intention of marrying her. Whatever your motive may be, she is haraam for you. Some of you get engaged to her thinking that once you are engaged to her she becomes halaal for you.

No Brother, your fiancée is not your wife therefore she is not halaal for you till you have a Nikah with her, period!

2. Then there are those who have relations with several girls at a time (these are the lads who are usually termed as ‘Playboys’). Every time you find a new girlfriend you feel a sense of pride in you. You take the new relationship as a feather in your cap!

No Brother, this relationship is not a feather in your cap but in real sense it is something that can cause a black spot in your heart. Yes, by being alone with her you are bound to be involved in a sin and this creates a black spot in your heart as is stated in the following Hadeeth: Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, when the servant commits a sin a black spot appears upon his heart…” Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 3334. If Allah has endowed you a luxurious life that includes wealth, a splendid house, a porsche car etc. and has also blessed you with very good looks, then do not use these bounties to cause His wrath because you are answerable to Him tomorrow in the Hereafter.

3. Then there are Brothers who are involved in Extramarital affairs. These are the relationships outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or a passionate attachment occurs. This practice is not only totally forbidden in Islam, it is also disliked by all societies of the world, however liberal they might be. Being unfaithful to your wife is disliked by majority of the people all around the world.


Please fear Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala because He is always watching every move of yours. Keep away from all types of sins. Do not ruin the everlasting life of the Hereafter for the Trivial life of this Duniya! What answer are you going give Him for the sins you are committing here?

On the other hand, if a person leaves a sin for the pleasure of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta‘ala, he will enjoy rewards in both the worlds: in this world as well as the Hereafter.

By: M. B. Ahmed via JAMIA KZN

Haqq

May ALLAH subhanahu was ta'ala have mercy upon us, guide and protect us & our entire Zurriya away from Zina and all sins.


The Sad reality is people take Islamic doctrines for granted. There's no thing as boyfriend/ girlfriend as it's haraam to stay alone with none mahrams but westernisation has brought so much fitna into our societies.

Astafirullah Ya RAHMAN

The hypocrites are here!

yalaka salaka sibiri na ala otu walaka salaka amin Insha'Allah amin

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The truth is bitter
But will save a lot

firstly its so sadden that one must agree to be a Muslim before comment

secondly, I see no big deal in it, is like saying before u could have an affair with a lady u must marry her first even if one is dying health wise n thus force one self to marry, if dat is what nikar.. is about then ko worth e

Marriage is not for everyone the institution is failed in a place like nigeria where poverty is the talk of the day

People should go and marry abi na you go feed dem family or pay dem rent

Again most naija babes are not wife materials open eye don finish dem all many are prostitute by association hahaha

So guys shine your eye oo

You may marry one olosho in disguise someday

So make we no fucccck ourselves before we even marry?You people play too much shaa..

Arrant nonesense

King44:
firstly its so sadden that one must agree to be a Muslim before comment

secondly, I see no big deal in it, is like saying before u could have an affair with a lady u must marry her first even if one is dying health wise n thus force one self to marry, if dat is what nikar.. is about then ko worth e

I wonder oo! what kinda Religious Bullshiit is that?

Just marry someone u don't know from anywhere

I would rather drink monkey Urine than Marry, There is no way in Hell i am marrying Anyone of these Hoes of Nowadays who calls themselves women. who have become selfish, greedy, Disrespectful, bad mannered, Gold diggers and Smelly Vaginas.

Efna55:
The hypocrites are here!

God punish u

IM A BORN AGAIN CHRISTAIN....

if muslims alone should comment on a thread, then that fvcking thread shouldnt be on the frontpage!

Nonesense and APC

So you mean we won't fvck our 13yr old's before marrying them

No wonder they give birth anyhow up north.

Jazakumullahu khaera

So we should marry our brothers and sisters?

I dont have anything to say, except that I'm a born again christian.

happney65:
So make we no fucccck ourselves before we even marry?You people play too much shaa..

Arrant nonesense

Who takes the foolish OP seriously? Iranu!

obontami:



Who takes the foolish OP seriously? Iranu!

Abasha