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Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Hidemyface: 9:18am On Mar 29, 2019 |
So I have been bottling up for a long time now. My brother stays with me and his girl occasionally comes around. My issue with this is that my food ![]() |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by donbachi(m): 9:32am On Mar 29, 2019 |
New borns are brought into the world daily...God never complained of air shortage for you...common food you are complaining.why not hand everything to God and watch him provide more for you guys....whether you share or not,one day it will still finish.may God continually provide for you. |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Hidemyface: 9:34am On Mar 29, 2019 |
donbachi: Amen. 1 Like |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Richy4(m): 10:31am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Firstly..How old is your brother secondly..how long is he planning to stay @ your place ( Months or years) Thirdly... Do not be too scared to show him or tell him the situation about your account balance... Even a child understands when money is not available not to talk of someone old enough to have a girlfriend... Don't be a nag but be realistic about your financial situations with him.. 7 Likes |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Chiquitq(f): 12:45pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
how old are you/ are you the older brother or younger? why would you think of even talking to his fiance about not coming again? Food may be scarce today but abundant tommorrow. dont asssume that your brother wont be richer than you in the future. it may be this fiance that would be packing food stuff to give you. is your brother not working? if not, why the fiance status? if yes, what does he do with his money? Your brother should be able to read your body language also. small time now, he would impregnate her and she would refuse to go. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by piroux(f): 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
As a poster said, communicate to him as gently as possible that you cannot afford to feed two mouths right now. Don't allow anyone undermine your feelings, people can be entitled without even being aware of it. It's your food and your money so you have a right to know how it disappears. What you shouldn't do is talk to the girl. Let your brother do that. Why does a woman have a suicidal man who isn't doing well and still bothers him with her daily feeding anyway? Isn't she aware of his earnings and capabilities? Hmm, woman are trying sha. Get someone to talk to your brother though. If you're afraid to talk about food to him, then you're in more trouble than you know. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Hidemyface: 3:58pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
piroux: Chiquitq: Richy4: Thank you guys. Don't want to go into details as this post was intended to be a rant and outlet for my bottled up frustrations and I earnestly pray for things to turn around for him. My prayer has always been to have more than enough. I'll talk to him, it's just that I'm very patient to a fault. 1 Like |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by partnerbizz4: 6:44pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
Hidemyface: Is it only food that they are taking? |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Evtspez: 10:51pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
To advice you on your question, talk to your brother. I can't forget my mother's teachings, the one on food says "never deprive anyone of food, remember the end is poo" I have this joy when I offer people food and they accept. I love it. If I'm your bro if you ask me about the food stuff, I will never eat anything that belongs to you again. But we are different sha but........ Don't let your bro start de look you with one kind eye. |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Hidemyface: 1:37pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Evtspez:Thanks for the advise. I don't deny people food. In fact, I cook more than most ladies and gladly share my food ![]() |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by Hidemyface: 1:44pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
partnerbizz4:I summed everything to food. Others I'm learning to live with. |
Re: Who Should I Talk To, My Brother Or His Fiancee? by aanuoluwami14(f): 5:25pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Hidemyface: Tell your brother, he too knows what the economy says, haba. The girl too doesn't have shame, so she can't contribute to the feeding of the house. ![]() ![]() |
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