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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by profhenrii(m): 2:18pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
leonard002: Please I need a copy |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by olaefosa: 2:20pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
he is one of your viĺlage people sent to monitor your food. Don't worry his mission will soon be complete after you start begging for money and food. You better MAN UP and discharge the hungry opportunist. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Born2smile: 2:24pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
LiveByNight: See no need for all this lying tactics. The way you relate with people that is how they will relate with you. OP has a choice here. Does he want to continue feeding the "friend" while the guy uses his money to buy wristwatch and other stuff or Will the OP be plain and open and tell the parasite he cannot afford to continue feeding him from his meager income? It is better to be open. That way people understand that you cannot take sh!t 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by tunary(m): 2:35pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Tony142:Funny you. |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Born2smile:There are some people that can't understand such o. Telling them no means nothing to them. They are self centered and unreasonable. They don't decode body languages. So it's best to play a fast one on them to send a message across. Besides if the guy comes through, then u know he's a good friend. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by samsam2019: 2:54pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul:send his number to me. I'll text him that he should never come near you for anything again 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Born2smile: 3:00pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Well for me, I believe in being plain, open and willing to have that difficult conversation. If I were the OP, I would call the guy one day, sit him down and tell him that I cannot continue to feed him and I will also tell him the reason why. He receives money from his parents like I do but he spends it on nonessential things. I have to manage the little I am getting from my sponsors and cannot continue to feed him............................ Shikena! If he understands and stops coming to my house, fine. If he doesn't want to understand, at least, he will not be surprised if I don't give him food next time. For me, I choose my friends carefully. I will not continue with a leech who likes being a parasite to others. Either he change or I change him. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by YOUNGEBEN91(m): 3:01pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
echibuogwu: I am not complaining here, boy! All I am trying to say is that he shouldn't think the 10k is too small rather he should appreciate his parents as there are other students surviving less than that. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by tunary(m): 3:01pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul:This guy you are acting like an adjebutter Is your father a governor? Because of the little help he rendered that's y he want to take advantage of your food you know he's not serious because he would have paid you the money he owed you instead he buys irrelevant things. Try to be a little stingy 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by nattty(m): 3:03pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Flight90:U get problem I swear 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Tellemall: 3:17pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
edebemba: You're just saying this. How many people have testified of people helping them and then they repay them one day with something good and help them for old times sake? Most times people who go looking to eat other people's lunch are selfish opportunists. They don't need it and they can work for it or endure it. For instance, while begging for food the guy is buying himself things. Meaning he's using the OP. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by AhlexOfficial(m): 3:20pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Offpoint1 Zero eight one zero two zero four seven eight five four Add up on whatsapp... U Grab. |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by midnighter(f): 3:22pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
The turning point in this story is that when he was able, he didnt pay back your money. That one was concrete enough for you to confront him because people like this tend to be very manipulative and they make you feel that you are just crying over nothing You just have to tell him the truth, though it may be hard. And that truth is that you dont like his behaviour and he should leave you and your food alone Sorry, i know you may not be used to confrontation but if you do this one, it will be easier for you the next time I had this problem when someone kept visiting me to use up my make-up and hair products instead of budgeting money to buy her own. After a while I just lost my temper and she didnt try it again If I run out of products before my next money comes and start moving about looking untidy and tattered, is it the lady or me who will collect the insult? If you faint in your class or fail your paper now due to lack of food, whose fault is it? Your parents didnt give birth to you, watch you grow, suffer to send you to school all so you could end up as his slave abeg 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Jrevelation(m): 3:22pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
anytime or anywhere u see d guy keep asking him for money or food .... Task him die Like my guy i fit see 500h eat for ur hand i dey hungry and i no get money like that he will understand u no get again Dont let him come to ur house again Tell him u re at one of ur friend house 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by princekins(m): 3:25pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Inform your babe, or get any girl in ur dept/hostel to pose as ur babe...whenever he comes just inform the babe she will use bad mouth and finish him. Second option is to use drugs to stimulate serious dysentery. After like two times of such he won’t come again |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by shogsman(m): 3:34pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Call the guy and tell him you want His advice on something,then copy what you wrote here and spell it out for him,he'll definitely get the vibe. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Customer80: 4:05pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Offpoint1:Guy this one is different, he sees him as a timid guy and is taking advantage of him. The cook isnt exposed . 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Rollitout: 4:27pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: Show him the head of the yam, no need to talk |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by DRPAIT123(m): 4:34pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Flight90:whooo! My current series, love it so much Which season are you mate? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by eaglejay13(m): 4:35pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Offpoint1: You mean your grandfather used to call you offpoint? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by showafrica(m): 4:36pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: If u Wan cook buy food stuffs keep then cook it mid night. |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Offpoint1: 4:39pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
eaglejay13:e don tey nobi today yansh dey back... if you grab |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Kaybaba5(m): 4:58pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul:What u need is courage Tell him no food and be serious about it. He wont come again |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Orlandihno(m): 5:09pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Offpoint1:Mahn I gotta tell ya they are some who doesn't have any conscience, they believe becos u have enough that's u keep on giving them!! In their mindset that u're "a fooool" they'll keep on feast on u. |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Orlandihno(m): 5:40pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
I still recalled when I was still staying in face me I face u, I remembered this pretty young lady.... broda plz I fit borrow ur matches, I mean everyday by day each time I'm back from work, whenever she comes fr it she'll start with a play, at the end....broda plz I fit borrow ur matches, it was kinda funny though. And this guy also, I mean every weekend he must come fr my Iron, "bros I fit borrow ur iron" b4 I used it I must go and knock on his door and get it back, till the iron got spoiled and I had to repair it with deep anger, after repairing that was when senses came into my oblongata, when he returns over the wkend fr it again, I turned him down with immediate effects. When he saw me using it he was surprised, exclaiming "bros u dey vex o" Ever since then he didn't knock on my door again fr it. The lesson is that "don't let anyone use ur kindness for a Fool" 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Itzneowizy(m): 6:03pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
ojun50:1051 likes!!! ......PROFOUND TRUTH.....He should keep on feeding the guy....when his low self esteem grows and he develops more courage... Ein go get sense 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by leonard002(m): 7:49pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
profhenrii:chat me up |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by leonard002(m): 7:49pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
Tony142:sure chat me up |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by OgaBuhari: 2:11am On Mar 24, 2019 |
QuickStandard:mine is 7k same Uniben, how did u manage? |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by tpalan(m): 12:21pm On Mar 24, 2019 |
Flight90: |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by edebemba(m): 7:09pm On Mar 24, 2019 |
Tellemall:Because the young man goes to his friend's house to eat and buys things for himself does not in anyway mean that he has money. He may be an indigent student struggling to survive. It may interest you to know that our schools are full of indigent students who struggle and strive to save whatever little money they get in order to buy what they need. The one who cooks food claims that he receives #10,000 every 3 weeks. That's big cash to a student and it shows that his parents are comfortable. But there are students who hardly see #10,000 in 2 months. However, my opinion here is that the OP should investigate to see if his friend is indigent. If yes, let him go ahead and assist him with food, not minding what he buys. |
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