I struggled through school. It was tough in those days. Thank God I got a job with the FG two years after graduation. I'm on level 12 now with a monthly pay of less than 140k. Married to a teacher on about 70k with 2 kids. With an aged mother and siblings to care for. I have assisted 3 of my siblings out of the university, 2 are already working while 1 is still on my neck even after NYSC. The major issue now is that my extended family members are expecting too much from me, they'll send their children and some of them will always make demand directly. I try as much as possible to give my widows mite but many of them are nor satisfied with the gesture. They always believe I can do more. On my wife's advise, I tried to explain things to some of them but they aren't really yielding to voice of reason. One recently said her I should help her daughter to secure a job as if I'm the chief executive of my organization. She told whoever cared to listen that I helped my mother's son but refused to help her daughter meanwhile my brother got his job through the president of an ALUMNI association I belong to.
These people are too much on my neck, please, I need help on how to handle them.

This kind family members tire me

I have a question for u, why do u care? I also have the answer, because you care too much of what people think of you.
When u are fed up, take the keys in your hands and break yourself free.

You have money to throw away that's why. You children are growing up, and that'll mean more expenses. Your so called extended family you're bleeding to help will be the first to call you names if things go south for you. Your wife and you children are your world now. Be wise.

Help the way you can
Invest your money.so u will TRULY not have much in ur account to give out....
Buy properties
Set targets u want to achieve
Save ookk
Rain will fall
Those people will still be in it neck even when rain is falling
The Bible say a good father leaves inheritance for the kids.
Don't give ur kids any reason to question their fatherhood!

You are only responsible for your immediate families, your wife kids and mum. Tell your broda to look for work nothing is too big or small. As for your extended family cut them you need to save for the future