I broke up with this girl on the ground that she was a cheater, rude, irresponsible, likes money too much.This happened six years ago. Iam now a father of four happily and she suddenly start calling me demanding recharge cards and telling me that I supposed to be giving her allowances as if she gave me Job before seperating from me. Somebody that will call me and ruined curse on me shortly we separated. I learnt that a guy pregnanted her and got her married illegally, delivered of a baby Boy but she left the guy and now on her own. Friend what can I do? Should I listen to her?. I love my wife and do not want to hurt her should she realised Iam sending money to this girl. My wife knows her very well and she trusted me that I will never have any dealing with this my Ex. But She is human I believe she is in needy due to this country's economic melt down. Pls if you are in my shoe how will you react or handle this girl's issue' thanks for your contributions .

Buy sense,

Am sorry, but you don't need advice here. is a pity, you are not a sovereign man

No advice on this noble forum?

Stay away from her, you said she is not responsible, such person if you allow her, she may ruin your family.

Las Las na prick and toto una go join together.... Na like this e dey take start.

You love your wife indeed! If you loved her, why didn't you EVEN tell and discuss this with her first before nairaland if you truly want to be on the safe side


Sha go shook prick Jare, we know how e dey go ... Stop disrespecting the word LOVE!

Tell her to stay away from you. It's that simple. If you don't have the wits to do so be ready for the consequences if your wife finds out you've been communicating with your ex. Better yet change your phone number. Shikena!

Some of these girls do think some people 's brain is field up with mould.

I no believe this story

So, men with fish brain still dey? And if I call this one now mumu, I would be accused of insulting someone.


But Sir, let her carry her wahala go. She just have to live with the consequence of her decision to leave you then....

chukxie:
Tell her to stay away from you. It's that simple. If you don't have the wits to do so be ready for the consequences if your wife finds out you've been communicating with your ex. Better yet change your phone number. Shikena!

Thanks you soo much.

Six solid years and she still has your 'mumu button'...

I duff cap for that babe o.

You had 4 kids within a space of 6 years?
So on average, your wife delivers every 18 months??
Your wife is strong o

Seandisputed:
You had 4 kids within a space of 6 years?

So on average, your wife delivers every 18 months??

Your wife is strong o

we lost one and remain 3 kids (second one)

Chem20:
we lost one and remain 3 kids (second one)

Sorry about that.

Back to topic, don't give her the chance because you seem like a guy ladies would​ like to exploit. If any of my exes should call and start asking for gratuity, i'm not sure of what will happen to her though.

She obviously wants to get back, for the sake of your family don't give her that chance.

Them say na from clap dance dey start

you don't deserve advise!!!..you have a wife and kids..and you still pick the call of an ex who extort you?.. you are a neopyte...nansense!!

Chem20:
we lost one and remain 3 kids (second one)

twins lord... Bruh you need to cut ties with this daughter of Jezebel how will you feel if your wife does the same to you. Even you don't respect your wife try and respect your kids and above all FAMILY. If she threatens' you make her sign under taking so her body go calm down

Simple case. You're married and got nothing to do with her anymore. Keep her at a distance

Chem20:
I broke up with this girl on the ground that she was a cheater, rude, irresponsible, likes money too much.This happened six years ago. Iam now a father of four happily and she suddenly start calling me demanding recharge cards and telling me that I supposed to be giving her allowances as if she gave me Job before seperating from me. Somebody that will call me and ruined curse on me shortly we separated. I learnt that a guy pregnanted her and got her married illegally, delivered of a baby Boy but she left the guy and now on her own. Friend what can I do? Should I listen to her?. I love my wife and do not want to hurt her should she realised Iam sending money to this girl. My wife knows her very well and she trusted me that I will never have any dealing with this my Ex. But She is human I believe she is in needy due to this country's economic melt down. Pls if you are in my shoe how will you react or handle this girl's issue' thanks for your contributions .

