dierich:

thanks.. I think you understand me more
this is the text I'm planning to send to him now


Sorry if dis offend u. I just want u 2 stop dis 4 nw. Even Queen wanna come, I've 2 stop her myself. I knw wat I'm facing & Hw much I've spent on my health. Who knows where it's coming frm, so 4 now I wanna keep tins around me holy.

How about the above message?

Do not send that text. Are you a man or a woman? tell him straight up that you can't deal with his shit. Also let him know you have no problem if he is hanging around face to face not through text.

All these useless people that want to go around fornicating, but don't want to be responsible enough to pay rent, or clean up after themselves.

I blame the foolish girls that sleep with such people. OP, the guy will stay and marry in your house, since you're here thinking of a good way to tell someone to phuck off with their nasty selves.

The only reason he is living in your house is because you give him freedom to misbehave, he can't try such nonsense in his father's house, and I'm sure he doesn't pay for jack in your place. I dislike freeloaders

dierich:


u may not understand why I'm seeking for advice. and besides, u don't need to say some people need psych evaluation. who knows maybe u need 1 too.
those that understand me will know y I'm looking for the best way to table it down without causing anything..

Friends that cannot tell each other the stinging truth, is that one friends?

Simply call your friend and tell him"oboy if you bring babe and you no tidy up the room afterwards, you will not bring babe enter here again"

Problem of tidyness solved.

Allow your girl friend to deal with that or your wife to be. And stay aloof

Guy get a girlfriend let her come stay with you like a month the way that your guy will take run from ur house my brother u won't even no

Let that nigga knw u don't take shit, very simple, wake up dude!

dierich:


I swear, at first I've no problem with d way he brings his girls in, but after a while I notice d way he uses d room.. I don't even know how to explain for u to understand me.
dere was a day he changes d bed upside down coz he can't sleep directly to it coz of d way he messed up d bed.

my advice is tell him to stop....your house is not a chalet or hotel.....let him knw to be responsible n act in a manner dats shows you are squatting him....well my advice is do the needful n be a man here....

dierich:



sorry bro.. this is not jealousy. I've my own girl too, so that's not d issue.

And you think we nairaland believe you? Guy stop �� all this complain and tell he to leave your house not the end of the world
A friend in need is a friend indeed me and my niggis cool with whatsoever because life is what you make of it � fvk the house fvk the bed fvk the clothes � finally fvk you for nor be true friend because you need to speak to him than bring this sshit to nairaland

dierich:
this is my T-shirt for God's sake. because it's over a year I wore it doesn't mean it should end this way

Tell him that you are on a 3 months serious prayer, that he should not bring girls for now to avoid distracting your mood and always embark on a serious singing and praises whenever he is around. Definitely, this will shut him off from your place which will force him to find another safe haven within that 3 months and you will be free. If he comes back after 3 months, start another prayer, this time make it a one year prayer

Guy, your post was exactly what happened with me back then.... As a matter of fact, i doubt if he's is up to mine back then. But the truth is that there is no how you will tell him that he will understsnd,infact he after telling him, he wont be coming to your place again cos he was only coming because of the privacy he was getting from you and once thats not there again, he will see no point coming. But bro, you have to be a man and sit him down ,tell him what you want, period. Exactly what i did back then.

If anything happen to those girls in your house God forbid na you they go hold o... Bro act fast!

Simple tell to stop bringing his gf and messing around, if you give people an inch they will take a mile, and the irony is when he has how own house he would not condone that.

veekid:
Go and marry

veekid:
Go and marry

END OF DISCUSSION...GBAM

Get a gf, trust me, he will stop bringing them..or ask your sister or brother to come visit you and stay a while

This guy I see u are not man in reality. How dare left yourself in the hand of a fool.
Leave nairaland we don't accommodate such

As long as i have my own girl Someone like me won't even mind sef. I can continue dressing the bed as well as washing the bedsheets too, no big deal... Highest i will tell him to join me with the washing too.... ONE THING WITH LIVING AT SOMEONE'S PLACE IS THAT AT SOME POINT THEY WILL START FINDING FAULT OR GIVING YOU SILLY ATTITUDE, imagine this guy saying he had to fake illness just to stop him from bringing gals in his apartment.. TAKE NOTE: This is his own side of the story and we didn't hear from the guy...

onye mgbu

dierich:
Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

Tell him you want to embark on 3 months personal prayer, and u want your house free of unholy act. I am sure after that time he will be tired of bringing girls, if he isn't just extend the holy exercise to 6months.

