Assalamualikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu,

I think we need to start a thread regarding good manners. I dont have that quality, i am trying to reach that point. Actually these days we can find very few people who have good manners and is liked by everyone. May Allah include us in the group of people having good manners. Ameen.


Abu Darda (RA) reported that Rasulullah (SAW) said,
“Nothing is weightier on the Scale of Deeds than one’s good manners.”
(Al-Bukhari)

Abu Hurairah (RA) said, “I heard Abu al Qasim say that Rasulullah (SAW), said,
‘The best among you in Islam are those with the best manners, so long as they develop a sense of understanding.'”
(Al-Bukhari)

Anas (RA) said,
“I served Rasulullah (SAW) for ten years. During that time, he never once said to me as much as ‘Oof’ if I did something wrong. He never asked me, if I had failed to do something, ‘Why did you not do it?,’ and he never said to me, if I had done something wrong, ‘Why did you do it?”
(Al-Bukhari)

Abu Hurairah (RA) said that Rasulullah (SAW) said,
“If one has good manners, one may attain the same level of merit as those who spend their nights in prayer.”
(Al-Bukhari)

Abu Hurairah reported that Rasulullah (SAW) said,
“And what is most likely to send people to Paradise? Being conscious of Allah and good manners.”
(Al-Bukhari)

Rasulullah (SAW) said,
“He who does not show mercy to our young or show esteem for our elders is not one of us.”
(Al-Bukhari)

Hadith - Bukhari's Book of Manners #329
,  Ibn 'Abbas said,
"If you wish to mention the faults of your friend, mention your own faults first."

Hadith - Bukhari's Book of Manners #330
,  Ibn 'Abbas said on the following verse of the Qur'an, "
Nor defame one another" (49:11), "Do not spend your time finding fault with one another."

Hadith - Bukhari's Book of Manners #545
Jubayr ibn Nufayr reported that Mu'adh ibn Jabal said,
"If you love someone, do not quarrel with him and do not annoy him. Do not ask others about him, for the one you ask might be his enemy and thus tell you things about him that are not true and thus break you apart."

If we know the rights of others on us, it'll go a long way in enhancing good manners.

Hadith - Sahih Bukhari, Muslim, Nasa'i, Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah, and Tabarani
Abu Huraira, r.a., reported that the Prophet (saw), said,
",  Having a sense of shame is one branch of faith."

Hadith - Bukhari's Book of Manners #420, Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi, Hakim, and Tahawi
Abu Huraira, r.a., reported that the Prophet of Allah, upon him be peace, said,
"A believer is frank and decent, whereas a wrongdoer is deceitful and blameworthy."

ds is a gd thread. I pray Allah helps us learn a lot from it

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Yahya related to me from Malik that Yahya ibn Said said, "I have heard that by his good character a man can reach the degree of the one who stands in prayer at night and the one who is thirsty from fasting in the heat of the day."
-Muwatta

DUA MAKAREMUL-AKHLAQ (SUPPLICATION FOR MORAL CHARACTER)

This dua was taught by the fourth Imam from the Ahlul-Bayt,Imam Ali Ibn al-Hussain (the great grandson of the Prophet Muhammad s.a.).he is also known as Imam as-Sajjad and Imam Zainul-Abideen.the dua is recorded in the book of duas taught by the Imam.the book is called "Sahifatus-Sajjadiyya".you can find translation and transliteration of the dua below and so many other duas in the same site below from the Imams of the Ahlul-Bayt (as).

http://www.duas.org/sajjadiya/s20.htm

Gbam!

i think we can attain good manners by being patient, finding fault in ourselves when we and some one else quarrel on an issue, have mercy on human beings, fear ur lord etc. i think it has been working for me for some time now.

Yes you are right. Subhanallah.
May Allah include us in the group of people with good manners.
Ameen.

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu.

Indeed anger is from the Shaytaan, and indeed Shaytaan was created
from fire, and indeed fire is put out with water. So if any of you were to
become angry, perform ablution (wudhu).
- Narrated by Abu Waa-il
(reported in Abu Dawud)

May ALLAH make good deeds easy for us to practise. This is a good thread.

misterh:

May ALLAH make good deeds easy for us to practise.

Ameen.

It is reported that, Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:
“I guarantee a house in Jannah (Paradise) for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and
I guarantee a house in the middle [/b]of Jannah for one who [b]abandons lying even for the sake of fun; and
I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners”

[ reported by Imam Abu Dawud]


I feel like posting this hadith again and again. The above mentioned 3 characters seems easy to achieve but in reality it is quite rare among us.
May Allah include us in the group of people with Good manners.
Ameen.