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Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 9:18am On Mar 21, 2019 |
kiddoiLL: I made a mistake by texting her I guess... Her reply is [b]I don't think it is a good idea if you call. now I'm sad |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 9:20am On Mar 21, 2019 |
sacramento1212: With her new reply. Should I still go ahead and call her? |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by sacramento1212: 9:25am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB: Apart from the aspect of call, is there no way you can meet with her physically? If there's, that should be more ideal than the call. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Psoul(m): 9:29am On Mar 21, 2019 |
Which other advice do u need here? When we advice all these upcoming boys on how to handle girls, they will go back and take advice from their co hard guys thinking that u succeed in a man-woman relationship with macho man, hard man and thug life thing. When the real time comes, u will see that it's not by bn a hard man but by building urself together with ur partner with love, understanding, maturity, mutual respect and sacrifices. 3 Likes |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by OILOFGLADNESS: 9:39am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB: AS A LADY, I KNOW WE GIRLS LOVE HUMBLE AND SINCERE GUYS IF TRULY YOU REALIZE THAT U WERE AT FAULT AND OWNED UP TO IT ( VERY RARE OF MANY MEN, VERY VERY RARE, THEIR EGO IS TOO MUCH EVEN WHEN THEY KNEW THAT THEY AS SHIT). CONSIDER HER AGE AS WELL CONSIDER WHEN PROBABLY YOU ARE READY TO SETTLE DOWN I AM TALKING WITH EXPREIENCE YOU CAN WOE ANY GIRL YOU LOVE TO YOURSELF, YES YOU CAN ,IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER YOUR ACTION SPEAKS, AND YOUR WORDS AND ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER, APPROACH HER WITH REMORSEFUL AND REPENTANT ATTITUDE ( IF ITS ACTUALLY COMING FROM YOUR HEART, IT GONNA FLOW EASILY). DONT BE DEFENSIVE IN ANY WAY, JUST BE READY TO FLOOD THE WHOLE REUNION MEETING WITH SORRY, SORRY, SORRY......... I PROMISE YOU, SHE WONT ACCEPT IMMEDIATELY, BUT LET YOUR ACTION SPEAK FOR YOU AFTER THE MEETING, BELIEVE YOU ME, EVEN IF SHE HAVE MOVED ON, FOR THE FACT THAT SHE LOVED YOU INITIALLY, SHE WILL TRY TO COMPARE WITH HER NEW GUY AND YOUR NEW ATTITUDE , GIVE HER 2 MONTH OF CARE AND UNDERSTANDING, SHE WILL BE ALL URS AGAIN, NOTE SHE WILL KEEP THE OTHER GUY, WHILE STILL STUDYING YOU............. UNDERSTAND HER THROUGH OUT THOSE PERIOD, COS HE WILL DEFINITELY TRY YOU!!!!! GOODLUCK.... U ARE INDEED ONE IN A MILLION GUYS... GUYS ARE TOO EGOCENTRIC , EVEN WHEN THEY ARE DYING.. 1 Like |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by bugggg: 9:59am On Mar 21, 2019 |
These days people misinterprete a good sex to a relationship. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Lovelife433(m): 10:00am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB:u need sense, pray to have one its free.
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Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 10:01am On Mar 21, 2019 |
sacramento1212: I know her office but I don't want to bump into her uninvited. She will certainly not appreciate that. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 10:04am On Mar 21, 2019 |
OILOFGLADNESS: Thabks for the heads up. I am trying to make a move so we can meet up she seems not to be ready for that. So I'm planning to send her a card and some flowers. Lol good idea? |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by sacramento1212: 10:04am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB: Not during office hours. Time up during closing time and meet with her. No big deal in doing so. The ball is in your court. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 10:05am On Mar 21, 2019 |
bugggg: Funny thing is, we never had "good sex" she is boring in that aspect. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 10:06am On Mar 21, 2019 |
sacramento1212: I want to send flowers/chocolates with a card to her. At least that will ease the tension a little. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Lovelife433(m): 10:08am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB:how old are u?cos The dis girl disorganize ur brain dat u can't reason as a man is still a miracle to me. Move on and look for Anorther one dey are plenty out there, beans and bread seller plenty evertwere na.
