Marry with future in mind.

Many people make the mistake of getting into marriage based on their wants now without giving thought to future.

Many ladies want a guy with a good paying job, handsome, tall, dark and thick with 6 packs as jara while many guys also want a lady with figure 8, fair in complexion, naturally endowed front and back so their sexual desires can be satisfied etc.

They just marry for the present, they want to feel among, prove a point or to be the talk of the town, internet sensation etc.

Listen, wants and needs aren't the same. You can do without wants but not needs. Needs are things you cannot do without and these are what you should be looking out for in a man or a woman.

What you want today in a man may not be what you will want tomorrow, do you know why? wants changes constantly and a lot of things are responsible for that, but needs are consistent and constant, always the same.

There are things you will constantly need in a man or woman, things like love, patience, faithfulness, sacrifice, support etc. How does 6 packs add to your destiny? What about figure 8? These things are just wants. What you need is a need not wants, needs that sustain marriage. Well, that's if a happy ever after is your desire.

What I am trying to say is that, you shouldn't just marry based on your wants today, think about the future too. Will this lady or guy be there for you? Will he or she able to help you to fulfill God's mandate upon your life which is one of the things marriage is principally about?

I conclude by saying, marry with future in mind, don't marry for instant gratification.

Thank you
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© Okolie Samuel

well said, those are the exact words i told my ex when i discovered she always fancy men with materials things, im not doing bad oo but her high test of materials blocked her sense of needs. talked to her severally on the need to change her mind but the more i cautioned her the more we quarreled. well, thank God we broke up and im happy with my life.

thank you.