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Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 6:05pm On Mar 14, 2019
I had to open a new account to post this.

Please I need help in quitting bet9ja virtual.
This gambling of a thing has made me loose a lot of money, made people that are not meant to talk to me talk to me anyhow.
I work, for the past one year that I've been working, I can't account for anything to shown for it.
This gambling habit is killing me. Please I need help, my last month salary just finished today because of this virtual.
I just lost everything and I don't have money to even feed. This keeps happening all the time.

Please advice me on how to quit, if you like insult me. I've been insulted enough.
And police has even arrested me because I once played virtual and owed them 45 thousand and wasn't able to pay.

I need advice please, if not this habit will destroy me.
I'm getting depressed on a daily because of this habit.


Cc
Lalasticlala
Seun
Puskin.
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 6:08pm On Mar 14, 2019
Please help me �����
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Alexas58: 6:12pm On Mar 14, 2019
I wish I could help you.
But I don’t know how to.
Maybe someone meaningful would tell you something useful

Kingofcasting
Alexistaiwo
Chiefheywhy

Una brother needs help
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by resosdigital(m): 6:15pm On Mar 14, 2019
My opinion is that you haven't lost enough else you would sit down and advise yourself
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 6:19pm On Mar 14, 2019
I've tried a lot of times.
Bit I keep falling back.
I really need help
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by macmiral: 6:19pm On Mar 14, 2019
see a counsellor, nairaland dudes wont help but criticize you bruh..
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 6:28pm On Mar 14, 2019
macmiral:
see a counsellor, nairaland dudes wont help but criticize you bruh..

I don't know where to see a counsellor
Please do you have anyone to refer me to?
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by nero2face: 6:35pm On Mar 14, 2019
My advice for u is, join a monthly contribution group, let it be a contribution u pay same day u receive ur salary, then budget little for ur feeding and let the rest go for the continuation, then buy food stuffs immediately after payment day, l tell u if u don't have any cash on you, the spirit of Bet9ja will walk out of ur life without stress... My piece of advice

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Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by macmiral: 6:53pm On Mar 14, 2019
Bet9jaVirtual:


I don't know where to see a counsellor
Please do you have anyone to refer me to?
depends on your location, there might be counsellors around you, try and check one out
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 7:42pm On Mar 14, 2019
nero2face:
My advice for u is, join a monthly contribution group, let it be a contribution u pay same day u receive ur salary, then budget little for ur feeding and let the rest go for the continuation, then buy food stuffs immediately after payment day, l tell u if u don't have any cash on you, the spirit of Bet9ja will walk out of ur life without stress... My piece of advice
I'm going to try that .
I have tried a lot of remedies, but none seems to be working.
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 7:43pm On Mar 14, 2019
macmiral:
depends on your location, there might be counsellors around you, try and check one out
Okay, I'm going to look out for one.
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Mar 14, 2019
Desperate situations demand for desperate measures.


What length are you willing to go to stop this addiction?
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by SeunKelechi: 10:10pm On Mar 14, 2019
Bet9jaVirtual:
I've tried a lot of times.
Bit I keep falling back.
I really need help
You are the only person who can help yourself..
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by bakins9000(m): 10:55pm On Mar 14, 2019
Hey bro....
I was once in this particular situation u described in here.. I can really relate with all what u r talking about.. Firstly, i must say sorry for all ur troubles.
However, u could leave such habit by taking ur mind off the game.. Try , in ur thinking to let go.. Because the more/main reason u r playing the game often even when u made up ur mind is that u want to make back ur loosed money... Thats why u keep going back.. Just let it go .. Secondly, think of maximizing ur time.. All the time u r spending , following and forecasting those games , u can learn new skills like barbing, fashion designing, mechanic, u can go to school , u can learn a trade .. U can start making new friend that will benefit ur life..
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 11:21pm On Jun 12, 2019
bakins9000:
Hey bro....
I was once in this particular situation u described in here.. I can really relate with all what u r talking about.. Firstly, i must say sorry for all ur troubles.
However, u could leave such habit by taking ur mind off the game.. Try , in ur thinking to let go.. Because the more/main reason u r playing the game often even when u made up ur mind is that u want to make back ur loosed money... Thats why u keep going back.. Just let it go .. Secondly, think of maximizing ur time.. All the time u r spending , following and forecasting those games , u can learn new skills like barbing, fashion designing, mechanic, u can go to school , u can learn a trade .. U can start making new friend that will benefit ur life..

I'm making progress.

Two months now, and I've not played again.
And I hope it remains this way.
Its not easy, I'm having temptations all the Time to go back.
But I'm trying my best
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 11:22pm On Jun 12, 2019
SeunKelechi:

You are the only person who can help yourself..

I took this as a challenge and I'm two months gone.
Without playing .
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by alexvic12: 4:50pm On Jun 13, 2019
Congratulations on going for two months. I know this may sound old fashioned, but try and pray over it too. God really helps people overcome addictions.
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 8:15pm On Jun 26, 2019
alexvic12:
Congratulations on going for two months. I know this may sound old fashioned, but try and pray over it too. God really helps people overcome addictions.

The celebration was short lived
I fell again
Please I really need help
This time around I lost #100,000 money given to me to start business

Please help me.
I’ve been dealing with this for four years.
Help me please

Cc
Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Mods help
#Crying
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Bet9jaVirtual: 8:16pm On Jun 26, 2019
bakins9000:
Hey bro....
I was once in this particular situation u described in here.. I can really relate with all what u r talking about.. Firstly, i must say sorry for all ur troubles.
However, u could leave such habit by taking ur mind off the game.. Try , in ur thinking to let go.. Because the more/main reason u r playing the game often even when u made up ur mind is that u want to make back ur loosed money... Thats why u keep going back.. Just let it go .. Secondly, think of maximizing ur time.. All the time u r spending , following and forecasting those games , u can learn new skills like barbing, fashion designing, mechanic, u can go to school , u can learn a trade .. U can start making new friend that will benefit ur life..

How did you quit??
I’m now a laughing stock everywhere
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Johnayoola(m): 12:04am On Jun 27, 2019
oga,it very very easy..1st what do u like most in this life that u cnt afford to loss..to me its my life..if u re a muslim/christian pick a quran/bible n swear with ur life that God shld end ur life in a brutal way anyday u play it.trust me u wil neva play it again

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Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by kingslyco(m): 9:37am On Jun 27, 2019
Yes i advice you look for a lady you can trust and love, respect her and hear her advice not a runs girl please let her handle your funds like if you have a wife is more easier you kw women hate gambling and am sure you most have a girlfriend if your not married she will help you alot brother..

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Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Midas01: 12:58pm On Jul 16, 2019
Look at the foool that is threatening to fvck me up. As if your life is not fvcked up already. I just pity your life. Also, I fear no one. Like I said, I live in Woji estate.
Come here and try nonsense.
Bet9jaVirtual:


How did you quit??
I’m now a laughing stock everywhere
Re: Help Bet9ja Virtual Is Ruining My Life. by Deltayankeeboi: 8:05am On Mar 21, 2020
Bet9jaVirtual:

How did you quit?? I’m now a laughing stock everywhere

what's up bro? Howfa have you gone with your quitting virtual?

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