The melt down didn't affect any of your family members or wife's family member? You are playing with fire and you surely get burnt if you don't stop

Chem20:
I broke up with this girl on the ground that she was a cheater, rude, irresponsible, likes money too much.This happened six years ago. Iam now a father of four happily and she suddenly start calling me demanding recharge cards and telling me that I supposed to be giving her allowances as if she gave me Job before seperating from me. Somebody that will call me and ruined curse on me shortly we separated. I learnt that a guy pregnanted her and got her married illegally, delivered of a baby Boy but she left the guy and now on her own. Friend what can I do? Should I listen to her?. I love my wife and do not want to hurt her should she realised Iam sending money to this girl. My wife knows her very well and she trusted me that I will never have any dealing with this my Ex. But She is human I believe she is in needy due to this country's economic melt down. Pls if you are in my shoe how will you react or handle this girl's issue' thanks for your contributions .

Are you normal?

Marry her as your second wife. You see as the devil miss road trying to set fire in your home and you are paving the way for that to happen. Congratulations.

Look at this senseless old man you sure your children are yours cos you don't behave maturely

Chem20:
Thanks you soo much.

You're welcome, bro.

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First,discuss this with your wife tell her the whole story,I know women are jealous of the ex and close female friends to their husbands.

Don't give her chance to meet you,if you doing anything for her let your wife knows.

Lastly,tell her you are married and you don't want problem in your marriage that you will be disappointing her frequently

Seandisputed:

Sorry about that.

Back to topic, don't give her the chance because you seem like a guy ladies would​ like to exploit. If any of my exes should call and start asking for gratuity, i'm not sure of what will happen to her though.

She obviously wants to get back, for the sake of your family don't give her that chance.

Them say na from clap dance dey start

correct guy. You hit my mind finally.

She's not your responsibility.. You owe her nada, the earlier you know that your family is your sole responsibility the better for you.. They are called ex for a reason, keep your generosity to yourself and if truly you want to assist, run it through your wife but it shouldn't be a constant thingy..

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Lemme add mine to urs

OP...buy 'SENSELLIN'

Chem20:
I broke up with this girl on the ground that she was a cheater, rude, irresponsible, likes money too much.This happened six years ago. Iam now a father of four happily and she suddenly start calling me demanding recharge cards and telling me that I supposed to be giving her allowances as if she gave me Job before seperating from me. Somebody that will call me and ruined curse on me shortly we separated. I learnt that a guy pregnanted her and got her married illegally, delivered of a baby Boy but she left the guy and now on her own. Friend what can I do? Should I listen to her?. I love my wife and do not want to hurt her should she realised Iam sending money to this girl. My wife knows her very well and she trusted me that I will never have any dealing with this my Ex. But She is human I believe she is in needy due to this country's economic melt down. Pls if you are in my shoe how will you react or handle this girl's issue' thanks for your contributions .

Your wife knows her very well , simple when next she calls give the phone to ur wife let them discuss since u dont have the mind to block her number. Look dont destroy ur marriage by getting close to u ex . Ur write up shows that u are a guy that finds it difficult to say no to women

to slap you just dy hungry me. i hope it will be alright for your wife to collect money from her ex too?

Try not giving her money for 1-3 month, if she does not die within that period she does not need your money to survive. You’d then be the fool to continue giving her money for only being foolish.

Chem20:
I broke up with this girl on the ground that she was a cheater, rude, irresponsible, likes money too much.This happened six years ago. Iam now a father of four happily and she suddenly start calling me demanding recharge cards and telling me that I supposed to be giving her allowances as if she gave me Job before seperating from me. Somebody that will call me and ruined curse on me shortly we separated. I learnt that a guy pregnanted her and got her married illegally, delivered of a baby Boy but she left the guy and now on her own. Friend what can I do? Should I listen to her?. I love my wife and do not want to hurt her should she realised Iam sending money to this girl. My wife knows her very well and she trusted me that I will never have any dealing with this my Ex. But She is human I believe she is in needy due to this country's economic melt down. Pls if you are in my shoe how will you react or handle this girl's issue' thanks for your contributions .

Poor kids, they have a stupid father.