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Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by OILOFGLADNESS: 10:24am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB: vERY GOOD IDEA, YOU CAN SEND THIS TO HER OFFICE, WITH A SHORT NOTE BUT NOT SPECIFYING UR NAME.... |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by tosyne2much(m): 10:25am On Mar 21, 2019 |
feelgoodstuffs:Thanks boss |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by sacramento1212: 10:26am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB: You are an African man and not a white. Act like the African man you are. Except when you were involved she loved all those things but to me i see them as a waste of time. Chocolate or flowers isn't a recipe for settlement. You guys need to meet one on one. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by bugggg: 10:30am On Mar 21, 2019 |
Then deal with ur insecurities first better still make her understand better the things that makes you feel insecure. I find it hard to trust girls too and my babe knows and we are working on that ..... I always wanna know that male that calls and texts and what's all about these days we laugh it off BalleyB: |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by OILOFGLADNESS: 10:30am On Mar 21, 2019 |
sacramento1212: YOU ARE RIGHT BUT I TEND TO DISAGREE, HIS ACTIONS EVEN BEFORE THE MEET UP IS CONTRIBUTORY U HAVE TO BE REALISTIC HERE |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by sacramento1212: 10:36am On Mar 21, 2019 |
OILOFGLADNESS: He knows the lady in question more than everyone of us commenting here. Except the lady loves things like that, then he can go ahead but my kind of person will hit the nail on the head. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Nobody: 10:38am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB:So of what use is it to you? |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Mariangeles(f): 11:24am On Mar 21, 2019 |
ElsonMorali:There you have it ! |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Jcole1985(m): 11:34am On Mar 21, 2019 |
Kendrick80:Jokes on you mother4kers we alive |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Offpoint1: 11:34am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB:Yeah, she's right, you shouldn't have discussed it on phone. Take her out to a cool place, If there's anyone you guys are used to, take her there. own up to you mistakes just like you did, let her know you've grown pass that now, let her know sincerely you've changed, the old you is dead and gone. Whatever the outcome might be, handle it like a man. If she insist she's have moved on, wish her well and tella you wish things really worked out with you two. Please just what you do don't show sign of desperation while doing this, else she might use it as advantage against you. Wish you best of luck man. Just prepare for the worst, but pray for the best. Go get your woman back man! |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by ElsonMorali: 11:41am On Mar 21, 2019 |
Mariangeles: My apologies for sounding too brash. You did make heavy assumptions about a faceless online personality though. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by kiddoiLL(m): 12:07pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB:That's shat you get for seeking permission to do the right thing, you never needed permission to do what's right.. If I were you I'd still call her, ask her not to no hang up and that I couldn't stay away n really needed to hear her voice n talk to her, I'd let her knw even she wanted me not to call, I couldn't fight the urge n I'm sure she seems like an understanding nd matured person, she'll give you the chance to express yourself, then you can ask her if it's possible to see.. on the contrary to what I've read here mostly, ask her to pick a place she'll b comfortable to discuss with you. Don't take her to any spot you're both connected to, don't take to any of your sweet spots (She's still fighting to let you back into her life, last thing you need to do is remind her or make stuffs worse by taking her to spots she doesn't feel connected to at the moment) I hope you get my drift??.. call her, tell her you need to see her, ask her to choose the place you'll meet, the aim is to make her be in control for now and comfortable |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Kendrick80(m): 12:17pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Jcole1985:Ur head dey der...glad 2 chat with a fellow Cole fan |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Jcole1985(m): 12:20pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Kendrick80:Yeah,Its a Cole world out here! . |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Kendrick80(m): 12:24pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Jcole1985:Yea...4 your eyez only tho |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Blueeyedboi(m): 12:25pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Dude you should be reading the hand writing on the wall by now.... The signs are all over the place...Sad truth is SHE'S GONE and there's nothing you or anyone can do about it... Brace yourself up,learn from this experience and move on...Some things are not just meant to be...makes no sense forcing it... Apparently some people come into our lives to make us better and prepare us for future challenges in life... Every relationship must not end in the fairy tale lived happily ever after.....Thank her for making you a better person and move on... No amount of text or call will bring her back ... Trust me, that ship has sailed a long time ago... Stay off relationships for a while to get your acts together... It's part of the learning process.. A nice girl will cross your path soon enough... Then you'll be more mature and experienced in handling her.. Someday you'll look back at this whole episode and smile...Good luck.. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Jcole1985(m): 12:27pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Kendrick80:That is why we KILLING OUR DEMONS like them bloody KIDS ON DRUGS killing their moms |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Kendrick80(m): 1:12pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Jcole1985:Hmmm...same way niggas acting woke but dey broke. |
Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by Shhhh01(f): 1:16pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
BalleyB:We haven't had any other conversation since yesterday but I want to get her back. I felt since she replied my text with a positive "tone" I might be able to work things out with her. What advise do you seek again son? |
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