You can do this if you yourself does not bring ladies any way...

It may sound funny to him, and he will know you are lying but ur seriousness while saying it will tell him you don't care....that is technical way of telling a friend to pack

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Dat ur friend is a pig! Like is he turning u 2 a houseboy in ur own house?
That guy don cross boundary tey tey.

Or is there any other thing you're not telling us?

Never tell a Nigerian you live alone

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[quote author=dierich post=76988618]Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

ODE; START FUCKING HIS GIRLFRIENDS AND Bleep THEM MERCILESSLY; WHEN YOU WERE TAKING A 3BEDROOM APARTMENT AS A BACHELOR YOU DIDNT KNOW??

ReeLoaDead:
Sounds like the OP could be g.a.y and is actually in love with his friend.

I swear bro.. The friend brought a gal and he still expect him to leave the girl and sleep on the same bed with him. WTF!!

R2bees:
As long as i have my own girl Someone like me won't even mind sef. I can continue dressing the bed as well as washing the bedsheets too, no big deal... Highest i will tell him to join me with the washing too.... ONE THING WITH LIVING AT SOMEONE'S PLACE IS THAT AT SOME POINT THEY WILL START FINDING FAULT OR GIVING YOU SILLY ATTITUDE, imagine this guy saying he had to fake illness just to stop him from bringing gals in his apartment.. TAKE NOTE: This is his own side of the story and we didn't hear from the guy...

onye mgbu

Read in between lines. The guy is sick and is trying very hard to stay alive. He is hypertensive and also has some other health issues. The last thing he needs now is what his friend is doing.. He doesn't need all those things near him. Why u no go pay rent but u go carry woman. U

ghettochild4u:

Open ur mouth... Tell him its got to stop n ur house no b hotel or motel ooo....
Abi he's paying rent.. U shd travel for one week n go with ur key n see how he will react..

And do it without telling him. See his reaction and do the needful. Just know dat if anything happens to those girls,u will be held responsible(u are d owner of the apartment). D girls may not knw his own apartment(u neva said anything about that). Lastly, PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE. DON'T LET SOMEBODY INPLICATE U.

dierich:
Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

dont go and scatter 10yrs friendship because of woman o..thank God is 2 rooms so just let the guy be

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So he shouldn't be comfortable even when he has the money?

ReeLoaDead:
Sounds like the OP could be g.a.y and is actually in love with his friend.

He is sick and he needs company just incase something happens to him. Op is scared for his life.

dierich:


I used to travel with my key sometimes. I've once travel and left my key for him only to got home and see all stuffs he made with my apartment, since den I don't drop my keys. also I'm looking for a very decent and understanding way to table it down without causing quarrel. I know u understand me bro

Rocktation plz to d FP

Honestly i don't see any wrong in, ur OGo bringing gurls to ur apartment when its obvious he as none, i think the major thing heating you up is low self esteem,jealous out of envy ... if you sef be player with multi chicks i swear you won't have full details to complain these much. naa 3bedroom naa,haba!
dierich get babes or find a steady one that would come around often, that will limit ur friend actions, guys think twice b4 visiting there hommie with babes around all the time ... there is no way you can possibly tell him to stop bringing gurls that it wonnt sound like you downgrading him ...he is using your house becos he feels you are not using it use your activities to limit him not necessarily words

Ela020:


He is sick and he needs company just incase something happens to him. Op is scared for his life.

Oh I see .... that’s sad. Wishing him a full recovery.

Hello Bros sometimes we made some little mistake, what ever you can not tolerate do not accept it cos latter if you tolerate it, it will become a sin waiting for in the future. Now call him and let him know your mind. At first it will bring misunderstanding don't mind, he will understand your point. Take care

idiot u mumu no be small no b your guy .....stingy man ishort i hate u