what would make a guy that claims to love just stop talking or calling you when there's is no disagreement or quarrel between you guys and how can do forget about such a person. meaning contributions is needed please.

He never loved you so forget him and move on.

Yupp, baby.me could be right. @OP: Have you tried talking to this guy?

yeah i tried talking to him and all he could say is that he was angry with me and cut the phone on me.

faving:

yeah i tried talking to him and all he could say is that he was angry with me and cut the phone on me.

Ok, if you know you've done nothing wrong then move on. No need to wait on a man who doesn't have the decency to tell you what it is that is making him so angry. I was with a guy once who was mad at me because I didn't seem excited one night when he saw me. He walked away from me and acted like I did something wrong. When I got home, I didn't call him or speak to him in any way, shape, or form. Eventually he realized what he did was wrong and he apologized. In your case, I'd just say to move on.

faving:

yeah i tried talking to him and all he could say is that he was angry with me and cut the phone on me.

Try to have a face-to-face discussion. Then you decide if you want to quit or continue.

it's so appalling to see some people jump to conclusions that the guy never loved her. that cant be true!!!. Right, the guy's behaviour is kinda rash and uncalled for but it does not mean he doesn't love her or he's calling it quits.

kokoye:

Try to have a face-to-face discussion. Then you decide if you want to quit or continue.

@poster, that's a reasonable suggestion. there's a possibility u did something wrong and he's boiling and pondering over it that he doesn't want to pour out his mind yet. some guys decide to cut their partners off when they are angry cos they think it's a way of getting back or torture them. I will suggest u dont call himm but go over to his place and talk things over. with that u can have a concrete proof of what his plans are and u can move on from there.

^^^ She might not have known. That is why she should try to find out what is it.

It is not everything we do in good faith that goes down well with everyone else.

Omolola1:

Last time i checked, the poster said she never did anything to offend him~

I just checked and can't see this either. she never claimed she didnt do anything but the guy wouldnt talk to her.

kokoye:

^^^ She might not have known. That is why she should try to find out what is it.

It is not everything we do in good faith that goes down well with everyone else.

quite true. that's why they need to talk things over and by doing so, she will know where the relationship is heading to.

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the guy don eat finish clean mouth.

sometin i can never do to a lady, instead i would just withdraw wen the temptation sets in,

the minute i proclaim my love for any lady, i mean it~

the withdrawal aspect is not as easy as u think. by the way, how many ladies have u proclaimed to?

Maybe the flame burnt out. Try calling again one last time and if he still is unresponsive then forget him. There are many more men out there that deserve your attention.

The way u ladies always jump in2 conclusion is annoying. "Move on","He doesn't love u" n blah blah blah. Com on think b4 u get any advise or u remain silent.
@op try 2 see him in person b4 u knw d nxt step 2 take.

Let him be 4 now, guess his up 2 something u ain't aware of, Time shall settle d scores.

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