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A Must Read For All Women. Real Definition Of "Brokenness" by blessingchinny(f): 5:38pm On Apr 11, 2019
There is more to being broke than just having a zero account in one's account.

Confused right? Now Chill, let me give you a better illustration.

A broke man is a visionless man.
No doubt, he has so much money in his accounts, but doesn't spend it wisely.
This type of men spend extravagantly because most of their money are gotten through dubuios means.
They don't have a genuine or standard source of living.
Savings or investment seems like a rocket science to them, because they depend greatly on their ill gotten wealth. And then what happens where they get caught or no longer see whom to dupe?
Some may not be ill gotten wealth, but gambling. Then what happens when the gambling doesn't turn out positive?


Unfortunately, most ladies often get carried away and fall victim to this category of men.
They take you out, buy you sharwama, pizza and the likes. Spoils you to your satisfaction. But they can never give you a dime to add value to your life, learn a skill or probably start up a business. How would they? When they don't even have plans for their own life? But they are ready to spend an amount equivalent to that on drinks and meats .

There is more to life than eating pizza and visiting every happening bars and restaurant in town. Ask yourself... In few years to come... Say five years, can this type of man am hanging out with be able to take care of the home,, pay the bills and probably take care of the children?



Don't be deceived by long chains and fake Gucci's ...and probably a borrowed car. Most don't have a dime apart from the money to buy hero and 5 pieces of meat.

You see them spend as much as 20k per day, you begin to blush thinking they have so much money without knowing is their last dime.

Stick to a man with vision.
To you he might be broke or stingy because he doesn't dress shabilly, or spend unnecessarily. But that's because he is investing his money wisely for a better yield tomorrow. rather than on drinks and women.

He goes out to have fun occasionally, but spend moderately.

He is always simple, he does not need to broadcast himself, but his personality speaks more of him.

But unfortunately, we tag this kind of men as "stingy or broke". Well, I don't have much to say, but now is the best time to make the right decision. Otherwise few years from now, you will still be wondering around the city with your extravagant and supposed rich dude . While the assumed "broke dude cruizes around with a woman who was patient enough to realize his worth.

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